Moosejay - welcome back!
I have nothing against you and look fwd to your posts.
Here are my thoughts.
1 - people are assuming you are gay. For once and for all, can you clarify, are you? If you are just come out and admit it. If not, I will take your word for it. Lots of people have been (wrongly) accused on this site of being gay.
2 - people seem to be posting some photographs of you that make you look gay (they happen to be unfortunate poses). You could find gay-ish or unflattering poses from even some of the top pros too. Can you post up some decent pics of yourself. The truth is you have a pretty decent physique. You are not a muscle/mass monster, but you do look in pretty good shape, better that 95% of the average American I am sure, and you can be proud of that. You clearly eat healthily and workout regularly.
3 - Can you explain why you wore those pink posing trunks? A fair answer might be that at the time this was considered fashionable, but that now of course you regret it, etc. (or maybe you don't?). Or were those pics photoshopped?
4 - Are you suing various people for defamation? If so, my view is good on you. I think if people are making false claims about you (even on the internet) then they deserve to be sued. Either way, please clarify.
5 - As for the whole "is chiro a legit science etc" this is a whole seperate topic. No need to comment on that (or perhaps make that a seperate thread).