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Denise Rutowski - Needs Help - Gofundme
« on: November 23, 2023, 06:40:14 PM »


Any getbiggers that want to help!

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Re: Denise Rutowski “gofundme “
« Reply #1 on: November 23, 2023, 06:57:03 PM »
Denise has been struggling with severe bipolar disorder for more than two decades which made it extremely challenging for her to hold down a job and pay the bills - even while being medicated for this condition (which she voluntarily stopped in 2010). As a result, she has been forced into homelessness for more than a decade.

She is mostly remembered by fans and followers for her outstanding bodybuilding accomplishments back in the late 80s and early 90s.
She turned Pro at the 1993 NPC USA Championships and competed in that year’s Ms Olympia, shocking the bodybuilding world by placing second (ahead of 31 of the best international professionals in the sport) in her first and only attempt. In total, she managed to beat 75 other competitors across three contests that year.

However, within the Venice (California) community, she is just as equally remembered for her kindness and unselfishness towards the neighborhood kids. Through her ‘Big Sister’ program, Denise dedicated a lot of her time and money to ensure kids within, her and other, troubled neighborhoods were kept off the streets, out of trouble, and away from rampant gang violence. Aside from looking after them daily after school and on weekends, she also took them to theme parks, wrestling shows, and states as far away as Hawaii (while traveling for her contests, seminars, and guest posing invitations) which allowed the kids to see and experience many new things. And, most notably, her ‘Big Sister’ program was entirely self-funded (which is all the more impressive considering she was never officially sponsored or offered a contract, not even after her outstanding achievements in 1993).

Sadly, Denise has suffered from several bouts of mania and, as a consequence, homelessness since her sudden departure from the sport back in 1994, both of which continue to this day. She is still homeless in Fort Worth but has been able to make do with the help of night shelters and outreach groups.


Recently, her mother and a few of her old friends decided to raise some money to help with food and clothing (which, being homeless, don’t last very long given the damage caused by being outdoors most of the time). So far, 5 people have contributed. One of Denise’s friends took it upon themselves to deliver all the donations (food, clothing, and money) every week while paying out of pocket for gas and a hot meal which they normally take to her during each visit.

Her plight is clearly complicated which simply makes the task of estimating a donation target all the more difficult. For now, the main objective is to ensure Denise’s basic needs (food and clothing) are, and continue to be, met and any additional donations will be used to help Denise get back on her feet (accommodation and medical treatment - if and when she agrees to receive treatment again). All donations will be received and handled on Denise’s behalf by her mother: Sandra Rutkowski.

This is the official Facebook page we have set up for Denise [https://www.facebook.com/DeniserutkowskiOFFICIAL/] and, for a long time, some of you have been messaging us for ways to directly help her. Now we can finally say that this is possible. We’re calling on your support. No donation is too small.

Please contact us (DM) if you need more information on how you can help. We'll try to post as many updates (here and on the FB page) as we can.
We appreciate whatever help you can offer. Thank you.

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Re: Denise Rutowski “gofundme “
« Reply #2 on: November 23, 2023, 07:12:14 PM »
is she still training?

was she able to cash in her pension from the IFBB

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Re: Denise Rutowski “gofundme “
« Reply #3 on: November 23, 2023, 07:23:33 PM »
She sounds like a really decent human being …. (It makes no mention of drug addiction so I’ll just assume she battles that as well!) if I get some extra money I’ll donate!

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Re: Denise Rutowski “gofundme “
« Reply #4 on: November 23, 2023, 07:27:07 PM »
She sounds like a really decent human being …. (It makes no mention of drug addiction so I’ll just assume she battles that as well!) if I get some extra money I’ll donate!

I’m guessing that’s a no.

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Re: Denise Rutowski “gofundme “
« Reply #5 on: November 23, 2023, 07:32:36 PM »
I’m guessing that’s a no.


Without getting too specific … my Mom just passed ( only family I had left) couldn’t even afford a funeral or service ….. every time I answer the phone or open my mail box it’s another bill/ someone else wants money! So right now I’m struggling so it’s a no (right now at least)

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Re: Denise Rutowski “gofundme “
« Reply #6 on: November 23, 2023, 07:33:07 PM »
I’m guessing that’s a no.

Oof....that's gonna leave a mark

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Re: Denise Rutowski “gofundme “
« Reply #7 on: November 23, 2023, 08:27:21 PM »
Beak ran into denise and he said she wouldnt take money, so this may be some type of scam.

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Re: Denise Rutowski “gofundme “
« Reply #8 on: November 23, 2023, 08:28:30 PM »
Without getting too specific … my Mom just passed ( only family I had left) couldn’t even afford a funeral or service ….. every time I answer the phone or open my mail box it’s another bill/ someone else wants money! So right now I’m struggling so it’s a no (right now at least)


Sorry to hear man. Hang in there. Both my parents have had health issues. You do the best you can.

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Re: Denise Rutowski “gofundme “
« Reply #9 on: November 23, 2023, 08:28:58 PM »
Beak ran into denise and he said she wouldnt take money, so this may be some type of scam.
it’s her Mom …. And my contribution will have to be posting this here and hopefully someone helps …..

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Re: Denise Rutowski “gofundme “
« Reply #10 on: November 23, 2023, 08:37:52 PM »
it’s her Mom …. And my contribution will have to be posting this here and hopefully someone helps …..
I understand. It was nice of you to share this; I tend to be skeptical of go find me drives; its nothing personal against Denise.

Im sorry for your loss Mike.  I know how tough the first holiday season is without your parent(s) so I hope you're doing okay.

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Re: Denise Rutowski “gofundme “
« Reply #11 on: November 23, 2023, 08:57:17 PM »
I understand. It was nice of you to share this; I tend to be skeptical of go find me drives; its nothing personal against Denise.

Im sorry for your loss Mike.  I know how tough the first holiday season is without your parent(s) so I hope you're doing okay.
Thanks Dave!  …. It’s weird being the only left (lost my dad and sister years ago) no other relatives…. But I’m doing ok man

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Re: Denise Rutowski “gofundme “
« Reply #12 on: November 23, 2023, 09:10:34 PM »
Sorry to hear about your mom Mike.....my most sincere condolences.

Next month I`ll contribute to Denise` "Go Fund Me"........money`s kind of tight.........it`s that time of the month.

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Re: Denise Rutowski “gofundme “
« Reply #13 on: November 23, 2023, 09:40:18 PM »
Sorry to hear about your mom Mike.....my most sincere condolences.

Next month I`ll contribute to Denise` "Go Fund Me"........money`s kind of tight.........it`s that time of the month.
thank you Tim!

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Re: Denise Rutowski “gofundme “
« Reply #14 on: November 23, 2023, 09:45:43 PM »
Thanks Dave!  …. It’s weird being the only left (lost my dad and sister years ago) no other relatives…. But I’m doing ok man

For what it’s worth, I’m thinking of you, brother.

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Re: Denise Rutowski “gofundme “
« Reply #15 on: November 23, 2023, 09:47:15 PM »
Beak ran into denise and he said she wouldnt take money, so this may be some type of scam.

Perhaps he should've offered her a razor to shave with.

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Re: Denise Rutowski “gofundme “
« Reply #16 on: November 23, 2023, 09:49:56 PM »
Without getting too specific … my Mom just passed ( only family I had left) couldn’t even afford a funeral or service ….. every time I answer the phone or open my mail box it’s another bill/ someone else wants money! So right now I’m struggling so it’s a no (right now at least)

Damn !!  Thats very sad  news.
My thoughts & best wishes are with you.

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Re: Denise Rutowski “gofundme “
« Reply #17 on: November 23, 2023, 10:26:17 PM »
Unless the root cause of her homelessness is resolved a GoFundMe is useless.

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Re: Denise Rutowski “gofundme “
« Reply #18 on: November 24, 2023, 01:19:55 AM »
is she still training?

was she able to cash in her pension from the IFBB
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Re: Denise Rutowski “gofundme “
« Reply #19 on: November 24, 2023, 01:27:22 AM »
Unless the root cause of her homelessness is resolved a GoFundMe is useless.
 

100 percent and throwing more money at her without a clear plan will just enable the self destruction further.

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Re: Denise Rutowski “gofundme “
« Reply #20 on: November 24, 2023, 02:08:19 AM »
I seriously doubt she is capable of handling the Gofundme page. Hope who is behind it will honor the donations.


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Re: Denise Rutowski “gofundme “
« Reply #21 on: November 24, 2023, 02:29:02 AM »
She sounds like a really decent human being …. (It makes no mention of drug addiction so I’ll just assume she battles that as well!) if I get some extra money I’ll donate!

how do you know you will have extra money, you havent lived your whole life yet

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Re: Denise Rutowski “gofundme “
« Reply #22 on: November 24, 2023, 04:19:05 AM »
Thanks Dave!  …. It’s weird being the only left (lost my dad and sister years ago) no other relatives…. But I’m doing ok man
Know the feeling Mike!

Same here, lost my mother and father years ago and no other relatives, but i have a new family now so it's ok.

But few years ago i was a mess
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Re: Denise Rutowski “gofundme “
« Reply #23 on: November 24, 2023, 05:03:45 AM »
The schmoe in me will donate if she gets a wig, shave, make up, 500 mg of test a week + promises to lift twice a day.

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Re: Denise Rutowski “gofundme “
« Reply #24 on: November 24, 2023, 05:05:50 AM »
I have offered some grass stained sneakers