Well, It is safe to say me and Wil (Pumpster's real name) is over.
I got over 50 missed calls from him. I had to have a friend pick up my phone and from what my friend told me, pumpster is threatening to call my job and also my ex-wife to get me in trouble. I am not going to explain on here. It a very long and complicated story and Im tired of the drama that has unfolded with my job and my ex-wife. I confided in Pumpster as a friend.
I started talking to Pumpster on this site years ago. I thought he knew about working out and nutrition. So tried to get as much knowledge as I can from him because if you are a true fan of bodybuilding and love working out, you are going to appply as much knowledge as you can in your day to day life so it can help you with your goals.
So this is how me and Pumpster started an online "friendship". I never met the guy in person. Just talked on the phone and online using Skype.
He sent me links to his photobucket and I noticed pictures of the gentleman you see exposed as pumpster. I started thinking maybe pumpster doesnt practice what he preaches or maybe he is just an old guy with a lot of experience and knowledge about nutrition and weight training. So I didnt hold this against him. I thought a friendship was already established.
Well it turned out that the guy int he pics really are pumpster because he showed himself on webcam..still I did not hold it against him.
As you and a lot of people know, I tried to defend him on here. He emailed me a pic and told me to post it oin getbig so people would believe its him. I did that to support a friend.
Well, fast forward a few months leading up to years. I thought that we had established a friendship that I tell him personal things going on with my life...girlfriends and ex wives. Thats how personal it got...thought I could trust him.
Me and Pumpster planned to go to 2009's Mr. Olympia and expo. But here is the catch, he wanted me to drive over 1200 miles to Vegas just so I can be his freakin Taxi. I told him that my car has 150,00 miles on it and I cant do that. WHat happens if it breaks down, ect?
Im in the military...I dont need or want the drama of being accused of AWOL if my car broke down in the middle of no where. I told him that I cannot drive my car to Vegas and then have to drive back home..that is freakin over 2500 miles added to my car!
Well, he gets pissed off and tells me that his trip to the Olympia is based on my car and me driving with my car to Vegas. I told him, "Why dont you rent a rental car snd drive to Vegas yourself?". He tells me that I am no friend because I dont want to do this. I asked him what will be his sacrifice/contribution for the trip to the Olympia? Is he going to pay for a rental car, gas, hotel, what?
He tells me to give him the Olympia tickets that I have resevred for me if I was a good friend just so he can go. I tell him, "I cant" and he gets pissed off ending our "supposed friendship"
If I went to the Olympia with him, I can guarantee you that I would have been his taxi. I would have ended up paying for the rooms and food and such...pissed me off.
I am a nice guy but I also know when someone is trying to take advantage of me.
If you have friends like this? . Who needs enemies?
Pumpster believes that it is I that exposed him on this site. That I leaked his pictures.
Well, I didnt!
Our friendship is over Pumpster! You threatened my job, threaten me you are going to call my ex wife, for what? Try to ruin my reputation?
You crossed the line! You are not a friend...
Yes, that guy in those pics are pumpster! Im telling the truth.