I am actually just fascinated by onemorereps story.
Most gay guys you meet will say that they were born that way. But omr turned gay as an adult.
I'm not hating on him at all, I just find it an interesting story. I wonder how he realized it, how he changed his lifestyle after the decision, how he told his family, how was his straight life before he turned gay, etc.
Maybe I should try a little sausage on my pizza too? I've already fucked half the trannies in Thailand, might as well go all out with a butch dude who looks like Branch Warren.
And let's face it. I bet every dude who is posting in this thread has experimented with cock. It's something that 90% of guys do, but maybe 5% will admit to it.
Human sexuality is more complicated than simply gay, straight and bi. There are many many other levels.
IrishDave & Tiger,
I feel that I always had the desire to be gay (even if subconsciously at first), but that physiologically, my body wasn't boxed into the stereotypical presentation that one would have when assuming a gay preference. You could blame it on the fact that while growing up, I had no choice but to be straight due to my strict upbringing, faith and lack of other gay/lesbian individuals to open my eyes to another reality. Human sexuality does not fit perfectly into any particular norm. We are organisms that hold a delicate balance between estrogen and testosterone and even the slightest imbalance can cause a man to feel more feminine (and even exhibit those features, case in point with gyno) and women to feel and look more masculine (see: any female bodybuilder that takes hormones to an extreme). While I never subscribed to the chemical warfare that some do, subconsciously, I knew I had desires different from most, but also felt completely capable of achieving arousal by way of intimacy with females.
As I grew older and my mind matured, I fell into what my reality is today. I became the man I was meant to be, as opposed to adhering to the bullshit everyone else wanted me to be. In other words, while at first I was like everyone else (conformed to the straight ideal), I then got rid of the fear that held me back from doing what I felt the urge to do. I allowed for those inhibitions to be explored and for that other side of me to become a reality.
Like I said earlier, human sexuality can not be shoved into a nicely shaped box. We are animals with primitive desires and carnal lusts. Just because we have established certain laws that dictate sexual behaviors and norms, it does not mean that any act which strays from those standards is wrong or an abomination.
Set your mind and body free from the psychological chains that society places on it. Being gay and/or lesbian is not for everyone and I genuinely respect that, but, on the other hand, I will be damned if I have to live out the rest of my life as a prisoner underneath my own skin.
When they say love is blind, it doesn't just refer to the racial makeup of your partner or their age, it refers to the fact that we can't help who we fall in love with. Love transcends the physical and dives deeply into the metaphysical. It's a matter of realizing that just because we are bounded to our physical bodies does not mean that our ability to feel love towards others should strictly be dictated by our gender presentation.
Respectfully,
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