What are you going to tell God when asks why you've been so judgmental?
What's wrong with being judgmental? Don't you make judgments about people? Don't you judge and determine that some people are better than others? Don't you judge the type of people you will associate with and be friends with and avoid and even condemn the scam bags?
I never got this notion, and it is a fairly recent one, that one shouldn't be judgmental. When my 15 year old introduce me to her boyfriend you can be damn sure I paid very close attention, and judged every action, to determine what kind of person he seemed to be. How he spoke, his manners, was he polite and respectful, how did he address me (call me "dude" or "sir").
I know someone killed Caylee Anthony and from the evidence presented it's virtually impossible that Casey Anthony had zero responsibility in her death. Even if it was by simple neglect if not outright murder. I make that judgment.
If you are not judgmental. If you don't judge and make judgments, it simply means you have no standards. And I know that's not you.
We judge and past judgments on people here in this life. It is God that will past judgment on our soul. And when that time comes, pray that your moral bank account, i.e., the deposits of good and bad you've made throughout your life, shows a positive balance on the side of good.
That's what I think about and am aware about everyday I wake up alive. Am I a good man and have I done enough good in life to stand before God with courage and honor?