I'm not gentle at all, and I agree with the first half of your original post. Women of class want a guy that actually does something--in short an alpha male.
The point where I disagree is when you criticize women as being self-centered for expecting something from the men they date.
Women should expect a little more, because we have quite a lot of man-children these days.
And yes, if you want a casual fuck, get an upscale prostitute.
but these are the same women who act so differently when they are drunk/on drugs, and when people use drugs and act
completely differently when they are sober have issue, so these kind of women are not trustworthy and and superficial imo.