Harley,
If you could start over, would you still choose to be a lawyer, or do you ever regret not pursuing another career?
Dear Shizzo,
That is truly a great question. It is perhaps the biggest question we can ask ourselves.
I am ambivalent on how to answer so I will put it all out there in an honest fashion.
At times, I wish I had gone to medical school like my father. Lawyers receive no respect from those outside their profession
and certainly none from within. I may be recognized as many things in my capacity as a lawyer, but hardly ever as "smart." I
think a large part of my ego is bothered by that. Doctors are recognized as being far more intelligent than most others (demeanor aside)
and I feel a bit jaded that I have not earned that recognition. I also believe that had I become a doctor, my clients (patients) would be
far more appreciative than my legal clients. I know that I would be helping people every day and that is important to me. I also know that
my hours would be far less than the 60 - 70 I work now.
I know I would have enjoyed being an Emergency Medical Technician and driving around in an ambulance and responding to people in need.
Intellectually, I would have been disappointed but that type of job is both fun and rewarding.
I would like to have run a major center for mentally challenged people in order to improve their lives. As a big shot CEO of some company that
helps people like that, I could make real changes for many people.
I also think that I could do very well in a marketing/athlete research position for the UFC.
However, in the end, I can't really complain. My natural talent took me to where I could use as much of it as possible. I am a Criminal Defense
Trial Attorney. Every once in a while, I actually help an innocent person. I fuck with the government every day. I make a decent living. I don't
break my back. All in all, I landed where I should've landed.
Harley