Okay, I have time now. I don't care if you secretly enjoy pornography, or are living in sin, or commit adultery by being divorced. If those things are wrong, then it's a function of the rigid rules you've set up for yourself, based on your religion. But you've come to a women's board to discuss female sexuality, yes? You've made an assumption that women having sex outside of marriage are basically "meat for men." That's a little weird to me. There are extremes but a whole lot to fill in the middle. Not every woman who has sex outside of marriage feels, or is being, used. You're just projecting your unhealthy attitudes onto others.
I was actually laughing at your pronouncements, which you took the wrong way. How does it work anyway, when you say you'd refuse to contribute to your daughter's marriage if she has sex? Do you keep her locked in the house? Interrogate her about what she's doing with her boyfriend...like, when she's 20? If she falls from grace, do you show up at the wedding and tell everyone why you're not giving her away? Or just not show up? It's silly, and that's why I laughed.
I will only address those comments I made that I feel you misinterpreted.
...commit adultery by being divorced.
She divorced me, she wrote the paper of divorcement not me so I am free in God's eyes
You've made an assumption that women having sex outside of marriage are basically "meat for men."
Incorrect interpretation on your part, the "meat for men" comment was in-reply to someone jokingly suggesting that she may become a porn queen because I may be to rigid with my rules and/or standards (I took the ribbing with no harm no foul). BTW I do think women in porn are "meat for men" they are not looked upon as classy "bring home to mom types" and I think my daughter is a classy young lady. Now, are there any guarantees she will remain that way? No! More than likely women in porn missed a few hugs as little girls nuff said on that!
Like I said read the post clearly stay on track girl.
How does it work anyway, when you say you'd refuse to contribute to your daughter's marriage if she has sex?
Again I was joking, ease up baby girl have a laugh this is Hustle Man I was joking. Listen I want the best for my kids no matter the gender and I will love them no matter how they turn out! I have given them the tools to be law abiding, well respected and productive citizens I am doing my job as a dad. I have open dialog with my kids they talk to me about everything. My kids trust my judgement even though they know I have made many mistakes, they understand that one can learn from others mistakes.
My daughter would tell you that I am the coolest of cool dads and she knows whatever advice I give is always given in love and with her best interest in mind, anyway have a nice day young lady!
You need some advice, I can help you?
You never answered my question to you:
Do you think it's bad advice to tell your kids to get their education first and to not have sex before marriage? If so why or if not why?
