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Getbig Female Info Boards => Open Talk for Girl Discussion => Topic started by: Always Sore on September 13, 2006, 08:22:30 AM
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Since there are now 16+approved men (first time for some to ever be approved by ladies...you know who you are) I thought we should have a thread where we can ask any questions (respectfully) to our gathered ladies and hopefully find answers that will draw us all closer together (and who does not want to be closer with a group of hot attractive ladies..:)
1. How come ladies continue to chase the bad guy even though the have a history of failed relationships with said guys?
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2. How come ladies spend so much time on buying guys gifts when we would be much happier if you bought us a new porn DVD and watched it with us?
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1. Because "good guys" are too easy to get. We are like you...we need a challange and to feel like we accomplished something when we get the bad guy. We also like to hear that we are "so special", the bad guy changed for the better just to keep us. ;D
2. We buy gifts that we would like to get. Clothes, jewelry, etc. Unfortunatly women don't feel the same as guys do about porn. If you find one...make sure she is your priority while watching, the first time she sees you looking at the tv while she is "working"...you are done.
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How do women feel about muscular physiques on men in general? Attractive? Overkill? Intimadated?
PB
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Why is it that a woman has such a hard time admitting when she is in the wrong? Save the smart ass answer that you are never wrong please, I'm asking a serious question. :)
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How do women feel about muscular physiques on men in general? Attractive? Overkill? Intimadated?
PB
i, of course, am partial to "bigger is better". but so far...my girlfriends are repulsed by the large bb style. they prefer baseball player size. Lean and muscular but not overkill.
i can only answer for myself...i've never been intimadated by a man. i've actually been told by guy friends that i am the intimadating one.
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Why is it that a man has such a hard time admitting when he is in the wrong? Save the smart ass answer that you are never wrong please, I'm asking a serious question. :)
x?
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Why is it that a woman has such a hard time admitting when she is in the wrong? Save the smart ass answer that you are never wrong please, I'm asking a serious question. :)
serious answer...guys do the EXACT same thing.
its not a guy or girl thing, it relagated to the person and their ability to admit fault. in doing that...you admit that you screwed up and some people cant deal with it. normally when you have time to think about it, you go back and say you are sorry. admitting you are wrong.
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but how come i'm always wringing the wrong?
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2. How come ladies spend so much time on buying guys gifts when we would be much happier if you bought us a new porn DVD and watched it with us?
2. Like proschic said, a lot of gals don't feel the same way that some guys do about porn. Some gals may like it, but others feel that it is a very sad, horrible industry and that a lot of the women involved don't truley wish to be. Porn also can destroy marriages if a spouse prefers the fantasy over the real thing. In addition some women may feel intimidated by porn-"stars" for some unearthly reason. :P
serious answer...guys do the EXACT same thing.
its not a guy or girl thing, it relagated to the person and their ability to admit fault. in doing that...you admit that you screwed up and some people cant deal with it. normally when you have time to think about it, you go back and say you are sorry. admitting you are wrong.
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How do women feel about muscular physiques on men in general? Attractive? Overkill? Intimadated?
PB
I prefer muscular to "thick" bodies on men. I even prefer "fat" men to men with "runner's bodies,"
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Why can't we go to strip clubs 6 nights a week?
(1 night can be for us as a couple to hang in watch movies etc)
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Since there are now 16+approved men (first time for some to ever be approved by ladies...you know who you are) I thought we should have a thread where we can ask any questions (respectfully) to our gathered ladies and hopefully find answers that will draw us all closer together (and who does not want to be closer with a group of hot attractive ladies..:)
1. How come ladies continue to chase the bad guy even though the have a history of failed relationships with said guys?
or
2. How come ladies spend so much time on buying guys gifts when we would be much happier if you bought us a new porn DVD and watched it with us?
1. because they think they can be the one to change them from those bad boy ways. ;)
2. hmmmm <pondering> new tie?.... porn dvd.... new tie?.... porn dvd.
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I prefer muscular to "thick" bodies on men. I even prefer "fat" men to men with "runner's bodies."
i think a big muscular man signifies masculinity, and comfort. its the whole defending your honor, conquering the world for you idea. i need a manly man....a brute. they are messy as hell, and sometime ignore you while watching football...but they do the damn thing. they take care of business. they give the best bear hugs, they are so snuggly, and they make great dads.
My dad is a rather large, masculine man...i guess its true when they say girls marry someone like their father.
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Why can't we go to strip clubs 6 nights a week?
(1 night can be for us as a couple to hang in watch movies etc)
I don't see a problem with that as long as you don't have a problem finding a new place to live. ;D
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Why can't we go to strip clubs 6 nights a week?
(1 night can be for us as a couple to hang in watch movies etc)
what would you rather have... the strip club 6 nights a week ( which would get OLD real quick)
or having the pole in a corner of your bedroom.
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Why is it that a woman has such a hard time admitting when she is in the wrong? Save the smart ass answer that you are never wrong please, I'm asking a serious question. :)
As said before, there are plenty of men who can't admit they're wrong, and there are also women who are willing to apologize. Some women though seem to argue "feelings" rather than "polints" and it's much harder to admit that you were wrong about how you felt rather than that the paint you chose really is lime green, or you really should have gotten off the exit before. Sometimes when you just acknowledge the feeling... you get a whole different tude. ;)
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3. What is better the blankets being lifted so you can curl in our side of the bed with us holding you or finding the perfect shoes for a dress you just bought half off...:) ???
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3. What is better the blankets being lifted so you can curl in our side of the bed with us holding you or finding the perfect shoes for a dress you just bought half off...:) ???
I would have to go with the blanket/curling.
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Speaking of shoes...Why is it that women feel compelled to purchase more shoes than they will wear in any given year?
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Speaking of shoes...Why is it that women feel compelled to purchase more shoes than they will wear in any given year?
ya gotta coordinate Yo.
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ya gotta coordinate Yo.
what she said... ;D
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3. What is better the blankets being lifted so you can curl in our side of the bed with us holding you or finding the perfect shoes for a dress you just bought half off...:) ???
Why can't we have both? One is a nightime activity, the other a day activity ???
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I'm going to go with the cuddling over the shoes.
You can get the shoes or a dress anytime...sale or no sale. A intimate snuggle session with your honey is a moment to never pass up.
Remember, when we wake up the next am...its off to shopping for the shoes and dress!!!
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I'm going to go with the cuddling over the shoes.
You can get the shoes or a dress anytime...sale or no sale. A intimate snuggle session with your honey is a moment to never pass up.
Remember, when we wake up the next am...its off to shopping for the shoes and dress!!!
speaking from the shallow end of the pool...
Shoes, love them shoes. Litterally I have over 35 pairs, not including the work wear.
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what would you rather have... the strip club 6 nights a week ( which would get OLD real quick)
or having the pole in a corner of your bedroom.
strip club. Hey I'm single so unless im swinging on the pole it will go unused! lol. No comments from the peanut gallery..and you know how you are >:(
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strip club. Hey I'm single so unless im swinging on the pole it will go unused! lol. No comments from the peanut gallery..and you know how you are >:(
;D ;D Nicely worded
Don't think we don't appreciate your support. After all men ONLY go to strip clubs to help the poor ladies out, right?
BTW I would date ya, but you would have to get married first, so I can keep up my manstealing skills.
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I've got at least 200 pairs of shoes and boots.
Problem is, they don't match my bags
(under my eyes
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the Emeldia Marcos collection?
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1. Because "good guys" are too easy to get. We are like you...we need a challange and to feel like we accomplished something when we get the bad guy. We also like to hear that we are "so special", the bad guy changed for the better just to keep us. ;D
Yeah but what really makes a guy bad, not showing interest in you? I just see it as I'm laid back and what you see is what you get....granted I don't know if I ever entered the race,lol.
I can see women and men both thinking like that, like when guys pick up a hot babe that granted is a slut and they try to make them a housewife.
I guess sometimes we all want a harder path that seeks enjoyment in a different way.
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Yeah but what really makes a guy bad, not showing interest in you? I just see it as I'm laid back and what you see is what you get....granted I don't know if I ever entered the race,lol.
I can see women and men both thinking like that, like when guys pick up a hot babe that granted is a slut and they try to make them a housewife.
I guess sometimes we all want a harder path that seeks enjoyment in a different way.
Y&M, I don't think guys try to make housewifes out of those they consider sluts. I think the like to keep them on the side. I think men want to marry/keep the "nice" girl (the one they think they can take home to meet mom). At least this is what I have been told by a couple men.
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Why are women compelled to shop so much? I'm not talking about neccessities, but for items that:
1. They wear or use once.
2. They never wear or use.
3. Because their girlfriend has one.
Though men are also spend wrecklessly on certain "toys", it is not usual for men, unless they are gay IMO, to spend money on items this way.
With the divorce rate so high, and the NUMBER 1 REASON is FINANCIAL, wouldn't it make sense to make sure that money isn't spent unwisely?
BTW, my wife HATES shopping and we don't try to "compete" with others on the material things in life.
The main reason I get to be a stay at home father is that the ONLY debt we have is our mortgage and monthly utilities. We spend money on "fun" stuff, but it is only cash (or Visa checkcard).
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I guess I'm pretty lucky. I know most guys hate to go shopping. Michael doesn't mind it at all. 9 times out of 10 he's the one who buys something over me. :)
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I guess I'm pretty lucky. I know most guys hate to go shopping. Michael doesn't mind it at all. 9 times out of 10 he's the one who buys something over me. :)
I'm the same way. I love hitting the stores and just keeping up with my fashions. But man does it get expensive after a while. Especially baby clothes.
PB
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I'm the same way. I love hitting the stores and just keeping up with my fashions. But man does it get expensive after a while. Especially baby clothes.
PB
I know! >:( Where do stores get off charging the same price...sometimes more for something (childs clothing) that uses 1/10th the material of an adult item!!!
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I know! >:( Where do stores get off charging the same price...sometimes more for something (childs clothing) that uses 1/10th the material of an adult item!!!
Because people like us are "suckers" and will spend just about any amount to make out kids look cute. ;D
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Because people like us are "suckers" and will spend just about any amount to make out kids look cute. ;D
Thats why I tell my son all the time he looks good in his walmart shirts..lower his sights a little while he is young...:)
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Thats why I tell my son all the time he looks good in his walmart shirts..lower his sights a little while he is young...:)
I always thought you were a Salvation Army type of guy? :D
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I always thought you were a Salvation Army type of guy? :D
nope that was my mom...in a word from my youth..tuffskins.
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nope that was my mom...in a word from my youth..tuffskins.
Great hing about having a big family is that we haven't had to spend a lot on clothes. All of the relatives do it for us!
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Great hing about having a big family is that we haven't had to spend a lot on clothes. All of the relatives do it for us!
Really my son is so freaking spoiled but he is a good kid and never gives me grief or begs for stuff or throws tantrums. I could not have asked for better.
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what would you rather have... the strip club 6 nights a week ( which would get OLD real quick)
or having the pole in a corner of your bedroom.
the pole with Laura performing nightly shows on it
:D
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;D ;D Nicely worded
Don't think we don't appreciate your support. After all men ONLY go to strip clubs to help the poor ladies out, right?
BTW I would date ya, but you would have to get married first, so I can keep up my manstealing skills.
Exactly, I'm doing my best to support all those hard working college girls. Nothing is as sad as a wasted education. If i can help them get through school, then the world will be a better place. lol. Can it be a pretend marriage, i'll let you practicce, lol
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I know! >:( Where do stores get off charging the same price...sometimes more for something (childs clothing) that uses 1/10th the material of an adult item!!!
I dropped 60 bucks on shoes at The Mexx for my niece a few weeks ago. She's already out grown them. Nuts. They should be way more leanient on toddlers and newborn clothes seeing how they will out grow them in a few weeks anyway.
PB
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the pole with Laura performing nightly shows on it
:D
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sweet
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mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm!
yummy
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I need one of those poles with a chic on it for my office :D It'll definately brighten up the day.
PB
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Okay I have a question....
Since you ladies seem to like the idea of the pole, why are women like me always shunned and left on the outside? It really pisses me off the way we get ostracised by the "puritans"
I am pretty sure I know the answer but I would like to hear it anyway.
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this should be some good answers. I have my own theory. How long have you danced?
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Going to be 4 years soon
and honestly I would be surprised if anybody did answer. :-\
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perhaps you're right. Many may not answer. Too me I generally think that women get jealous when it comes to strippers. Most may think that sleep with everyone or that they are glorified prostitutes. Others may feel that they are inadequate sexually/provocitavely thus making their men go to strippers to fulfill sexual urges etc. Me personally, there have been times i have gone to the club becuase it was really the only thing open and my firends were bored. I think there is a misconception about dancers. But on the flip side, there are many that propagate the sterotype. :-\ Wow i think i just flip flopped like a politician!
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perhaps you're right. Many may not answer. Too me I generally think that women get jealous when it comes to strippers. Most may think that sleep with everyone or that they are glorified prostitutes. Others may feel that they are inadequate sexually/provocitavely thus making their men go to strippers to fulfill sexual urges etc. Me personally, there have been times i have gone to the club becuase it was really the only thing open and my firends were bored. I think there is a misconception about dancers. But on the flip side, there are many that propagate the sterotype. :-\ Wow i think i just flip flopped like a politician!
Yep no doubt about it.
so the question is did you anger both sides or placate them?
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Take Cheri and I for example... (this will remain vague, as the details aren't really needed)
She is angry (livid) at me for my actions. I don't argue the fact that she has every right to be. A serious case of bad judgement on my part. BUT her implications (or just my perception maybe) of calling me a backstabbing manstealing bitch have me livid with her.
Now would the situation even occur if my occupation wasn't part of the scenario?
I do know for a fact that if everything came out into the light ALL the ladies would rally to the side opposite the slutty stripper. Seen it a hundred times.
I would really like to know why for once. I know I would never hear such a thing to my face, but since anonymity is almost complete here (except for a few ladies) please speak up.
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perhaps you're right. Many may not answer. Too me I generally think that women get jealous when it comes to strippers. Most may think that sleep with everyone or that they are glorified prostitutes. Others may feel that they are inadequate sexually/provocitavely thus making their men go to strippers to fulfill sexual urges etc. Me personally, there have been times i have gone to the club becuase it was really the only thing open and my firends were bored. I think there is a misconception about dancers. But on the flip side, there are many that propagate the sterotype. :-\ Wow i think i just flip flopped like a politician!
Really what misconception its a job..Its no different then if a teacher or nurse or clerk decides to sleep with some guy it does not mean there profession is loose its there choice. Who cares what somebody does to make money as long as its not hurting anybody?
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Yep no doubt about it.
so the question is did you anger both sides or placate them?
I was seeing a dancer, or so i thought. Anyway, i have never cheated on someone. (waiting for smart ass comment from AS). Needless to say i have known my fair share of dancers, no not biblically. My view is that it doesn't matter if the man was cheating with a stripper. It could just as easliy happened with some girl at any bar any where.
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I was seeing a dancer, or so i thought. Anyway, i have never cheated on someone. (waiting for smart ass comment from AS). Needless to say i have known my fair share of dancers, no not biblically. My view is that it doesn't matter if the man was cheating with a stripper. It could just as easliy happened with some girl at any bar any where.
damm so many jokes....keyboard burning...being good..:)
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you have my permission to let it rip
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you have my permission to let it rip
can't buddy not here, plus I like how all the ladies like you and do not want to step on your "thing"..well mostly ;D
but in our thread its hands off katie bar the door..:)
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You must PM them then.
I won't tell ;D
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You must PM them then.
I won't tell ;D
>:(
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I meant both of use dear
I don't wish to get Mom mad at us.
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I meant both of use dear
I don't wish to get Mom mad at us.
ok, i'm cool with that!
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threesome...shotgun..:)
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threesome...shotgun..:)
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I was seeing a dancer, or so i thought.
How do you think your seeing somebody?
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threesome...shotgun..:)
buwaahahahah. i almost spit out my drink
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:-*
How do you think your seeing somebody?
thought it was a girl..lola see sometimes I can't help myself.
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thought it was a girl..lola see sometimes I can't help myself.
I wonder if we are going to get grounded?
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:-*
How do you think your seeing somebody?
I was played like a grand piano. Thought she cared, lies deception..all the things that makes a good relationshiop happen. Found her with someone else one day...long story.
It's ok AS, i gave you permission this time
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I was played like a grand piano. Thought she cared, lies deception..all the things that makes a good relationshiop happen. Found her with someone else one day...long story.
It's ok AS, i gave you permission this time
one word...PROM... :'(
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one word...as*h*le
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I was played like a grand piano. Thought she cared, lies deception..all the things that makes a good relationshiop happen. Found her with someone else one day...long story.
Ahh sorry I asked.
My apologies
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Ahh sorry I asked.
My apologies
don't be sorry all my boys story's end with the same song. He is looking for someone that won't leave him holding crumpled photos with tears in his eyes..:)
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Ahh sorry I asked.
My apologies
ah no worries. It happens.
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Y&M, I don't think guys try to make housewifes out of those they consider sluts. I think the like to keep them on the side. I think men want to marry/keep the "nice" girl (the one they think they can take home to meet mom). At least this is what I have been told by a couple men.
Can't turn a ho into a housewife :D
I was probably not correct in my wording your right love is blind
thats better
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Okay I have a question....
Since you ladies seem to like the idea of the pole, why are women like me always shunned and left on the outside? It really pisses me off the way we get ostracised by the "puritans"
I am pretty sure I know the answer but I would like to hear it anyway.
I think the answer to that is obvious Rac, but not right. And has nothing to do with "puritans". What you do is a business, a job like any other. But the difference to most regarding a pole in the bedroom and a pole in an establishment is private vs public. If I'm going to pole dance in my bedroom, it is for only my significant other, Michael. If I were to pole dance in an establishment it is for anyone and everybody to see. There for those with their noses up in the air will look down upon those who work in such establishments.
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Take Cheri and I for example... (this will remain vague, as the details aren't really needed)
She is angry (livid) at me for my actions. I don't argue the fact that she has every right to be. A serious case of bad judgement on my part. BUT her implications (or just my perception maybe) of calling me a backstabbing manstealing bitch have me livid with her.
Now would the situation even occur if my occupation wasn't part of the scenario?
I do know for a fact that if everything came out into the light ALL the ladies would rally to the side opposite the slutty stripper. Seen it a hundred times.
I would really like to know why for once. I know I would never hear such a thing to my face, but since anonymity is almost complete here (except for a few ladies) please speak up.
You need to re-read your PMs Racquel. I never called you either of those. If you want to put it out in the open, put out all the facts not just what you feel was "implied". AND you know me better than that to think that I would consider your occupation as part of the scenario. You don't have to be a stripper to flirt with a man. >:(
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You need to re-read your PMs Racquel. I never called you either of those. If you want to put it out in the open, put out all the facts not just what you feel was "implyed". AND you know me better than that to think that I would consider your occupation as part of the scenario. You don't have to be a stripper to flirt with a man. >:(
I don't want to put it out here for yours and Michaels benefit, don't give a rat's ass about my rep.
But I still believe it had a lot to do with it.
Just what the hell do you want from me?
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As far as the stripper thing, I think women in general do judge them. Partly because the average dancer is, by nature of her profession, not exactly 300lbs and 80 years old - they are generally attractive. For us here, who are into training/dieting so we generally have reasonable bodies, the envy factor would not really apply - but for some fat ass suburban housewife it might. The other part would be on moral grounds quite obviously.
I personally, could care less what someone does. I would never 'shun' someone for being a stripper. Mind you, I would be devasted if my daughter became one. I would love her still the same, but would be very keen to get her to stop.
Racquel - What lead you into it anyway? If I am being too pokey feel free to tell me to shut up :D
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I don't want to put it out here for yours and Michaels benefit, don't give a rat's ass about my rep.
But I still believe it had a lot to do with it.
Just what the hell do you want from me?
Our benefit?? Are you kidding? What the hell benefit do any of us have regarding this? You are the one talking about left and right (going on about being called something I never called you). To be honest Racquel, all I wanted was for you to say you were sorry. I didn't pin the blame on either one of you, I just told you both how I felt about the converstation. You stated it was a game and stuck by those guns. Well if hurting me (a friend) is a game to you... nevermind. All I know is that I would never have talked to Jack or anyone else you had an interest with in such a flirtatious matter. You keep bringing the "stripper" shit into it like it makes you a hardass bad girl. Unless you lied to me, I know your past and that hardass shit is just a front. You need to start recognizing that you're more than just a body. Until you come to that "realization" you will just continue to put yourself lower and lower, and you DON'T belong there.
I never called you anything.
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As far as the stripper thing, I think women in general do judge them. Partly because the average dancer is, by nature of her profession, not exactly 300lbs and 80 years old - they are generally attractive. For us here, who are into training/dieting so we generally have reasonable bodies, the envy factor would not really apply - but for some fat ass suburban housewife it might. The other part would be on moral grounds quite obviously.
I personally, could care less what someone does. I would never 'shun' someone for being a stripper. Mind you, I would be devasted if my daughter became one. I would love her still the same, but would be very keen to get her to stop.
Racquel - What lead you into it anyway? If I am being too pokey feel free to tell me to shut up :D
I used to be an EMT. Saw too much bad, I crashed and burned hard. I always loved to dance as a kid and it is brain dead low stress work. Nobody is going to die if I trip up on stage. Now the money is too good to give up.
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Our benefit?? Are you kidding? What the hell benefit do any of us have regarding this? You are the one talking about left and right (going on about being called something I never called you). To be honest Racquel, all I wanted was for you to say you were sorry. I didn't pin the blame on either one of you, I just told you both how I felt about the converstation. You stated it was a game and stuck by those guns. Well if hurting me (a friend) is a game to you... nevermind. All I know is that I would never have talked to Jack or anyone else you had an interest with in such a flirtatious matter. You keep bringing the "stripper" shit into it like it makes you a hardass bad girl. Unless you lied to me, I know your past and that hardass shit is just a front. You need to start recognizing that you're more than just a body. Until you come to that "realization" you will just continue to put yourself lower and lower, and you DON'T belong there.
I never called you anything.
Somebody else needs to read her PM's
I apologized at least 15 times, I even apologized to Mike. I admited I was wrong as well, even on here.
Should I buy an ad in your local paper and apologize that way?
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So, what do you women think about guys that can't dance? Do you believe that if he cant move on the dance floor the can't move as lovers?
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So, what do you women think about guys that can't dance? Do you believe that if he cant move on the dance floor the can't move as lovers?
Silly question...
I know more men who can't / won't dance, never clouded my judgment.
I even offer to teach a few of them.
I've found it is a rare man who really likes to dance
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Somebody else needs to read her PM's
I apologized at least 15 times, I even apologized to Mike. I admited I was wrong as well, even on here.
Should I buy an ad in your local paper and apologize that way?
I think enough has been said Rac. Let's just move on and start over, ok?
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it's just one of those things i've heard. Me i dance like frank sinatra and antonio banderas (take the lead, role) all mixed into one. Ok actually, i think i dance like a mackeral out of the water. Nope, i'm like frank and tony! lol
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I think enough has been said Rac. Let's just move on and start over, ok?
You know I would but I want to make this thing right.
My anger is just a defense I guess.
I have PM'd you...please answer
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I used to be an EMT. Saw too much bad, I crashed and burned hard. I always loved to dance as a kid and it is brain dead low stress work. Nobody is going to die if I trip up on stage. Now the money is too good to give up.
Thanks - makes sense.
Now - you know I have to ask...not you in particular but I always hear of this legendary money that is to be made. Any financial approximations would be appreciated ;D
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Thanks - makes sense.
Now - you know I have to ask...not you in particular but I always hear of this legendary money that is to be made. Any financial approximations would be appreciated ;D
um interested in career change? just kidding ;D
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it's just one of those things i've heard. Me i dance like frank sinatra and antonio banderas (take the lead, role) all mixed into one. Ok actually, i think i dance like a mackeral out of the water. Nope, i'm like frank and tony! lol
Dear,
Frank was a singer
Antonio is an over rated actor (but hot)
Try Gene Kelly (Fred Aistaire was never good looking in my books).
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Thanks - makes sense.
Now - you know I have to ask...not you in particular but I always hear of this legendary money that is to be made. Any financial approximations would be appreciated ;D
2k to 3k a night is not unheard of, nor is it uncommon.
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Dear,
Frank was a singer
Antonio is an over rated actor (but hot)
Try Gene Kelly (Fred Aistaire was never good looking in my books).
i thought he danced too. Damnit, i guess i am a mackeral out of water, lol
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You know I would but I want to make this thing right.
My anger is just a defense I guess.
I have PM'd you...please answer
done ;)
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Ok, off to bed. Good night all! :-*
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2k to 3k a night is not unheard of, nor is it uncommon.
Thanks.
Dance on I say. ;)
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I used to be an EMT. Saw too much bad, I crashed and burned hard. I always loved to dance as a kid and it is brain dead low stress work. Nobody is going to die if I trip up on stage. Now the money is too good to give up.
I knew 2 dancers that were previous EMT's, one of them would pretty much crack when she thought about the stuff she saw, and the other was just kinda down about it.
Apparently it's pretty bad, and basically from the stories I gather sometimes EMTs are first on the scene in dangerous situations, helping a person and trying to keep alive themselves.
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Wow, I've been gone for a day and look at all I miss!!
I would never judge a person (man or woman) based on their occupation. What people do with their time, body, and personal image is their business. I'm a friend to anyone who is honest and fun to be with.
I feel like the reason strippers, prostitutes, escorts, etc. are looked down upon is because of their image. They are known to break up marriages, and cause infidelities. Your tits are in someone's husbands face, he puts his hands on your body and wont touch his wife. A woman with esteem problems, or a husband that doesnt spend quality time with her will blame YOU for her marital problems. Instead of blaming her husband. Any woman with a brain knows that a man is VISUALLY STIMULATED, the problem is these woman don't have the balls to show their man some tits or ass. Then they wonder why these boys want to go to strip clubs. Because of this...unfortunatly, you have become the enemy.
Its all a game from the time you start dating, into marriage, and so on with men. They are so easy to keep happy, but it causes a little work on our part as women. Although I am 6 mos pregnant (no, the belly is not too big) I still intice Bob. I walk around in a thong, because I know he is looking. I put my breasts in his face all the time. He likes it and it turns him on. He gets satisfied at home and doesnt have the yearning to look elsewhere.
Original sin (Raquel), as long as you are happy and satisfied doing what you do....good for you. As long as you keep your dignity and a positive self image, there is nothing different between the two of us. And I will always treat you that way.
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Wow, I've been gone for a day and look at all I miss!!
I would never judge a person (man or woman) based on their occupation. What people do with their time, body, and personal image is their business. I'm a friend to anyone who is honest and fun to be with.
I feel like the reason strippers, prostitutes, escorts, etc. are looked down upon is because of their image. They are known to break up marriages, and cause infidelities. Your tits are in someone's husbands face, he puts his hands on your body and wont touch his wife. A woman with esteem problems, or a husband that doesnt spend quality time with her will blame YOU for her marital problems. Instead of blaming her husband. Any woman with a brain knows that a man is VISUALLY STIMULATED, the problem is these woman don't have the balls to show their man some tits or ass. Then they wonder why these boys want to go to strip clubs. Because of this...unfortunatly, you have become the enemy.
Its all a game from the time you start dating, into marriage, and so on with men. They are so easy to keep happy, but it causes a little work on our part as women. Although I am 6 mos pregnant (no, the belly is not too big) I still intice Bob. I walk around in a thong, because I know he is looking. I put my breasts in his face all the time. He likes it and it turns him on. He gets satisfied at home and doesnt have the yearning to look elsewhere.
Original sin (Raquel), as long as you are happy and satisfied doing what you do....good for you. As long as you keep your dignity and a positive self image, there is nothing different between the two of us. And I will always treat you that way.
You keep that up and he will have to change his name from Angry Bob to... well you know ;D :-*
And thanks for the words, I appreciate them
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Take Cheri and I for example... (this will remain vague, as the details aren't really needed)
She is angry (livid) at me for my actions. I don't argue the fact that she has every right to be. A serious case of bad judgement on my part. BUT her implications (or just my perception maybe) of calling me a backstabbing manstealing bitch have me livid with her.
Now would the situation even occur if my occupation wasn't part of the scenario?
I do know for a fact that if everything came out into the light ALL the ladies would rally to the side opposite the slutty stripper. Seen it a hundred times.
I would really like to know why for once. I know I would never hear such a thing to my face, but since anonymity is almost complete here (except for a few ladies) please speak up.
If I felt someone was trying to steal my husband, whether she was a stripper or a surgeon, I would dislike her the same amount.
proschic is right though, the main responsibility is with the spouse that cheats.
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If I felt someone was trying to steal my husband, whether she was a stripper or a surgeon, I would dislike her the same amount.
proschic is right though, the main responsibility is with the spouse that cheats.
I agree...your occupation does not change your attitude. Especially if you are a "home wrecker". If Bob ever cheated...I would always blame him first, whether the woman knew he was married or not. If it was a friend of mine...I would STILL blame him first. Men are let off too easy when it comes to infidelities because his woman doesn't want to admit that HE chose someone else. She always wants to blame the other woman. You hear the excuses..."oh she seduced him", or "she put it all in his face, he gave in". Yea, well he chose HER over YOU. Deal with it!
I don't put up with cheating at all. No 3 strikes, no get out of jail free card. If he does it, hes gone. Simple as that. I would rather live with out the love of my life and have dignity, than wonder what he is doing every moment we are not together. Life is too short to be with a cheater.
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I've never been a stripper, but I have worked in gentlemen's clubs, and my closest friend for the longest time was a former exotic dancer. From what I've observed, I think a good majority of women are intimidated and threatened by dancers. There's a certain mystique about them that is shared by both men & women. Rightly or wrongly, most consider it a milder form of prostitution, and as such, women see them as being easily capable of leading their men astray, ...and men see them as attainable for the right price.
This is inevitably gonna lead to problems. Society by & large doesn't respect or value women, unless she's either the saint or the prostitute. If she's a saint, she's worshipped from afar, ...and if she's the prostitute she's worshipped AND attainable. That is the perception, ...and for insecure women, that is the threat. Personally, I think they should just get over it. We're all prostitutes to some extent. I don't mean that as an offense or insult, or to imply that I'm better than you. I considered my own occupation as a film actress as a milder form of prostitution as well. It's a free world, and you have the right to make decisions for yourself and your life as you choose. While your decisions for your life may not be the same ones I would make for mine, far be it for me to "look down on you" for the choices you've made. Different strokes for different folks. Your career choice is not for me, and that's all there is to that. Now, how you treat me, that's where I would start looking down my nose on you, ...or start respecting you. Not by what you do for a living, but by how you live with others and yourself. Not everyone thinks that way, ...but if someone can't deal with you, they're not worth dealing with. Don't sweat it. Just accept the reality of the baggage that comes with the profession you chose, and move on.