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From reddit
"I'm not going to bore you guys with huge blocks of text so here goes. I been with my boyfriend for five years. He's amazing - great job, family and friends love him, intelligent, attractive, supportive, and sex life is great. One of the important points is that we do not fight at all, and he's quite firm about this - he thinks fighting is a waste of time and for children. I learnt that early on in the relationship and realized it's something I've grown to agree with even though I hated it at first - we always sit down, discuss and talk about issues, and are able to reach compromises.
He's very understanding and patient, and never gets so angry that he has to raise his voice. He's also quite traditional in some aspects too (which is good and bad), although I've been able to talk to him and open his mind up about certain things - I know he hates cheaters and I do trust him, and I know he trusts me too - he never ever restricted me or not let me do anything. Because of these things about him, I'm quite confused by how he's acting.
I've been thinking about wanting to have an open relationship for a while, and it would be fair both ways - we would both get to sleep with other people, as long as we were honest with each other about it and it was purely physical. I know he's quite traditional, but it also never seemed like something he would be that against as he's said things like "I have nothing against girls who like to sleep around, as long as they don't pretend they're innocent/good girl etc." However, I'm not going to pretend that he isn't a monogamous type of guy, because he is, I just figured that maybe I could open his mind to something different!
He's very good in bed but I just wanted to have some other experiences - is that really wrong? I love him and it has nothing to do with just purely physical sex. So a few days ago I decided to bring up the topic with opening up our relationship with him. His only answers were are you joking or are you serious? To which I said I was being serious and wanted to know how he felt about it. He then told me that I could sleep with whoever I wanted to sleep with, and to have a nice life. Then he packed some stuff and left (we share an apartment), and I couldn't really stop him.
Since then he has blocked me from calling him, all his social media and won't speak to me. I don't know where he is staying because his friends refuse to talk to me and I've been crying my eyes out for the past few days. He has removed his relationship status from facebook and sent his friend over to get some of his other stuff, who has told me that he would eventually come to get the rest of things but wouldn't tell me anything else. He said that I've done enough damage and he's ashamed that he thought I would end up married with his friend. He also told me that I would be happier and better off if I didn't pretend to be somebody I wasn't when I started dating again.
If he said he wasn't comfortable with it I would have been okay with that but he never gave me a chance, he literally just broke up with me for bringing it up and he's never been like this before. I've been going to his workplace but haven't been able to see him and I can't get into the department where he works because you need to have clearance, and the receptionists say that he isn't taking any visits from anybody either.
I love him so much and I've done nothing over the past few days except cry and cry and cry and I don't know what to do. I just want to talk to him and hear his voice, and have him forgive me for being so stupid and tell me everything is going to be okay and talk to me like he usually does but I don't understand how he can act like this and never acted like this before. I don't know what to do and I'm going ****ing crazy
The only thing I've been able to get from him is that one of my mutual friends talked to him for a while, but he basically didn't want to talk about it to anybody else. But the friend did ask him if he's really going to throw away five years over something so small, to which my boyfriend apparently said that he's not throwing away anything, he's cutting his losses while he can.
Please help reddit! I really don't know what to do it feels like I'm falling apart - and what's even worse is some of my friends tell me what do you expect etc. .. and the others are there for me but don't know what to do either
Sorry if some things don't make sense, I'm a mess and everything is just coming out as best as I can write it down... if anybdoy needs to me clear anything up I will"
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girl dates guy for 5 years.
says she's happy with his personality, the sex is "amazing".
says he's confident, loving, etc
one night asks him for an open relationship, instead of a monogamous one. wants to bang other dudes and wants him to bang other girls.
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im humbled 8)
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im humbled 8)
More or less than if a skinny homo had tattooed your body on his back?
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BigMc strikes me as a bottom of the submissive variety
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Fucking ruthless dude.
Good.
I would never be ok with knowing that the next time I go down on my girl that there could be another dudes spunk marinating in there.
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More or less than if a skinny homo had tattooed your body on his back?
id be more troubled if that happened
and likely to carve it out of them with a large knife
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I'm not going to bore you guys with huge blocks of text so here goes.
...and then I stopped reading.
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Single lass eh? I'll fly ye like a banner bespangled in stars atop me pole. [scratches stubble] Yarrr.
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I'd only be okay with an "open relationship" if my gf was bisexual and said she wanted to have fun with other women as well as me. :)
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BigMc strikes me as a bottom of the submissive variety
He looks like he'll strike you for sure. Don't know about the second part of your statement though.
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What he did is something i wish everyone of us could do.
Cutting your losses while you still can.
That she even thought about it is sending huge warning-signals of peace, ie buzzing signals of the highest degree.
5 years is 5 years though.
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I'd only be okay with an "open relationship" if my gf was bisexual and said she wanted to have fun with other women as well as me. :)
Bertha is okay with me banging men, just as long as she can watch. She knows I have good taste in men. :) Haven't ever done it, though.
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5 years and came out clean with this whore , good for him
any pics of this whore who wants to let her fuck her brains out ::)
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he was looking for a reason to leave. she gave him one.
"Two words... I'm gone!"
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cold as ice ;D the man has his convictions that's for sure. the thought of this whore coming to her senses and realizing what just happened after this cat eviscerates her entire existence makes me smile a bit
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Good for him. If she's thinking about it, it aint going away. Whore.
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I'd only be okay with an "open relationship" if my gf was bisexual and said she wanted to have fun with other women as well as me. :)
Well I could dress up as a woman so your woman would pass as bisexual and you would only be welcome to join the fun if you agree to be a submissive bottom boy. ( no homo cause its a threesome with a woman)
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Smart man, not because there's anything wrong with an open relationship but because he stood for his beliefs.
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cold as ice ;D the man has his convictions that's for sure. the thought of this whore coming to her senses and realizing what just happened after this cat eviscerates her entire existence makes me smile a bit
I could see Groink leaving a relationship in this manner.
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I could see Groink leaving a relationship in this manner.
Before or after he acts tough but runs away from Avesher?
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I'd have told her okay to the open relationship and then fucked her mother and sister.
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He was smart to ditch that bitch. She was bound to fuck around whether he knew about it or not.
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The guy was looking for an out and got one. Loved the story though. Whore
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I think id bang another chick, make sure she walked in on it, ask her what she thought of it now, and THEN leave.
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I think id bang another chick, make sure she walked in on it, ask her what she thought of it now, and THEN leave.
Bang the chick but also talk about and to her constantly. Its not the sex part that will drive her crazy but the fact your attention is diverted toward the new woman.
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He was smart to leave.
Open relationships don't work once you've been monogamous prior.
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Good. A man should stand by his principles. I would do the same. A whore is a whore and will never change.
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I'd only be okay with an "open relationship" if my gf was bisexual and said she wanted to have fun with other women as well as me. :)
Thus but I'd have to add she would have to bring home one of them now and again for us both to bang, this would be the best chance of getting a three some, far more effective than a guy trying to persuade two girls
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Guy has strong convictions. Good for him. She will most likely cheat on him.
Open relationships rarely ever work.
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the guy is smart. 100% cutting his losses. a no bullshit guy. no one approved.
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Guy has strong convictions. Good for him. She will most likely cheat on him.
Open relationships rarely ever work.
She probably already HAS cheated. Talking to the boyfriend in the hopes of having an "open relationship" is because of her guilt over having cheated. She wants him to say yes so she doesn't feel like such a slag.
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The guy was looking for an out and got one. Loved the story though. Whore
+1
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Guy has strong convictions. Good for him. She will most likely cheat on him.
Open relationships rarely ever work.
They NEVER work from what ive seen. (Couple chick friends who tried, both of which I was banging whenever they got upset at their BF)
A guy will come along whos better in the sack and shell inevitably start getting more attached to him (and claim its emotional without realizing shes just addicted to his cock and her emotions are just following along) and when that happens, shell slowly start to emotionally distance herself from her BF until she doesn't give 2 fucks about him, then shell leave him for other dude.
Then when other dude gets bored of boning her, shell breakdown and come crying back, and hopefully the dude refuses to take the slut back and lets her wallow in her fucked up situation she created. But most guys dont, because the guys that let their GF bang other dudes are usually pussies anyway.
Other thing that happens is the chicks go psycho when seeing guy hooking up with others.
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She probably already HAS cheated. Talking to the boyfriend in the hopes of having an "open relationship" is because of her guilt over having cheated. She wants him to say yes so she doesn't feel like such a slag.
either that, OR she has a married/taken co-worker macking on her... she got wet and wants a quickie... dude proposed she adhere to her 'moral code' by getting permission from the boyfriend to secretly be a side dish... on paper it looks great.
Now she has to pay all the bills alone, she lost the only stable thing in her life, and she's realizing the world is full of a-hole boys that just want to bang her and bang her friends and keep on movin on. She has a good thing.
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Exactly what you should do. Also if she tries that "Alpha female" chit. Or fuck her in the ass, then next day break it off.
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"but I just wanted to have some other experiences - is that really wrong?"
It sum up her state of mind, the kind of bitch she is and how she is fucked up.
With argument like that she can justify even the filthiest thing.
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She probably already HAS cheated. Talking to the boyfriend in the hopes of having an "open relationship" is because of her guilt over having cheated. She wants him to say yes so she doesn't feel like such a slag.
Excellent points. I did not look at it like that. Good for the guy for leaving.
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They NEVER work from what ive seen. (Couple chick friends who tried, both of which I was banging whenever they got upset at their BF)
A guy will come along whos better in the sack and shell inevitably start getting more attached to him (and claim its emotional without realizing shes just addicted to his cock and her emotions are just following along) and when that happens, shell slowly start to emotionally distance herself from her BF until she doesn't give 2 fucks about him, then shell leave him for other dude.
Then when other dude gets bored of boning her, shell breakdown and come crying back, and hopefully the dude refuses to take the slut back and lets her wallow in her fucked up situation she created. But most guys dont, because the guys that let their GF bang other dudes are usually pussies anyway.
Other thing that happens is the chicks go psycho when seeing guy hooking up with others.
I would imagine open relationships being extremely difficult. There are some people who do make it work, but its usually a whole different life style (swingers). There are swingers who engage in these sort of acts, but as I said, its more of a lifestyle for them, as opposed to just randomly wanting to sleep around. If this makes sense.
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Try being Alpha enough not to end up with some stupid immature slut like that in the first place. Poor interpretation of what a whore she was.
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Stopped at, "I been "
Not reading all that shit.
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I would imagine open relationships being extremely difficult. There are some people who do make it work, but its usually a whole different life style (swingers). There are swingers who engage in these sort of acts, but as I said, its more of a lifestyle for them, as opposed to just randomly wanting to sleep around. If this makes sense.
For swingers it's a control, so that the other person doesn't "cheat". There are a lot of "rules" , and usually there is an underlying problem. And the "lifestyle" doesn't fix the problem. There are few people on here that engage in it, or set up meetings. I knew a few myself, and it caused problems---it didnt help their intimacy issues, but covered it, as theg were getting it from someone else. And there are those who to the set up the "cuckhold" thing as well.
Problem is humans find a way to way to make things complicated. But, find it complicated to make things simple. Compound that with sex and it is even more complicated.
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For swingers it's a control, so that the other person doesn't "cheat". There are a lot of "rules" , and usually there is an underlying problem. And the "lifestyle" doesn't fix the problem. There are few people on here that engage in it, or set up meetings. I knew a few myself, and it caused problems---it didnt help their intimacy issues, but covered it, as theg were getting it from someone else. And there are those who to the set up the "cuckhold" thing as well.
Problem is humans find a way to way to make things complicated. But, find it complicated to make things simple. Compound that with sex and it is even more complicated.
It's a mental illness as far as I'm concerned. Jealousy is a normal human emotion, you should want your girlfriend/wife to be monogamous so that she has your kids from a Darwinian point of you. As a man you would also resent the child of a man your wife/girlfriend had while with you. It is a sickness, plain and simple.
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Before or after he acts tough but runs away from ripped?
You are a catty little homo arent you.
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For swingers it's a control, so that the other person doesn't "cheat". There are a lot of "rules" , and usually there is an underlying problem. And the "lifestyle" doesn't fix the problem. There are few people on here that engage in it, or set up meetings. I knew a few myself, and it caused problems---it didnt help their intimacy issues, but covered it, as theg were getting it from someone else. And there are those who to the set up the "cuckhold" thing as well.
Problem is humans find a way to way to make things complicated. But, find it complicated to make things simple. Compound that with sex and it is even more complicated.
Parker, you are a man of great knowledge.
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It's a mental illness as far as I'm concerned. Jealousy is a normal human emotion, you should want your girlfriend/wife to be monogamous so that she has your kids from a Darwinian point of you. As a man you would also resent the child of a man your wife/girlfriend had while with you. It is a sickness, plain and simple.
Similar to how the male lion will kill cubs that belong to another male lion, so he can procreate and produce his offspring?
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one of my exs is in an open relationship. she was always a free spirit. the type you couldn't chain down but didn't want to cause that's what made her, her.
some people for some reason can't be monogamous. I get that. so they have open relationships to keep their marriage afloat. usually because divorce isn't as viable an option given circumstance.
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From reddit
"I'm not going to bore you guys with huge blocks of text so here goes...
and then she goes
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Similar to how the male lion will kill cubs that belong to another male lion, so he can procreate and produce his offspring?
You can break down nearly every action we do to simplistic things, simplistic goals.
A slut is good for one night, that's it. You can tell them a mile away from body language. A real lady slaps your hand when you try to rub her thigh first time you meet her.
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You can break down nearly every action we do to simplistic things, simplistic goals.
A slut is good for one night, that's it. You can tell them a mile away from body language. A real lady slaps your hand when you try to rub her thigh first time you meet her.
clearly I've never had an opportunity to meet such a species.
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clearly I've never had an opportunity to meet such a species.
They really dont exist.
I couldnt tell you the last time I didnt get laid on a first date.
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clearly I've never had an opportunity to meet such a species.
My girlfriend rejected such advances first time we met. I wanted the usual but was intrigued. Here was someone who obviously liked me but valued herself enough that she could reject someone she liked to see if he was serious. That's a woman.
I am not saying a woman can't have had one night stands etc in her past, but a real woman, ready to be wifed, does not offer herself to people. She keeps her cards close and decides the best hand to play.
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I see all these stupid facebook posts from women about what a real man should do or is. Ive yet to see these posts and memed about "real women". These broads today are off their rockers. Loose morals, lazy, greedy and skank sluts.
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Loose morals, lazy, greedy and skank sluts.
Fuck, I got hard when I read this post, describes my favorite kind of woman.
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and then she goes
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Where is this?
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one of my exs is in an open relationship. she was always a free spirit. the type you couldn't chain down but didn't want to cause that's what made her, her.
some people for some reason can't be monogamous. I get that. so they have open relationships to keep their marriage afloat. usually because divorce isn't as viable an option given circumstance.
You know what they call women who call themselves "free spirits"?
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Where is this?
syntaxmachines house.
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syntaxmachines house.
stockholm library...very impressive.
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This guy restores my faith in humanity.
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I see all these stupid facebook posts from women about what a real man should do or is. Ive yet to see these posts and memed about "real women". These broads today are off their rockers. Loose morals, lazy, greedy and skank sluts.
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'Men' who allow their girlfriends/wives to have an open relationship are little beta homos, who probably just want to smell some jean paul gaultier on their girls neck when she comes home and then wank in the shower thinking about someone elses black cock ffs
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You know what they call women who call themselves "free spirits"?
I call her that. she didn't refer to herself as that.
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My girlfriend rejected such advances first time we met. I wanted the usual but was intrigued. Here was someone who obviously liked me but valued herself enough that she could reject someone she liked to see if he was serious. That's a woman.
I am not saying a woman can't have had one night stands etc in her past, but a real woman, ready to be wifed, does not offer herself to people. She keeps her cards close and decides the best hand to play.
I waited for two "short" months before I got some from my current gf. Was fully worth it.
Maybe that's because she was 21 at the time and haven't been around too much to become "ruined"..
Most other - second/third date.. I usualy even loose interest after that.
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You know what they call women who call themselves "free spirits"?
What?
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What?
You know what.
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Open relationship? She'd get a slap across the face and if she talks back after that she gets another backhander in the gob.
"Bitch, I'll keep fucking other girls and you better have my dinner ready when I come home after a long day of going balls deep in the neighbours daughter or I'll fucking break your jaw into 6 pieces, you got that, Whore?"
Treat 'em mean keep 'em fucking keen
edit: on a more serious note...if the words "open relationship" or "seeing other people" or anything of the sort cropped up in a conversation, I'd have her by the hair dragging her down the hallway to the door before she finished the sentence
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Open relationship? She'd get a slap across the face and if she talks back after that she gets another backhander in the gob.
"Bitch, I'll keep fucking other girls and you better have my dinner ready when I come home after a long day of going balls deep in the neighbours daughter or I'll fucking break your jaw into 6 pieces, you got that, Whore?"
Treat 'em mean keep 'em fucking keen
:D ;D
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You know what.
Lol
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edit: on a more serious note...if the words "open relationship" or "seeing other people" or anything of the sort cropped up in a conversation, I'd have her by the hair dragging her down the hallway to the door before she finished the sentence
That's what actually would happen in my case too. Don't even want to imagine.
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Open relationship? She'd get a slap across the face and if she talks back after that she gets another backhander in the gob.
"Bitch, I'll keep fucking other girls and you better have my dinner ready when I come home after a long day of going balls deep in the neighbours daughter or I'll fucking break your jaw into 6 pieces, you got that, Whore?"
Treat 'em mean keep 'em fucking keen
edit: on a more serious note...if the words "open relationship" or "seeing other people" or anything of the sort cropped up in a conversation, I'd have her by the hair dragging her down the hallway to the door before she finished the sentence
As you should
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"but I just wanted to have some other experiences - is that really wrong?"
It sum up her state of mind, the kind of bitch she is and how she is fucked up.
With argument like that she can justify even the filthiest thing.
And lets say he said "No, I'm not comfortable with that," but decided to continue the relationship.....do you think she would have just been like, "Yeah, OK. I just thought I'd ask," and not go off to bang whatever guy was hitting on her at the local Starbucks?
She asked for permission to fuck other men simply so she could change the rules of the relationship and not have to deal with guilt.
Tricky slut, but a slut nonetheless.
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I like how she stated that everything was going great in the sex dept several times. So, why eff up 5 yrs. Especially if you know your man is the traditional and monogamous sort. And did she come up with this idea by herself? She wants new experiences? Well tell your man you want to try X, Y and Z...
People like making up excuses for doing what they want to do. Good thing that they don't have kids.
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Whore....there. I said it Parker.
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I waited for two "short" months before I got some from my current gf. Was fully worth it.
Maybe that's because she was 21 at the time and haven't been around too much to become "ruined"..
Most other - second/third date.. I usualy even loose interest after that.
I never did the whole dating thing, I just fucked one night stands or had a girlfriend (or both ;D). This has been only gf I didn't fuck first night I met her.
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lots of male insecurity in this thread
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lots of male insecurity in this thread
are you saying that real men carry kittens?
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are you saying that real men carry kittens?
Real men could handle an open relationship without worrying that other guys were servicing her better than he could.
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Real men could handle an open relationship without worrying that other guys were servicing her better than he could.
I take it that the man was very sensitive, and possibly not very bright
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Real men could handle an open relationship without worrying that other guys were servicing her better than he could.
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Real men could handle an open relationship without worrying that other guys were servicing her better than he could.
Are you saying real men shouldn't mind squishing around in another man's gland juice, savagely deposited in his lady friend?
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If people want an open relationship, let them have one. If one person is the type to even consider an open relationship, and the other would hate that, this probably isn't a good sign for the relationship. Two very different people.
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Real men could handle an open relationship without worrying that other guys were servicing her better than he could.
I disagree. In the end, a mans basic function is to pass on his genes. A man who willingly relinquishes his ability to procreate to another man is essentially defective as a human being and a man.
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I disagree. In the end, a mans basic function is to pass on his genes. A man who willingly relinquishes his ability to procreate to another man is essentially defective as a human being and a man.
Before I decide to have children, I want all of the eligible bachelors in town fight to the death. I'll take the seed of the survivor
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Before I decide to have children, I want all of the eligible bachelors in town fight to the death. I'll take the seed of the survivor
Does any "alpha ::)" male fight over a woman?
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Does any "alpha ::)" male fight over a woman?
Id prefer for lions to be involved, but I'm flexible
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Before I decide to have children, I want all of the eligible bachelors in town fight to the death. I'll take the seed of the survivor
Bad strategy. He could be the strongest idiot of the bunch and you end up with a crop of dumb children.
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Does any "alpha ::)" male fight over a woman?
I think that she has similar standards as men have when it comes to making kids, it's all relative.
but I wouldn't go to a war over a woman unless I saw the woman like aladin saw jasmine.
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Id prefer for lions to be involved, but I'm flexible
I guess that spawns an even better question... who would win in a fight? A bear or a lion?
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From reddit
"I'm not going to bore you guys with huge blocks of text so here goes. I been with my boyfriend for five years. He's amazing
do you have the link?
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Real men could handle an open relationship without worrying that other guys were servicing her better than he could.
do you have any self respect?
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From reddit
"I'm not going to bore you guys with huge blocks of text so here goes. I been with my boyfriend for five years. He's amazing - great job, family and friends love him, intelligent, attractive, supportive, and sex life is great. One of the important points is that we do not fight at all, and he's quite firm about this - he thinks fighting is a waste of time and for children. I learnt that early on in the relationship and realized it's something I've grown to agree with even though I hated it at first - we always sit down, discuss and talk about issues, and are able to reach compromises.
He's very understanding and patient, and never gets so angry that he has to raise his voice. He's also quite traditional in some aspects too (which is good and bad), although I've been able to talk to him and open his mind up about certain things - I know he hates cheaters and I do trust him, and I know he trusts me too - he never ever restricted me or not let me do anything. Because of these things about him, I'm quite confused by how he's acting.
I've been thinking about wanting to have an open relationship for a while, and it would be fair both ways - we would both get to sleep with other people, as long as we were honest with each other about it and it was purely physical. I know he's quite traditional, but it also never seemed like something he would be that against as he's said things like "I have nothing against girls who like to sleep around, as long as they don't pretend they're innocent/good girl etc." However, I'm not going to pretend that he isn't a monogamous type of guy, because he is, I just figured that maybe I could open his mind to something different!
He's very good in bed but I just wanted to have some other experiences - is that really wrong? I love him and it has nothing to do with just purely physical sex. So a few days ago I decided to bring up the topic with opening up our relationship with him. His only answers were are you joking or are you serious? To which I said I was being serious and wanted to know how he felt about it. He then told me that I could sleep with whoever I wanted to sleep with, and to have a nice life. Then he packed some stuff and left (we share an apartment), and I couldn't really stop him.
Since then he has blocked me from calling him, all his social media and won't speak to me. I don't know where he is staying because his friends refuse to talk to me and I've been crying my eyes out for the past few days. He has removed his relationship status from facebook and sent his friend over to get some of his other stuff, who has told me that he would eventually come to get the rest of things but wouldn't tell me anything else. He said that I've done enough damage and he's ashamed that he thought I would end up married with his friend. He also told me that I would be happier and better off if I didn't pretend to be somebody I wasn't when I started dating again.
If he said he wasn't comfortable with it I would have been okay with that but he never gave me a chance, he literally just broke up with me for bringing it up and he's never been like this before. I've been going to his workplace but haven't been able to see him and I can't get into the department where he works because you need to have clearance, and the receptionists say that he isn't taking any visits from anybody either.
I love him so much and I've done nothing over the past few days except cry and cry and cry and I don't know what to do. I just want to talk to him and hear his voice, and have him forgive me for being so stupid and tell me everything is going to be okay and talk to me like he usually does but I don't understand how he can act like this and never acted like this before. I don't know what to do and I'm going ****ing crazy
The only thing I've been able to get from him is that one of my mutual friends talked to him for a while, but he basically didn't want to talk about it to anybody else. But the friend did ask him if he's really going to throw away five years over something so small, to which my boyfriend apparently said that he's not throwing away anything, he's cutting his losses while he can.
Please help reddit! I really don't know what to do it feels like I'm falling apart - and what's even worse is some of my friends tell me what do you expect etc. .. and the others are there for me but don't know what to do either
Sorry if some things don't make sense, I'm a mess and everything is just coming out as best as I can write it down... if anybdoy needs to me clear anything up I will"
Cliffs:
girl dates guy for 5 years.
says she's happy with his personality, the sex is "amazing".
says he's confident, loving, etc
one night asks him for an open relationship, instead of a monogamous one. wants to bang other dudes and wants him to bang other girls.
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This bothers me more than the loose morale'd women, micropenis'd chuckholds or junior pretending to be female in this thread.
My dogs hormones keep him healthy, despite what the castration-obsessed weirdos at the humane society want to believe, you can't just mutilate a young animal and not expect it to be negatively affected.
Ps junior you can't have children, that would require a non-commercial transaction to occur with a female ::)
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Real men could handle an open relationship without worrying that other guys were servicing her better than he could.
Troll level 5 post. Good shit.
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If you and your partner are both nymphos I don't see an issue. Long as that emotional bond and commitment is always there
"Nymphos" and "emotional bond" tend not to go hand in hand.