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family, other women who are more desirable, confus
« Sent to: uberman on: Today at 06:08:31 PM »
HEY FRIEND, PLEASE TRY TO ADVISE ME
so as you read my gf (baby mama) thought i cheated on her and left (i didnt but slept over with a woman, didnt fuck her but would have if she wanted)
anyway her brother in law convinced me to "try to win her back"
so now i "won her back"
my dad also convinced me to "win her back" for "the sake of the children" etc
so ok.... i "won her back" and she is coming back////
however she is still staying with her sis and brother in law for the weekend
so.........
i thought well i take this opportunity to "hit the clubs and try out my 17" shredded pythons", just for ego, no need to romance women, just want to have them admire my guns
BUTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTT TTTTTTTTTTT
turns out ..... i just went to "the clubs" and a beautiful angelic 19 year old congolese girl fell for me like a rock
totally smitten
basically in love
and i'm totally in awe by her youth, impressionability and innocence
she seems to really respect me as a man because i'm 25 got a good job, a car, muscles etc
she 19 in school living with daddy, no driving licence, no car....
basically it's a shame..... she is everytghing i want in a woman
beautiful, black, respects me as a man, not demanding, impressionable, loves my muscles
sooo
basically i wonder, should i let this slip? just for the sake of family and children?
this could be "the one?"
fuck man
i feel so confused
ernestly, you troll me a lot but you seem like a man of the world
please give your advice like you would give your brother
best regards,
anabolic halo
Here is my answer you goddamn motherfucking idiot;
You d be as bad a man and father with her than you are with your current gf. Obviously you want to impress the impressionable gullible girls, because you feel like you re not impressing the mother of your kid, cause she knows who you truly are. But you would still be the same loser and would be exposed later. You want a submissive woman who "respects you", cause your current woman is the real man in your couple, judging by the character you exposed on here, i'm more prone to believe her than you; more than often women are more mature than men when it comes to build and protect life, not the opposite. I also sense you ve been bullshiting us for a long time about some details in your relationship . Also after some time the naive little girl would take over you too anyway, because you re a dumbass. It's easier to flee than face what you have done and should repair. You have the choice between doing your best with what you have, or ruin someone else again, just like you ruined the first gal. Be honest yourself, do you really think a young naive woman needs a loser like you to bullshit her ? You would only create another drama and ruin someone else's life. Also, whether it's with your current gf or a new one, your life would be the fucking same, we re all here to survive and find allies to go thru the whole thing known as life. To be honest you both sound as dumb as each others. Instead of creating more misery around you, why not try to do something worth of your kid instead. Stop thinking only about yourself and start thinking about what you ll leave behind you, think about the specie.
Are your own parents separated? You always talk about your father, but what about your mother? You re probably subconsciously reproducing the behaviors of one of your genitors, grandparents, or ancestors as we only are the sum of what precedes and spawned us. A kid coming from a stable family with stable parents raised differently with different values wouldnt even think about the whole thing in the first place, he d just follow learned guidelines as blindly as you do.
How comes you re seeking advices from a complete stranger on the internet while being surrounded by a father and family members? Obviously you come from a dysfunctional family and lack confidence and guidance.
Just tell your gf to do everything you want her to do as you re the one who pay the bills. Isnt she supposed to be submissive just based on this? What kind of wimp are you.
Or maybe SHE is the one bringing the bacon on the table? Would make much more sense. Something doesnt add up. You both need a slap in the face, but I'm afraid there are no decent enough parents to do so.
Fucking read the Bible if you dont know what or who to follow and if everyone and everything seem to get you lost and confused. Maybe you will understand there s something bigger above you, before and after you. It's easier to follow another human's advice, and to blame him or her for what follows, than to submit to God Himself.