Oh, and to answer the original question... doesn't bother me a bit when they get someone else most of the time... I think only once did it get to me.
I at one time felt that way, but it was because the dude was in a better financial situation than me. I soon realized that that was my own insecurity, and the dude could have been a cool person. I got over that, and realized that one can't fault another person for what you don't have, and spending energy on anger toward that guy was energy better spent on other things.
Faust, dog cheer up, play some good D on the courts (and watch the NCAA's here in the states
. People Break up to Make up. But like Mr. Biggs of the Isley's Bros. said, "...Forever Mackin'"