I hear you. I did have a prerequset, my girl had to work out. I didn't tell her that, I just made sure I hooked up with a chick that did. My wife is 35, 5 foot 5 and 115, and is solid muscle. She runs 3 miles a day, and eats mainly salad chicken turkey and fish. She looks better now than when I met her. She is Hungarian, and we've been married 10yrs, and I attribute that alot to training. Her self confidence is good, so she don't have to bang everyone to feel good about herself. She works at the Wynn here in Vegas, and most of these chicks are 21 to 25, and she is STILL in better shape than them all.I'm exceptionally proud of my wife.
as long as she gives me my daily blowjob, she can do whatever the fuck she wants with her free time