My thoughts exactly.
If people understood the details of this showdown they wouldn't be so quick to condemn the Republicans. Rebubs in the House are basically compromising and negotiating with themselves and can't get so much as a "fuck you" from Obama or the Senate. They are trying to send over individual bills to fund every aspect of the government and the Democrats are saying it's all or nothing.
It should be all or nothing
The ACA was signed into law, passed a Supreme Court Challenge and then we had a National Election where the Republican candidate vowed to repeal it if elected and he lost
Your side LOST so deal with it (and actually still wins since many poor and middle class Republican will no doubt take advantage of the benefits)