I believe it was the great GH 15 in another post talking about the fact that women need to be told they do not look good, that they are overweight, etc. This, in my own experience, I have found to be true as well. If you want a good woman who looks good and is not going to cheat on you or fuck you over you simply cannot fawn over her, no matter how hot she is. This is not to say you should call your girl a fat whore on a regular basis but if your girl is eating unhealthy you need to point it out to her right away, "should you be eating that?" This will lead her to having self doubt which will only lead to her being the best she can be for you and only you.