3 options here:
1. You email her, and she's cool with it.
2. You email her, and she thinks you're a stalker.
3. You do nothing, and go back to your hand.
What's it going to be? :D
No emails or calls...be a man and show up to her work place "unexpectedly" and by "accident"...if you are a good bullshitter you can play the "meant to be" card here as you two by "destiny" meet again.. ...this card works wonders women as they love the unknown and forward thinking..Eh.... id just show up and pull the 'I really wanted to see you again and I remembered you had told me you worked here, so I figured id give it a shot and drop by and hope I could find you" explaining the bit about not being able to get back in and taking care of tje friend.
No emails or calls...be a man and show up to her work place "unexpectedly" and by "accident"...if you are a good bullshitter you can play the "meant to be" card here as you two by "destiny" meet again.. ...this card works wonders women as they love the unknown and forward thinking..That would be super creepy!! Go back to the club if she is there shit will still happen. Don't creep up on her. You don't have her number so its a no go. But the club is a good chance and if she is there at least you don't look so desperate. Chicks can smell desperation from a mile away. Trust me on this
Turn up at her work with flowers and a can of petrol, if she turns you down set yourself on fire.
Turn up at her work with flowers and a can of petrol, if she turns you down set yourself on fire.Just dont forget the matches. That would make 2 fails in one day-lol
you need to ask yourself one questionWhat would JohnnyManzielFalcon do?????????????????
Fixed ;D
What does she know about electromagnetic field theory? Is she familiar with Testla and Maxwell? Does she fully understand magnetic induction?
These are all questions that needs to be answered before you proceed with your decision making.
Email her. What's the worst that can happen, she doesn't Email you back, and maybe calls you a creeper to her friends ?
You'll never see these people, who cares.
Don't get all deep and shit...more like " Im not the type to do this but I thought we hit it off pretty good, sorry if I'm weirding you out."
Yup, just emailed her. Will see. Just said I had a great time, wish I didn't have to leave so quickly but wanted to see to her again. left my digits and told her to get back to me if she wants to meet up again.
Never know if she is laying in some other dude's bed right now thinking shit, did I fuck the wrong guy. hahaha.
either she'll think it was classy or creepy. hard to figure these chicks out these days.
I was at the club and met this chick. Real cute, we hit it off. Laughing, talking, dancing etc... for a couple hours. She was all into me, must have mentioned 10 times how attractive she found me etc... At this point i had a little info from her through our conversations but no digits yet, then my buddy comes to me and tells me one of our friends was totally shitfaced and left the club and come help him find him, so I tell her I'll be right back and leave, took us a good 30 minutes to find him slouched on a slot machine in the Casino, we get back to the club and they aren't letting anyone back in. So no digits from this babe.
But, she did tell me where she worked and it only took a quick google search with her name and work to find her online and get her email address.
So getbig players. Is it creepy of me to email her even though she didn't give it to me, would she think it was nice? Even just to tell her why I left and didn't come back. Should I just cut my losses and let it go?
I was at the club and met this chick. Real cute, we hit it off. Laughing, talking, dancing etc... for a couple hours. She was all into me, must have mentioned 10 times how attractive she found me etc... At this point i had a little info from her through our conversations but no digits yet, then my buddy comes to me and tells me one of our friends was totally shitfaced and left the club and come help him find him, so I tell her I'll be right back and leave, took us a good 30 minutes to find him slouched on a slot machine in the Casino, we get back to the club and they aren't letting anyone back in. So no digits from this babe.
But, she did tell me where she worked and it only took a quick google search with her name and work to find her online and get her email address.
So getbig players. Is it creepy of me to email her even though she didn't give it to me, would she think it was nice? Even just to tell her why I left and didn't come back. Should I just cut my losses and let it go?
Creepier than Wolf Harris fingering a 13 year oldYes, youre a dude. Dudes think differently. She told him where she worked, if he emailed her/showed up and just laid it out nonchalantly that he enjoyed her company and remembered she told him where she worked, shes either going to be flattered or turned off. What does he have to lose?
DON'T DO IT
In life, some pussy will slip by, a real player knows tomorrow or next week another will come and will forget about this one, you can't eat all the fish you land in the net.
PS: I think you're rapist material, the fact you went that far and pulled her work detail info. I hope I'm wrong, just saying. If I chatted to a girl, even if she's a 10 and next morning I get a random email from her at work I would fugen flip....and I'm a male.
Is it creepy? Sure a little but go ahead. Worst case scenario she says you are a creep and tells you to fuck off. He's case she is glad you found her and you date/fornicate. You really have nothing to lose.
Post pictures of the hole in her butt when you get a chance, thanks.
Post pictures of the hole in her butt when you get a chance, thanks.
Creepier than Wolf Harris fingering a 13 year old
DON'T DO IT
In life, some pussy will slip by, a real player knows tomorrow or next week another will come and will forget about this one, you can't eat all the fish you land in the net.
PS: I think you're rapist material, the fact you went that far and pulled her work detail info. I hope I'm wrong, just saying. If I chatted to a girl, even if she's a 10 and next morning I get a random email from her at work I would fugen flip....and I'm a male.
Remember, creepy vs romantic - the only difference is how hot you are.
Most getbiggers have never been turned down by a woman so I'd say EDB has good odds here.
give us her infos?
True. I did ensure my signature had all of my credentials, PHD, ASPCA, NAACP ... plus a couple photos of my new jet.
I was at the club and met this chick. Real cute, we hit it off. Laughing, talking, dancing etc... for a couple hours. She was all into me, must have mentioned 10 times how attractive she found me etc... At this point i had a little info from her through our conversations but no digits yet, then my buddy comes to me and tells me one of our friends was totally shitfaced and left the club and come help him find him, so I tell her I'll be right back and leave, took us a good 30 minutes to find him slouched on a slot machine in the Casino, we get back to the club and they aren't letting anyone back in. So no digits from this babe.
But, she did tell me where she worked and it only took a quick google search with her name and work to find her online and get her email address.
So getbig players. Is it creepy of me to email her even though she didn't give it to me, would she think it was nice? Even just to tell her why I left and didn't come back. Should I just cut my losses and let it go?
She ain't callin you now, so what's the difference?
I'm thinking the same thing. I had my chance to seal the deal last night but blew it by leaving. Can't go back and fix past mistakes now. She's probably alread read my email, thought it was cute or creepy and deleted it either way.
Soooo....This.
give us her infos now?
J/k, seriously now, she ll write back if interested, if not well at least you tried.
Soooo....
give us her infos now?
J/k, seriously now, she ll write back if interested, if not well at least you tried.
Alright. No replies yet. Eithershe's playing the waiting game or thinks I'm a creepshe's called the police. Will see if she replies today or tomorrow. Oh well. I'll just make a reservation for 1 this weekend. haha.
Alright. No replies yet. Either she's playing the waiting game or thinks I'm a creep. Will see if she replies today or tomorrow. Oh well. I'll just make a reservation for 1 this weekend. haha.
Fixed :D
Alright. No replies yet. Either she's playing the waiting game or thinks I'm a creep. Will see if she replies today or tomorrow. Oh well. I'll just make a reservation for 1 this weekend. haha.
I would like itf as a loss at this point. not even a loss, its really nothing..
She could have 5 email addresses and doesn't even use that one....if it was me I wouldn't even give it another second of my brain power.
Yeah agree. Whats in the past is in the past. Time to hit up more clubs and find more women.Whats going to be funny is when she hits you up in a week wanting to go out and youre balls deep in a other broad.
I was at the club and met this chick. Real cute, we hit it off. Laughing, talking, dancing etc... for a couple hours. She was all into me, must have mentioned 10 times how attractive she found me etc... At this point i had a little info from her through our conversations but no digits yet, then my buddy comes to me and tells me one of our friends was totally shitfaced and left the club and come help him find him, so I tell her I'll be right back and leave, took us a good 30 minutes to find him slouched on a slot machine in the Casino, we get back to the club and they aren't letting anyone back in. So no digits from this babe.
But, she did tell me where she worked and it only took a quick google search with her name and work to find her online and get her email address.
So getbig players. Is it creepy of me to email her even though she didn't give it to me, would she think it was nice? Even just to tell her why I left and didn't come back. Should I just cut my losses and let it go?
Whats going to be funny is when she hits you up in a week wanting to go out and youre balls deep in a other broad.
Even if she does, she would probably just be using him for a free dinner. You think she actually remembers him? She probably was approached by and danced with A LOT of guys that night.
Even if she does, she would probably just be using him for a free dinner. You think she actually remembers him? She probably was approached by and danced with A LOT of guys that night.Doesnt matter if he plays his cards right, if she was into him then shed probably be into him again, and it doesnt sound like hes after any sort of relationship, so its not like he cares about how great this girls personality is or what kind of marriage material she is.
Doesnt matter if he plays his cards right, if she was into him then shed probably be into him again, and it doesnt sound like hes after any sort of relationship, so its not like he cares about how great this girls personality is or what kind of marriage material she is.
Doesnt matter if he plays his cards right, if she was into him then shed probably be into him again, and it doesnt sound like hes after any sort of relationship, so its not like he cares about how great this girls personality is or what kind of marriage material she is.
Some bad advice from the lads here. You have to apply basic psychology in a situation like this.yes, because YOURE the one someone is going to take advice from. Pretty sure everyone on here has you and goodrum firmly under the 'do exactly the opposite of what they recommend' category.
So the Op was doing okay and the gal told him plenty of times she found him attractive. That is all he needs to know.
An email isn't going to work. Call her at work and explain how the bouncers weren't letting anyone back in. If she is
at all interested you can make another date. Otherwise, tell her you didn't want her to think you weren't interested.
It isn't stalking because there is no intent to do her any harm. People distort that concept. It is still the man's prerogative
to make the first move. Women get turned on thinking an attractive guy wants them. Guys don't feel the same until they score.
Let us reverse this and suppose the gal had to go and couldn't get back in. Would any guy think she was stalking if she contacted
him at work via email or a phone call? Heck, no, the guy would feel that he had what it takes. There you are.
A romantic guy might send her flowers with a nice note!
Good luck.
Find out where she lives then wait in the bushes near her bedroom window, when you see her phone her and tell her how sexy she looks in her night gown, this will make you seem like a man of mystery and get her juices flowing.Report back with how this works.Exactly. Basiles strategy, he came up with this while studying psych 101 and determined that shed find this highly romantic, along with mailing her pictures of her naked thay he snapped while camping outside her window.
It is a waste of time giving advices to some people. This info isn't in textbooks. I know from long and substantial experience. Most of the guys here wouldn't know good from bad advice.Then why do you bother trying to give advice to people that dont want it from you? (over, and over, and over I might add).
Never be ashamed of wanting to talk with or date a woman. It is up to her where she takes it to. Young guys are too afraid of being rejected so refrain from showing initiative.
Exactly. Basiles strategy, he came up with this while studying psych 101 and determined that shed find this highly romantic, along with mailing her pictures of her naked thay he snapped while camping outside her window.
Basille's plan would work in the 70 and 80's before email, cell phones and texting. Catching her off guard at work with a call can be a huge deal killer. Even if she didn't find it creepy I'm pretty sure her friends would and brainwash her into thinking it. Most girls friends are jealous bitches and even if they found it romantic they wouldn't tell her that out of their pitiness.Yes, basiles psych textbooks from the 60s dont exactly teach him how to deal with generation 'tech' and modern girls odd sense of romantic logic.
an email is very innocent. She can do what she wants without pressure. She may have deleted it or even drafted a reply and is waiting to send. Never know people's intentions. At this point anymore communication from me would be a desperate move.
Yes, basiles psych textbooks from the 60s dont exactly teach him how to deal with generation 'tech' and modern girls odd sense of romantic logic.
The creep factor has never stopped me. So I am now a creep.
So what.
Does she even lift?
Do you?
Yes and Yes. Being 5'11" she is very athletic, played college bball. I lift like a mutherfucker. If I was lucable to date her I'd rent a gym, play one on one and fuck her at half court after she smashes me 50-0. hahaha
5'11 and does she wear heels?
Why don't you just pop your head out the window, I'm sure Godzilla will respond kindly ;D
Yes she did have heels on. It was sexy as fuck. Not sure how tall you are but at my height being about to kiss a chick without bending over is awesome. I've met numerous talls chicks in my life and a lot are not that hot, but this one was smoking. but I think it's dead in the water, if she was interested I would have heard back by now....I think.
Yes she did have heels on. It was sexy as fuck. Not sure how tall you are but at my height being able to kiss a chick without bending over is awesome. I've met numerous talls chicks in my life and a lot are not that hot, but this one was smoking. but I think it's dead in the water, if she was interested I would have heard back by now....I think.
I'm around 6'0, prefer 'em a little smaller.
Why didn't you use Facebook? Much less 'formal' and potentially creepy.
did she have to bend over?
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Had to respond to this thread from my phone, skorp is correct here, as a woman if you email me and I did not give you my email addy you are going straight to stalker file.
does he go to the "stalker file" even if he's extremely good looking or successful?
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does he go to the "stalker file" even if he's extremely good looking or successful?
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Bingo, like it was said earlier, if you are good looking you're romantic, if you aren't you're a stalker. Sending an email is not stalkerish, sending multiples might be. Showing up at her work is creepy as shit. Calling her work will get you a restraining order. It's all a game anyways. I hit the ball to her and now it's in her court. Women love making a guy wait. Lots of unknowns. She may be too shy to reply back, she might already have a boyfriend or husband and was lying to me. Who knows.....
If you have not heard back by now, shes already interested in another man.
Oh well, at least you tried.
Believe it or not, looks don't always trump unwanted behavior. That goes for men and women.
3 options here:
1. You email her, and she's cool with it.
2. You email her, and she thinks you're a stalker.
3. You do nothing, and go back to your hand.
What's it going to be? :D
my point is there are countless examples of guys doing the same thing blanco did and it being "romantic" because he was hot and it being "creepy" because he was ugly, and then some will think it's "creepy" no matter what the guy looks like
i guess it depends on the chick, it's just funny how she can be so complimentary and then think of him as "creepy" for contacting her the only way he could, they seem to go from one extreme (he' so hot) to the other (he's a creep) within a minute
it's very judgmental, which makes them very hypocritical considering they hate it when guys judge them
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if she knows you're being creepy it means you're doing it wrongIt was a simple email. If she found it creepy then she has deeper issues. I think I fucked up leaving it open ended instead of being insistent that I hear back. Not sure why chicks think anything a guy does is creepy now. They throw their whole lives in Facebook and get mad if you comment.
pretty much anything can be engineered with careful planning :)
email writing is an art
every word must have an intentention!!!!!!
For all I know it went to her spam filter and she doesn't even know I sent it.
Basille's plan would work in the 70 and 80's before email, cell phones and texting. Catching her off guard at work with a call can be a huge deal killer. Even if she didn't find it creepy I'm pretty sure her friends would and brainwash her into thinking it. Most girls friends are jealous bitches and even if they found it romantic they wouldn't tell her that out of their pitiness.
an email is very innocent. She can do what she wants without pressure. She may have deleted it or even drafted a reply and is waiting to send. Never know people's intentions. At this point anymore communication from me would be a desperate move.
If you have not heard back by now, shes already interested in another man.
Oh well, at least you tried.
Could be a dozen different reasons. Like I said earlier, if it was me I'd already have forgotten about it. If she pops up....bonus
It was a simple email. If she found it creepy then she has deeper issues. I think I fucked up leaving it open ended instead of being insistent that I hear back. Not sure why chicks think anything a guy does is creepy now. They throw their whole lives in Facebook and get mad if you comment.
Doesn't the OP realize women are vile whores who are all over you one day and gone the next?
Tell me who hurt you Calfzilla. What was her name?
Tell me who hurt you Calfzilla. What was her name?
Tell me who hurt you Calfzilla. What was her name?
Its pretty hot how you stand up for other men on her. Gives me the chills, broskie.
I don't understand this post, is it a Hebrew riddle? Either way thanks bro.
Okay, you need help.
Dear Hottie,
What a pleasure meeting someone special like you at the club the other night. I thought we had a lot in common and I was looking forward to seeing you again.
I got distracted by my mates who needed my help. We found the poor bugger outside but when we tried to get back into the club we failed. That reminded me
of the song by Springsteen when he begged the bouncer to let him in to see his gal. Gosh, what a disappointment. I didn't get your contact details but I remembered
where you worked so I just have to email you if there is the slightest chance we could catch up again. Maybe see you at the club again? Name a night and I will be
there. I guess an attractive gal like you gets a lot of guys chasing her. You really are a great gal.
Bye,
EDB
Include your mobile number in case she wants to text or call you.
Still no reply. Safe to say this is a dead deal. Oh well. if she is playing games and making me wait then the red flags are waving high. Don't need a bitch who is already playing games. It'll only get worse. Cutting my losses and moving on. if she replies she better have a damned good excuse for taking days but I think it is done.
Thanks players for your advice, some good, some that could get me arrested and some just past their time, but still all good.
God Bless the getbig community. brothers with arms
Okay, you need help.
someone special like you
Gosh
slightest chance
Name a night and I will be there
You really are a great gal
Time to show up at her work.
It sounds a bit like you are working up an excuse to send a second email :-\
Okay, you need help.
Dear Hottie,
What a pleasure meeting someone special like you at the club the other night. I thought we had a lot in common and I was looking forward to seeing you again.
I got distracted by my mates who needed my help. We found the poor bugger outside but when we tried to get back into the club we failed. That reminded me
of the song by Springsteen when he begged the bouncer to let him in to see his gal. Gosh, what a disappointment. I didn't get your contact details but I remembered
where you worked so I just have to email you if there is the slightest chance we could catch up again. Maybe see you at the club again? Name a night and I will be
there. I guess an attractive gal like you gets a lot of guys chasing her. You really are a great gal.
Bye,
EDB
Include your mobile number in case she wants to text or call you.
Okay, you need help.
EDB
Include your mobile number in case she wants to text or call you.[/color]
Okay, you need help.BAHAHAHA
Dear Hottie,
What a pleasure meeting someone special like you at the club the other night. I thought we had a lot in common and I was looking forward to seeing you again.
I got distracted by my mates who needed my help. We found the poor bugger outside but when we tried to get back into the club we failed. That reminded me
of the song by Springsteen when he begged the bouncer to let him in to see his gal. Gosh, what a disappointment. I didn't get your contact details but I remembered
where you worked so I just have to email you if there is the slightest chance we could catch up again. Maybe see you at the club again? Name a night and I will be
there. I guess an attractive gal like you gets a lot of guys chasing her. You really are a great gal.
Bye,
EDB
Include your mobile number in case she wants to text or call you.
Okay, you need help.
Dear Hottie,
What a pleasure meeting someone special like you at the club the other night. I thought we had a lot in common and I was looking forward to seeing you again.
I got distracted by my mates who needed my help. We found the poor bugger outside but when we tried to get back into the club we failed. That reminded me
of the song by Springsteen when he begged the bouncer to let him in to see his gal. Gosh, what a disappointment. I didn't get your contact details but I remembered
where you worked so I just have to email you if there is the slightest chance we could catch up again. Maybe see you at the club again? Name a night and I will be
there. I guess an attractive gal like you gets a lot of guys chasing her. You really are a great gal.
Bye,
EDB
Include your mobile number in case she wants to text or call you.
Just send the 2nd email
"You a queen, therefore I treat you royal
This is all for you, cause I simply adore you"
Or simply "my cocks on fire"
I did leave my cell. Nothing. dead as dead now. whores will be whores
I don't understand this post, is it a Hebrew riddle? Either way thanks bro.
I wouldn't even look at it like that dude, like there was any kind of rejection. for all you know, that email is sitting in her spam folder and she never even saw it. or a million other things that could have happened.point I'm making is I wouldn't take it personal.
Sayeth the man that has never experienced rejection.I chuckled.
I'm not reading all of this since my last post so I have a question,
...did you kick the snot out of your pussy, lightweight, drinking friend for fucking things up with this girl?
Totally creepy for you to be so into the Convo that u remembered where she said she worked then took it upon yourself to look her up the next day and actually email her at her work email addy. It just shows desperation on your part. But it didn't hurt for you to try either, so good for you. It also depends what u told her in the email. Please post it.
Just go back to the club at the same time
If she is there give her the eyes
If sh eye fucks you back get her number straight away
Nothing wrong with an email
Only problem is if she got hit on by five or six guys that night
She might not know which one you are
As a foot note I showed my wife basille s letter she laughed and said it was like a bad parody
Send her another one
"I dont take kindly to disrespect"
Send her another one
"I dont take kindly to disrespect"
Email her again, nothing to lose now. Either gonna look creepy or super creepy.
Hmmm...talks to a chick for an hour at a club, then stalks her for two weeks in real life....not creepy at all.
It's getting there huh?x2
He should just go back to that club every weekend. He's bound to run into her again.
It's getting there huh?
He should just go back to that club every weekend. He's bound to run into her again.
x2
That's not stalking at all. :D
I must be taking this harder than I thought. I just completely flipped on someone for the dumbest thing. I just felt pure rage and anger. Bitches can fuck your mind up. Now I'm just angry. Taking everything in my willpower to not send her an email calling her a fucking whore. But I won't. Gonna hit the club tonight and drown my sorrows in some fattie.What where you expecting creeper? You bailed on her without taking the time to see if she wanted further communication, you then email uninvited and now the woman thinks you're a rapist. If you have to think about if a woman is into you or not then you are clueless, when a woman REALLY digs a guy it is pretty hard to miss. If she really wanted further contact with you she would have arranged this before you bailed.