With OMR, being homosexual is to a greater degree, incidental to his thoughts here. With Bay and to a lesser extent Tbombz, the joy of buttsex, whether giving or receiving seems paramount to their existence.
In other words, if you were to actually meet OMR, Bay and Tbombz in person and had no previous experience with any of them I seriously doubt OMR would ever mention his sexuality. It does not seem to dominate his public life, but instead his private life. He is married and a good family man.
Bay would most likely begin to ascertain what placing you would receive on his personal "Trail of Tiers" (lord, I find that funny!) and this being dependent upon your level of troll like facial looks and cro-magnon drug filled physique. Tbombz would just want to know (based upon my readings of some of his drivel posted here) whether or not you were good looking enough to buttsex him and if you were not more handsome than he (unlikely any here would fail) then you had best have a much large penis so that he can justify your giving him the deep tissue massage he wants and needs.
There is being a man that prefers the sexual company of another man, but still being a man in every other sense of the word. That would be OMR. Then there is being a man whose life is managed entirely around other men's genitalia. That would be Bay and Tbombz.
For me, OMR is a good guy that happens to be homosexual. The other two mentioned here I am not really interested in knowing because I already know enough about them. There may well be more to them than their being homosexual, but they certainly do not present that as such.
Just an observation but I am certain that others will differ from mine.