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Re: HAHA, I got totally played from online dating
« Reply #25 on: January 10, 2013, 11:15:19 AM »
volume is the way to win.

if you haven't talked to her in 2-3 days, shoot her a nice "whats shakin" text.  Then leave it alone for 2 weeks.

You should be so busy talking to 5 other girls that it's cool, you aren't losing sleep over it.  Can't go catching feelings.
the smartest thing to do is to find the richest girl then, not the best looking one.

If she agrees with working while you dont it's even better.

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she found a guy that she likes.  

once he has sex with her a few times, they'll become a couple, or he'll move on to new fish.

at that point, she'll text you out of the blue and expect to pick right up where yall left off.  It's how the game works.

Obviously, women act exactly the same way as men and everything you do, they re doing it , too. Well, the good looking ones. The not so good looking ones are more genuine, cause they dont have the choice to be. Good looking people are assholes because they can, ugly people are nice because they re forced to be.

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« Reply #26 on: January 10, 2013, 11:27:26 AM »
As I mentioned before. I hit up POF and had some successes with some 4's and 5's.  There was this one chick, super cute in her pics.  You can never tell if they are legit her so I asked her to IM me photos of her to prove it and she did.  She seemed smart, cute, whatever.  I am not dumb though.  I know being on POF she probably was towing a shitload of guys. She then gives me her number and we texted a shit load.  She was real open everything, then BOOM!  She stopped replying to me for a couple days now.  Fucking whores.  HAHA.  Am I hurt.  hell no, but I was looking forward to sticking my cock in her, raw, no pulling out in honor of BMC.

Why text for a few days when you know she's got tons of guys on her? You should have sealed the deal as soon as you got her number.  You snooze you lose.

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Re: HAHA, I got totally played from online dating
« Reply #27 on: January 10, 2013, 11:30:15 AM »
Why text for a few days when you know she's got tons of guys on her? You should have sealed the deal as soon as you got her number.  You snooze you lose.

I did move slow.  correct.

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« Reply #28 on: January 10, 2013, 11:31:15 AM »
the smartest thing to do is to find the richest girl then, not the best looking one.


Obviously, women act exactly the same way as men and everything you do, they re doing it , too. Well, the good looking ones. The not so good looking ones are more genuine, cause they dont have the choice to be. Good looking people are assholes because they can, ugly people are nice because they re forced to be.

Good point on your last paragraph. I've stated this before, and I'll say it again. There is no logical advantage of going after the "hottest chick" even if you're rich. They are more than likely demanding cu nts that want their every whim to be catered to. "Aint nobody got time fa' dat." An attractive female with an awesome personality is more than likely more grounded. I make it a point (especially when I'm in shape and at my handsomenest ((now)) to treat these uberbitches like trash when they feel they can get their way. I don't play that shit. All the pussy ass beta bow before them. No fucking pride.

Most hot chicks are good for a fuck or to beat off to in porn but I'd never ever want to have to deal with the bullshit that comes with it. Not worth it. Give me an 8 tops.
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« Reply #29 on: January 10, 2013, 11:37:34 AM »
Good point on your last paragraph. I've stated this before, and I'll say it again. There is no logical advantage of going after the "hottest chick" even if you're rich. They are more than likely demanding cu nts that want their every whim to be catered to. "Aint nobody got time fa' dat." An attractive female with an awesome personality is more than likely more grounded. I make it a point (especially when I'm in shape and at my handsomenest ((now)) to treat these uberbitches like trash when they feel they can get their way. I don't play that shit. All the pussy ass beta bow before them. No fucking pride.

Most hot chicks are good for a fuck or to beat off to in porn but I'd never ever want to have to deal with the bullshit that comes with it. Not worth it. Give me an 8 tops.

There is no way a white woman who is worth more than a 4 ever gives you the time of the day. If at least you were rich and less nerdy, you could get maybe a 6 or 7 white woman, who would let you work while she empties your wallet daily at the local mall, but that's about it.

you re just rightfully and logically so looking for average women cause you are average yourself, dude. Make no mistake. Good looking women only go with good looking men or filthy rich and stable men. Never for the average or ugly looking dude who has no money.


And you probably dont interest good looking women whatever their skin color, especially if you re unemployed. You can only settle with someone at the same level as yours. Prolly a not so good looking fat, unemployed woman. But I guess you ll find a fat not so good looking woman who works so you ll be able to stay at home while she's the bread winner.
So you ll be happy if she s at least WHITE, to impress other black people. That's your only realistic option, as black women will probably want you to work lol.

You re just slowly rationalizing things as you age and the opportunities get fewer, but that's the most logical option you re left with; we only get what we can get depending of what we have to offer in the end, nothing more, nothing less. And once we have it we can either dump it for better, or keep it at all costs (or ruin it all).
Good luck to you finding that not so good looking, fat white woman who works and will support you.

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Re: HAHA, I got totally played from online dating
« Reply #30 on: January 10, 2013, 11:49:58 AM »
you re just rightfully and logically so looking for average women cause you are average yourself, dude. Make no mistake. Good looking women only go with good looking men or filthy rich and stable men. Never for the average or ugly looking dude who has no money.


And you probably dont interest good looking women whatever their skin color, especially if you re unemployed. You can only settle with someone at the same level as yours. Prolly a not so good looking fat, unemployed woman. But I guess you ll find a fat not so good looking woman who works so you ll be able to stay at home while she's the bread winner.
So you ll be happy if she s at least WHITE, to impress other black people. That's your only realistic option, as black women will probably want you to work lol.

You re just slowly rationalizing things as you age and the opportunities get fewer, but that's the most logical option you re left with; we only get what we can get depending of what we have to offer in the end, nothing more, nothing less. And once we have it we can either dump it for better, or keep it at all costs (or ruin it all).
Good luck to you finding that not so good looking, fat white woman who works and will support you.

You'd like this to be true. But it's not. Obviously when I'm a fatass, I'm less attractive. When I'm in shape, (now), I'm good looking. I get it all the time. Hell, I even get it on this board. So, enough with the average shit cause it holds no weight. You have no idea what my financial situation is. You can pull anything you want and see, I get no form of gubment assistance. I do quite fine for myself and it allows to do what I want, when I want. Sorry to crush your little fantasy. So take your skinny little ass to work and be happy you found a woman to tolerate you. We've seen you'r pics and it's very clear whose good looking and who isn't.

Try getting new material instead or recycling old shit. I don't date fat chicks and I don't settle.
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Re: HAHA, I got totally played from online dating
« Reply #31 on: January 10, 2013, 11:51:23 AM »
You'd like this to be true. But it's not. Obviously when I'm a fatass, I'm less attractive. When I'm in shape, (now), I'm good looking. I get it all the time. Hell, I even get it on this board. So, enough with the average shit cause it holds no weight. You have no idea what my financial situation is. You can pull anything you want and see, I get no form of gubment assistance. I do quite fine for myself and it allows to do what I want, when I want. Sorry to crush your little fantasy. So take your skinny little ass to work and be happy you found a woman to tolerate you. We've seen you'r pics and it's very clear whose good looking and who isn't.

Try getting new material instead or recycling old shit. I don't date fat chicks and I don't settle.


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Re: HAHA, I got totally played from online dating
« Reply #32 on: January 10, 2013, 11:53:40 AM »
There is no way a white woman who is worth more than a 4 ever gives you the time of the day. If at least you were rich and less nerdy, you could get maybe a 6 or 7 white woman, who would let you work while she empties your wallet daily at the local mall, but that's about it.

you re just rightfully and logically so looking for average women cause you are average yourself, dude. Make no mistake. Good looking women only go with good looking men or filthy rich and stable men. Never for the average or ugly looking dude who has no money.


And you probably dont interest good looking women whatever their skin color, especially if you re unemployed. You can only settle with someone at the same level as yours. Prolly a not so good looking fat, unemployed woman. But I guess you ll find a fat not so good looking woman who works so you ll be able to stay at home while she's the bread winner.
So you ll be happy if she s at least WHITE, to impress other black people. That's your only realistic option, as black women will probably want you to work lol.

You re just slowly rationalizing things as you age and the opportunities get fewer, but that's the most logical option you re left with; we only get what we can get depending of what we have to offer in the end, nothing more, nothing less. And once we have it we can either dump it for better, or keep it at all costs (or ruin it all).
Good luck to you finding that not so good looking, fat white woman who works and will support you.

Going to disagree on some of what you wrote.

Women are emotional beings and are subject to PUA tactics. Try them...they work. You would shock yourself. Wiggs is no doubt a master at them.

Confidence and game are extremely important in seducing a woman. Not just money or looks. Though, for the long-term, it's near impossible to KEEP a woman without having looks or money (as their needs in the long term require a partner who can be supportive and a provider).

I'm sure Wiggs isn't meeting girls and immediately showing them his net worth statement and his career progression path. He's charming, handsome, and putting them at ease with his calm demeanor, confidence, sense of humor and sharp wit. Any man knows it starts there...in the mind, with the imagination. You have to work more than just her eyes. Being very good looking certainly removes a lot of obstacles, but a fairly average man knows how to surmount those obstacles if he understands the subtleties of human nature, body language and conversation.

In the short term, many an ugly man with excellent pickup skills and little else of note has snagged his share of 8's and 9's. I'm living proof that ugly men can and do succeed with women.

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Re: HAHA, I got totally played from online dating
« Reply #33 on: January 10, 2013, 11:53:43 AM »


Typically used when one is at a loss for words. You know your role. Now scram serf.
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Re: HAHA, I got totally played from online dating
« Reply #34 on: January 10, 2013, 11:56:32 AM »
Quote from: uberman link=topic=date=1357845319
Good looking people are assholes because they can, ugly people are nice because they re forced to be.

who are you trying to convice you are pretty?
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Re: HAHA, I got totally played from online dating
« Reply #35 on: January 10, 2013, 12:03:32 PM »
Going to disagree on some of what you wrote.

Women are emotional beings and are subject to PUA tactics. Try them...they work. You would shock yourself. Wiggs is no doubt a master at them.

Confidence and game are extremely important in seducing a woman. Not just money or looks. Though, for the long-term, it's near impossible to KEEP a woman without having looks or money (as their needs in the long term require a partner who can be supportive and a provider).

I'm sure Wiggs isn't meeting girls and immediately showing them his net worth statement and his career progression path. He's charming, handsome, and putting them at ease with his calm demeanor, confidence, sense of humor and sharp wit. Any man knows it starts there...in the mind, with the imagination. You have to work more than just her eyes. Being very good looking certainly removes a lot of obstacles, but a fairly average man knows how to surmount those obstacles if he understands the subtleties of human nature, body language and conversation.

In the short term, many an ugly man with excellent pickup skills and little else of note has snagged his share of 8's and 9's. I'm living proof that ugly men can and do succeed with women.

He's not interested in any of that. He just wants to control his wife and get his daily blow job. He's so pathetic and has such low self confidence, anything he can't control he wants no part of. The idea of a woman with free will is foreign to him. Because he knows personality wise, he has nothing to offer but fear and control. Not too many redeeming qualities about him. His social skills are absolutely abhorrent. I couldn't imagine him in a social scene trying to pick up on women. I would be a hilarious disaster. He's a miserable little nugget. It makes me laugh. Especially when all the lies or stories these guys have in their head about me. It's quite humorous. But it comes with the territory when you are a vocal opinionated person. So I understand it.  

In addition uberman, I forgot to add to my list: Bachelor's degrees, 10 year distinguished U.S. Air Force service, world travel, cultured, bilingual and  so much more...lol...I shit on you in life and you can't handle it and refuse to accept it. hahahahahha.
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Re: HAHA, I got totally played from online dating
« Reply #36 on: January 10, 2013, 12:13:59 PM »
You'd like this to be true. But it's not. Obviously when I'm a fatass, I'm less attractive. When I'm in shape, (now), I'm good looking. I get it all the time. Hell, I even get it on this board. So, enough with the average shit cause it holds no weight. You have no idea what my financial situation is. You can pull anything you want and see, I get no form of gubment assistance. I do quite fine for myself and it allows to do what I want, when I want. Sorry to crush your little fantasy. So take your skinny little ass to work and be happy you found a woman to tolerate you. We've seen you'r pics and it's very clear whose good looking and who isn't.

Try getting new material instead or recycling old shit. I don't date fat chicks and I don't settle.

I was friends with a guy whose sister was a legit very attractive actress that was on Broadway, and the understudy to an extremely famous actress.
One New Year's Eve, she was home for the Holidays, and she is out with her brother.  I was recently single, and had never met my friend's sister.  His family lives about a 40 minute drive from me, and we didn't go to the same school, but competed against each other.  

She sort of latched on to me early on in the night, because she liked to dance, and so do I.  I thought it was completely platonic, but of course it was expected of me to buy her drinks.  I was a true gentleman and treated her like a lady.  The end of the night comes and she writes down her number for me, and tells me that if I'm ever in the city, to look her up and we'll grab lunch, coffee or some drinks.  I was cool with that, as one of my best friends lives right over the bridge in Ridgewood, and I would come up from time to time to hang out and train at Strong & Shapely.

I call her and meet up for brunch the day after I trained.  I took her to Norma's at the Parker Meridien because I have some connections there and don't have to wait in the long line.  We really hit it off, or so I thought.  She tells me she has to get to rehearsal by a certain time, so she doesn't have much time to hang out, but that she'll be visiting the following week, and we should definitely get together for dinner.

Again, I was cool with how things were progressing, as I knew she was a  good girl, her family was very proper, and was not rushing into anything.  

Well, she calls me at 7:00 Saturday night the following week and says:  "I'm getting kind of hungry, can you pick me up in a half hour?"

Remmeber I told you she lives 40 minutes away from me? I tellher that I wish she would have called me to tell me that she was in town prior to 7 p.m., and that I just got finished a workout, and I need to shower up, so I'll be at least an hour and 10 miuntes to an hour and a half.

She totally blows up and starts saying shit like:  "Obviously I am not important to you."  "I guess I totally misread you."  "You are all the sam."

I basically tell her to slwo her roll, and that I will be there, but not at the exact minute she wants, and the reason I wish she would have called earlier would be so that I could get a reservation at this sushi place we ahd talked about.

Further, I was not going to jump every time she told me she could meet up at the last minute.  This was a Saturday night, and I was going to shoot pool with some friends of mine and was going to cancel to see her.  If that isn't good enough then there is no need to come see her.  She gets all pissy and then says:  "I'm really hungry.  Please hurry."

I tell her that I am not just some meal ticket, and that I wouldn't be coming.  I told her that her attitutde sucked and the diva role may work on Broadway, it wasn't working with me.

Her brother thanked me for talking to her like that.

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Re: HAHA, I got totally played from online dating
« Reply #37 on: January 10, 2013, 12:20:08 PM »
I was friends with a guy whose sister was a legit very attractive actress that was on Broadway, and the understudy to an extremely famous actress.
One New Year's Eve, she was home for the Holidays, and she is out with her brother.  I was recently single, and had never met my friend's sister.  His family lives about a 40 minute drive from me, and we didn't go to the same school, but competed against each other.  

She sort of latched on to me early on in the night, because she liked to dance, and so do I.  I thought it was completely platonic, but of course it was expected of me to buy her drinks.  I was a true gentleman and treated her like a lady.  The end of the night comes and she writes down her number for me, and tells me that if I'm ever in the city, to look her up and we'll grab lunch, coffee or some drinks.  I was cool with that, as one of my best friends lives right over the bridge in Ridgewood, and I would come up from time to time to hang out and train at Strong & Shapely.

I call her and meet up for brunch the day after I trained.  I took her to Norma's at the Parker Meridien because I have some connections there and don't have to wait in the long line.  We really hit it off, or so I thought.  She tells me she has to get to rehearsal by a certain time, so she doesn't have much time to hang out, but that she'll be visiting the following week, and we should definitely get together for dinner.

Again, I was cool with how things were progressing, as I knew she was a  good girl, her family was very proper, and was not rushing into anything.  

Well, she calls me at 7:00 Saturday night the following week and says:  "I'm getting kind of hungry, can you pick me up in a half hour?"

Remmeber I told you she lives 40 minutes away from me? I tellher that I wish she would have called me to tell me that she was in town prior to 7 p.m., and that I just got finished a workout, and I need to shower up, so I'll be at least an hour and 10 miuntes to an hour and a half.

She totally blows up and starts saying shit like:  "Obviously I am not important to you."  "I guess I totally misread you."  "You are all the sam."

I basically tell her to slwo her roll, and that I will be there, but not at the exact minute she wants, and the reason I wish she would have called earlier would be so that I could get a reservation at this sushi place we ahd talked about.

Further, I was not going to jump every time she told me she could meet up at the last minute.  This was a Saturday night, and I was going to shoot pool with some friends of mine and was going to cancel to see her.  If that isn't good enough then there is no need to come see her.  She gets all pissy and then says:  "I'm really hungry.  Please hurry."

I tell her that I am not just some meal ticket, and that I wouldn't be coming.  I told her that her attitutde sucked and the diva role may work on Broadway, it wasn't working with me.

Her brother thanked me for talking to her like that.

Good shit bro. Good shit. I'll never bow to a fine bitch.  They need a wake up call and I'm always available for that. Being really witty/cunning about it to the point it makes them blow a gasket is the best.
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Re: HAHA, I got totally played from online dating
« Reply #38 on: January 10, 2013, 12:26:20 PM »
I was friends with a guy whose sister was a legit very attractive actress that was on Broadway, and the understudy to an extremely famous actress.
One New Year's Eve, she was home for the Holidays, and she is out with her brother.  I was recently single, and had never met my friend's sister.  His family lives about a 40 minute drive from me, and we didn't go to the same school, but competed against each other.  

She sort of latched on to me early on in the night, because she liked to dance, and so do I.  I thought it was completely platonic, but of course it was expected of me to buy her drinks.  I was a true gentleman and treated her like a lady.  The end of the night comes and she writes down her number for me, and tells me that if I'm ever in the city, to look her up and we'll grab lunch, coffee or some drinks.  I was cool with that, as one of my best friends lives right over the bridge in Ridgewood, and I would come up from time to time to hang out and train at Strong & Shapely.

I call her and meet up for brunch the day after I trained.  I took her to Norma's at the Parker Meridien because I have some connections there and don't have to wait in the long line.  We really hit it off, or so I thought.  She tells me she has to get to rehearsal by a certain time, so she doesn't have much time to hang out, but that she'll be visiting the following week, and we should definitely get together for dinner.

Again, I was cool with how things were progressing, as I knew she was a  good girl, her family was very proper, and was not rushing into anything.  

Well, she calls me at 7:00 Saturday night the following week and says:  "I'm getting kind of hungry, can you pick me up in a half hour?"

Remmeber I told you she lives 40 minutes away from me? I tellher that I wish she would have called me to tell me that she was in town prior to 7 p.m., and that I just got finished a workout, and I need to shower up, so I'll be at least an hour and 10 miuntes to an hour and a half.

She totally blows up and starts saying shit like:  "Obviously I am not important to you."  "I guess I totally misread you."  "You are all the sam."

I basically tell her to slwo her roll, and that I will be there, but not at the exact minute she wants, and the reason I wish she would have called earlier would be so that I could get a reservation at this sushi place we ahd talked about.

Further, I was not going to jump every time she told me she could meet up at the last minute.  This was a Saturday night, and I was going to shoot pool with some friends of mine and was going to cancel to see her.  If that isn't good enough then there is no need to come see her.  She gets all pissy and then says:  "I'm really hungry.  Please hurry."

I tell her that I am not just some meal ticket, and that I wouldn't be coming.  I told her that her attitutde sucked and the diva role may work on Broadway, it wasn't working with me.

Her brother thanked me for talking to her like that.

Looking back, I'm pretty sure you wanted to give her a standard getbig "creative" solution to her "I'm hungry" problem, right? Ayyyyooooohhhhh!

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Re: HAHA, I got totally played from online dating
« Reply #39 on: January 10, 2013, 12:27:16 PM »
Good shit bro. Good shit. I'll never bow to a fine bitch.  They need a wake up call and I'm always available for that. Being really witty/cunning about it to the point it makes them blow a gasket is the best.

Wiggs, this girl was a 9/10 in anyone's book, and her family had LOOT.  She was on the surface damned near exactly what I had been looking for.  
At brunch, she told me that while she loved acting, if she didn't make it in a couple of years, then she was going to move home, take some extra courses so she could get her teaching degree.  She told me how she hated the city scene regarding men, how they basically were all pigs (this is very true of NYC due to how much $$$ some of them make), none of them go to Mass, don't have family values, etc.

But then she pulled the diva shit on me, like I'm supposed to change my plans, jump in my car to see her, and be thrilled about how she didn't have the common courtesy to call me the day before, or even a few hours before.  

Her brother wanted me to make things up with her, but she had pissed me off to the point that I told him:  "If she wants to talk to me badly enough, she'll call, apoloigze, and we can start fresh."

He told me that she'd never do that, and told him that I was cool with that.  He was like Dude, she really wants you to call her."  

I told him that I really wanted a Ferrari, but that sometimes you don' tget what you want just because you throw a little tantrum.

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Re: HAHA, I got totally played from online dating
« Reply #40 on: January 10, 2013, 12:31:01 PM »
Wiggs, this girl was a 9/10 in anyone's book, and her family had LOOT.  She was on the surface damned near exactly what I had been looking for.  
At brunch, she told me that while she loved acting, if she didn't make it in a couple of years, then she was going to move home, take some extra courses so she could get her teaching degree.  She told me how she hated the city scene regarding men, how they basically were all pigs (this is very true of NYC due to how much $$$ some of them make), none of them go to Mass, don't have family values, etc.

But then she pulled the diva shit on me, like I'm supposed to change my plans, jump in my car to see her, and be thrilled about how she didn't have the common courtesy to call me the day before, or even a few hours before.  

Her brother wanted me to make things up with her, but she had pissed me off to the point that I told him:  "If she wants to talk to me badly enough, she'll call, apoloigze, and we can start fresh."

He told me that she'd never do that, and told him that I was cool with that.  He was like Dude, she really wants you to call her."  

I told him that I really wanted a Ferrari, but that sometimes you don' tget what you want just because you throw a little tantrum.

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Re: HAHA, I got totally played from online dating
« Reply #41 on: January 10, 2013, 12:36:56 PM »
Wiggs, the sad thing is that she is still single.
Her father was a very high profile doctor who got indicted for being, shall we say, fast and loose with the pain pill subscriptions?

They were multi-millionaires, but the kids (her and the brother I was friends with) were spoiled rotten, and never had to work very hard.  Like I said, she was acting since childhood with no real source of income, but was allowed to pursue her "dream" for a very long time without any hope of supporting herself.

No favors were done for either child by treating them like this.

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Re: HAHA, I got totally played from online dating
« Reply #42 on: January 10, 2013, 12:37:24 PM »
I was friends with a guy whose sister was a legit very attractive actress that was on Broadway, and the understudy to an extremely famous actress.
One New Year's Eve, she was home for the Holidays, and she is out with her brother.  I was recently single, and had never met my friend's sister.  His family lives about a 40 minute drive from me, and we didn't go to the same school, but competed against each other.  

She sort of latched on to me early on in the night, because she liked to dance, and so do I.  I thought it was completely platonic, but of course it was expected of me to buy her drinks.  I was a true gentleman and treated her like a lady.  The end of the night comes and she writes down her number for me, and tells me that if I'm ever in the city, to look her up and we'll grab lunch, coffee or some drinks.  I was cool with that, as one of my best friends lives right over the bridge in Ridgewood, and I would come up from time to time to hang out and train at Strong & Shapely.

I call her and meet up for brunch the day after I trained.  I took her to Norma's at the Parker Meridien because I have some connections there and don't have to wait in the long line.  We really hit it off, or so I thought.  She tells me she has to get to rehearsal by a certain time, so she doesn't have much time to hang out, but that she'll be visiting the following week, and we should definitely get together for dinner.

Again, I was cool with how things were progressing, as I knew she was a  good girl, her family was very proper, and was not rushing into anything.  

Well, she calls me at 7:00 Saturday night the following week and says:  "I'm getting kind of hungry, can you pick me up in a half hour?"

Remmeber I told you she lives 40 minutes away from me? I tellher that I wish she would have called me to tell me that she was in town prior to 7 p.m., and that I just got finished a workout, and I need to shower up, so I'll be at least an hour and 10 miuntes to an hour and a half.

She totally blows up and starts saying shit like:  "Obviously I am not important to you."  "I guess I totally misread you."  "You are all the sam."

I basically tell her to slwo her roll, and that I will be there, but not at the exact minute she wants, and the reason I wish she would have called earlier would be so that I could get a reservation at this sushi place we ahd talked about.

Further, I was not going to jump every time she told me she could meet up at the last minute.  This was a Saturday night, and I was going to shoot pool with some friends of mine and was going to cancel to see her.  If that isn't good enough then there is no need to come see her.  She gets all pissy and then says:  "I'm really hungry.  Please hurry."

I tell her that I am not just some meal ticket, and that I wouldn't be coming.  I told her that her attitutde sucked and the diva role may work on Broadway, it wasn't working with me.

Her brother thanked me for talking to her like that.
lol; a headcase , you re not losing much. It's not a "diva thing", it's just that she s an asshole who has no idea how to deal with men.

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Re: HAHA, I got totally played from online dating
« Reply #43 on: January 10, 2013, 12:39:12 PM »
Wiggs, the sad thing is that she is still single.
Her father was a very high profile doctor who got indicted for being, shall we say, fast and loose with the pain pill subscriptions?

They were multi-millionaires, but the kids (her and the brother I was friends with) were spoiled rotten, and never had to work very hard.  Like I said, she was acting since childhood with no real source of income, but was allowed to pursue her "dream" for a very long time without any hope of supporting herself.

No favors were done for either child by treating them like this.

I don't blame anyone for being rich. That's the way the system is set up. I do blame people losing their humanity and treating people like "lesser than" whether it be over money or looks.
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Re: HAHA, I got totally played from online dating
« Reply #44 on: January 10, 2013, 12:42:39 PM »
Wiggs, this girl was a 9/10 in anyone's book, and her family had LOOT.  She was on the surface damned near exactly what I had been looking for.  
At brunch, she told me that while she loved acting, if she didn't make it in a couple of years, then she was going to move home, take some extra courses so she could get her teaching degree.  She told me how she hated the city scene regarding men, how they basically were all pigs (this is very true of NYC due to how much $$$ some of them make), none of them go to Mass, don't have family values, etc.

lol, why does she keep going there doing her "acting" crap then? cause she likes it, and she likes these men, but they dont want her as they want submissive women, not some self proclaimed intellectual girl who thinks her shit doesnt stink cause she "acts" well. Lol. Men want caring submissive women who take care of themselves and the house husband and kids how many times does it have to be repeated.
And women want men who work and dont cheat on them. As simple as that.
Seriously by the description you make of it she s more like a manipulative bitch who s looking for a submissive man to control and nothing else; probably thought you were that kind of guy being nice and all, until you owned and exposed her sorry immature ass. But i doubt she would learn the lesson, i bet she s still looking for that poor asshole to own and treat like a dog, someone rich if possible.

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Re: HAHA, I got totally played from online dating
« Reply #45 on: January 10, 2013, 12:45:29 PM »
lol; a headcase , you re not losing much. It's not a "diva thing", it's just that she s an asshole who has no idea how to deal with men. Dad was probably a couch potato doing all his wife wanted just like her brother.

Uberman, I'm now happily married with children.  I avoided a large caliber bullett by not hooking up with her, believe me, I know.

I run into my old friend like twice a year or so and he usually brings his sister up, as he is married with children, and wants his sister to have a family, etc.

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Re: HAHA, I got totally played from online dating
« Reply #46 on: January 10, 2013, 12:49:59 PM »
Uberman, I'm now happily married with children.  I avoided a large caliber bullett by not hooking up with her, believe me, I know.

I run into my old friend like twice a year or so and he usually brings his sister up, as he is married with children, and wants his sister to have a family, etc.
well it would be helpful to her to give her the url to this thread so she realizes what men think.

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Re: HAHA, I got totally played from online dating
« Reply #47 on: January 10, 2013, 01:09:36 PM »
I so badly want to post her URL, but the whore has my cell number from texting her.  Last thing I need is bitch posting my cell number and photo online.  That is if she hasn't already done so.  I don't want to start a shit storm I have no control over.

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Re: HAHA, I got totally played from online dating
« Reply #48 on: January 10, 2013, 01:52:41 PM »
I so badly want to post her URL, but the whore has my cell number from texting her.  Last thing I need is bitch posting my cell number and photo online.  That is if she hasn't already done so.  I don't want to start a shit storm I have no control over.

PM that URL to us.

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Re: HAHA, I got totally played from online dating
« Reply #49 on: January 10, 2013, 01:53:50 PM »
I would have played it totally different. You were right in principle, but i think you jumped the gun.

You stuck up for yoursef, and she texted back "please hurry, Im hungry"...yeah, she's being a little diva. so fucking what. This is what i mean by "the game"..everyone is soooooo afraid to be the one who "gives" anything when it comes to a relationship, or be seen as subservient or whatever the fuck.

She wasn't asking for your right arm. i would have met her for dinner and said "Okay, You wanted me here,  Im here, ...now lets get some shit straight....." and proceeded to tell her in a very charming yet firm way that I'm not a doctor who is on call 24/7, I like you and i think we might have something here, so i came...but this AIN'T  gonna be a fucking habit.... and, moreover.. i am FLATTERED that she wanted to spend time with me, I've been thinking about you too, she looks AMAZING, and I'm so happy to see you..... and i would have banged the living shit out of her.  But you go play pool with your boys with your pride intact  ;D

She wanted you do show her something, that you are different from the rich dickheads in Manhattan. you chose not to. it doesn't mean that's the way it's always gonna be, and she's going to walk all over you, but you gotta give to get.

After that, now that you have fucked, and she's in your life to some degree...you stand your ground and tell her what's up . but get the pussy first. Jesus i have to tell you guys everything..LOLOLOL

No need to get pissed dude, You are married and have good life, and I'm sure you have no regrets...I'm just saying i would have played that differently.