Div was too smart to take the bait, LOL!
Since you're already in the boat.... is it the act of submission or couples having definate roles that actually makes things work?
Hmmm... Well my wife and I will take over each others stuff on a - as need be basis. Then do as well as possible.
But some stuff better done by one or the other.
I do feel most all women like a man whos "in control", not a controlling assHole. I'm still going w/ the instinctive & Genetic thing there to. Women cant stand a guy who cant make up his mind, even if hes wrong.
As fAR as making it work, that = make it last to my mind. Respect is key there.
Even when I allready know damn well what I plant to do, I run any important thing by her for input.
Sometimes I'll change even if I was dead set,
I wouldn't of married her If I didn't respect her ideas.. I do the same w/ employees, even HS kids. Let them feel their input is important. You get employees who'll nearly die for you like that.
If i get more explicit on "submission" I better PM ya
Ill have a angry mob here.