What you have to realize is that I am not into the whole fucking outing shit...either directly or indirectly.
It's not my fucking style. If I got a problem with someone I tell em to pick up the phone and ring me, that's my style.
Don't believe me, ask Bigmc, he will vouch for me and what I did for him.
Ask Skorp1, he will say the same thing...people who actually talk to me on the phone and know me better.
What I am in, is in a trusted position where I find out about shit, through third party where at least I have lines of communication open and can negotiate if things get out of hand.
I have explained this several times to bigmc on the phone, I would rather lines of communications open than closed.
Makes more sense that way and gives more control.
No One pm sent.