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Title: noone has ever given me any decent advice on this board, let alone even
Post by: xxxLinda on February 25, 2007, 04:43:49 PM
responded to any of my questions.  I'm sure I know why, but it doesn't bother me.  It's not my fault I make people jealous.

OK, so I just met the most gorgeous Italian boy 21.  I guess he's a man.  He has beauty spots all over his face.  I'm certain they get better lower down.  He's probably got a map on his chest and one on his beautiful one too.


I'm 39 and I guess I look like his mother, or something.  He wants me bad, should I ?

When do I call it a day and grow up and go for 40-50 year old grey or bald men? 
I cannot figure it out.  I'm not sure whether it's sad or what,
but as I get older, my tastes do not change. 



It's upsetting me.  I'm nearly old and I still only like extreme physical beauty.
Title: Re: noone has ever given me any decent advice on this board, let alone even
Post by: Laura Lee on February 26, 2007, 03:18:45 AM
responded to any of my questions.  I'm sure I know why, but it doesn't bother me.  It's not my fault I make people jealous.

OK, so I just met the most gorgeous Italian boy 21.  I guess he's a man.  He has beauty spots all over his face.  I'm certain they get better lower down.  He's probably got a map on his chest and one on his beautiful one too.


I'm 39 and I guess I look like his mother, or something.  He wants me bad, should I ?

When do I call it a day and grow up and go for 40-50 year old grey or bald men? 
I cannot figure it out.  I'm not sure whether it's sad or what,
but as I get older, my tastes do not change. 



It's upsetting me.  I'm nearly old and I still only like extreme physical beauty.
He wants you for what Linda?  A relationship or just sex?  No one can and should tell you what is right for you, only you decide.

As far as calling it a day and growing up to go for a 40-50 year old man.....never settle if that's not what you want.  ;)
Title: Re: noone has ever given me any decent advice on this board, let alone even
Post by: Playboy on February 26, 2007, 05:54:18 AM
He wants you for what Linda?  A relationship or just sex?  No one can and should tell you what is right for you, only you decide.

As far as calling it a day and growing up to go for a 40-50 year old man.....never settle if that's not what you want.  ;)
By the way Laura, I saw your six week out pics on the gossip board...looking awesome!!

PB
Title: Re: noone has ever given me any decent advice on this board, let alone even
Post by: Laura Lee on February 26, 2007, 06:39:32 AM
By the way Laura, I saw your six week out pics on the gossip board...looking awesome!!

PB
Thanks PB!   :)
Title: Re: noone has ever given me any decent advice on this board, let alone even
Post by: Playboy on February 26, 2007, 06:45:23 AM
Thanks PB!   :)
You're almost there...look at the bright side, you'll be able to indulge in some of those treats that Deedee and I were talking about on the other thread:)

PB
Title: Re: noone has ever given me any decent advice on this board, let alone even
Post by: Laura Lee on February 26, 2007, 07:24:10 AM
You're almost there...look at the bright side, you'll be able to indulge in some of those treats that Deedee and I were talking about on the other thread:)

PB
You know it!   :D   I want an M&M Blizzard and Pizza (w/Ranch Dressing).  Yum!!!
Title: Re: noone has ever given me any decent advice on this board, let alone even
Post by: Playboy on February 26, 2007, 08:34:31 AM
You know it!   :D   I want an M&M Blizzard and Pizza (w/Ranch Dressing).  Yum!!!
I'm dying right now because its a co-workers birthday...there are two chocolate chip/bananna cakes sitting only feet away from me and i'm doing my best to look away  :'(

PB
Title: Re: noone has ever given me any decent advice on this board, let alone even
Post by: Laura Lee on February 26, 2007, 08:42:25 AM
I'm dying right now because its a co-workers birthday...there are two chocolate chip/bananna cakes sitting only feet away from me and i'm doing my best to look away  :'(

PB
That is like me every night when watching TV and a Papa John's commercial is on.  roflmao!!!!!!!!
Title: Re: noone has ever given me any decent advice on this board, let alone even
Post by: 24KT on February 26, 2007, 10:36:15 AM
responded to any of my questions.  I'm sure I know why, but it doesn't bother me.  It's not my fault I make people jealous.

OK, so I just met the most gorgeous Italian boy 21.  I guess he's a man.  He has beauty spots all over his face.  I'm certain they get better lower down.  He's probably got a map on his chest and one on his beautiful one too.


I'm 39 and I guess I look like his mother, or something.  He wants me bad, should I ?

When do I call it a day and grow up and go for 40-50 year old grey or bald men? 
I cannot figure it out.  I'm not sure whether it's sad or what,
but as I get older, my tastes do not change. 



It's upsetting me.  I'm nearly old and I still only like extreme physical beauty.

Linda,

Go for it! it may or may not lead to an emotionally satisfying relationship, ...but you never know until you give it a go.

Besides, think of it as "Paying it Forward". Think of the service you will be doing for younger generations of women.

I can't believe you've forgotten "In Praise of Older Women". Live a little... and give back!

Don't be so selfish, ...teach the boy a thing or two.  :P
Title: Re: noone has ever given me any decent advice on this board, let alone even
Post by: 24KT on February 26, 2007, 10:37:41 AM
I'm dying right now because its a co-workers birthday...there are two chocolate chip/bananna cakes sitting only feet away from me and i'm doing my best to look away  :'(

PB

MMmmmm... where do you work? I'm not on any restricted diet... I'll come eat your slices for you if you'd like.  :D
Title: Re: noone has ever given me any decent advice on this board, let alone even
Post by: tu_holmes on February 26, 2007, 10:53:05 AM
Well, Linda... I don't know what the issue is. He wants you, you want him... sounds good.

When I was 21... I dated a 39 year old... At 30... a 47 year old... You like what you like... Now, that's not to say I like old women, I just am equal opportunity... If it's got what I want as far as aesthetics, then I'm going for it.

I do think that mentally speaking, after you get past the sex, you won't have much in common, but I could be wrong about that.

The heart wants what the heart wants... You should go with that.
Title: Re: noone has ever given me any decent advice on this board, let alone even
Post by: drkaje on March 07, 2007, 03:06:35 PM
Depends: If it's just sex, do it. If you're silly enough to think sex with younger guys will keep you young and feeling desireable, do it anyway but be prepared for the fallout or keep just doing it until people call you a cougar. :)

Young guys will hit anything moving that's willing.

A guy your age is way more of a challenge because they've heard all the B.S. before and have way more options (sex, dating, career, etc..) than women tend to at the same age. And, ANd.... AND, they are judged on far more criteria than something as superficial as looks. They essentially have every advantage (sans cooter, LOL!) which makes them a lot harder to tie down.
Title: Re: noone has ever given me any decent advice on this board, let alone even
Post by: 24KT on March 07, 2007, 03:14:59 PM
Depends: If it's just sex, do it. If you're silly enough to think sex with younger guys will keep you young and feeling desireable, do it anyway but be prepared for the fallout or keep just doing it until people call you a cougar. :)

Young guys will hit anything moving that's willing.

A guy your age is way more of a challenge because they've heard all the B.S. before and have way more options (sex, dating, career, etc..) than women tend to at the same age. And, ANd.... AND, they are judged on far more criteria than something as superficial as looks. They essentially have every advantage (sans cooter, LOL!) which makes them a lot harder to tie down.

Jake, are you serious?!?!  I have to strongly disagree. Women will always have more options than men. PERIOD!
Title: Re: noone has ever given me any decent advice on this board, let alone even
Post by: drkaje on March 07, 2007, 03:28:14 PM
Jake, are you serious?!?!  I have to strongly disagree. Women will always have more options than men. PERIOD!

Like James Brown said... "It's a man's world". If youre purely talking about a woman lowering her standards and giving it up to any guy that comes along... sure. If you're talking about better options and quality to choose from, men have it hands down. Men aren't judged on looks to a great extent. An average looking guy in decent shape with a decent job has way more options than a woman would in the same situation.

The one thing many women live and die by, looks, goes away a little each day. :'( Men aren't saddled with the same concerns.
Title: Re: noone has ever given me any decent advice on this board, let alone even
Post by: Deedee on March 07, 2007, 04:27:38 PM
And yet, in another thread, the Squadfather complains that men are judged solely by how much money and prestige they project.  The poor pauper working the gas station cash gets nothing.  So which is it... men have more options, or they're hindered by societal expectations that they must be successful?
Title: Re: noone has ever given me any decent advice on this board, let alone even
Post by: tu_holmes on March 07, 2007, 05:44:13 PM
And yet, in another thread, the Squadfather complains that men are judged solely by how much money and prestige they project.  The poor pauper working the gas station cash gets nothing.  So which is it... men have more options, or they're hindered by societal expectations that they must be successful?

Both... depending on the age and success of the female they are interested int.

If a man is young, and a girl is young, she tends to go for his looks, if she does not... she likes his money, or what he can give her.

If he is older, she wonders if he's successful and if he's "decent looking"...


However, an older woman, may just be worried about whether the guy is successful, or if she doesn't need HIS success to live life well, she just wants him to be caring and thoughtful about her.

Women are overly complex... a guy just wants a decent chick who gives it up... we don't have the rest of it as a steadfast need.
Title: Re: noone has ever given me any decent advice on this board, let alone even
Post by: drkaje on March 07, 2007, 05:45:21 PM
And yet, in another thread, the Squadfather complains that men are judged solely by how much money and prestige they project.  The poor pauper working the gas station cash gets nothing.  So which is it... men have more options, or they're hindered by societal expectations that they must be successful?

Money and prestige can change.  A guy can always work on the main things that 'get' women. A woman's main weapon diminishes on a daily basis. Let's not even start on the social differences when it comes to sexial behavior, kids, aggressiveness and so on.

I don't make the rules.
Title: Re: noone has ever given me any decent advice on this board, let alone even
Post by: trab on March 07, 2007, 05:49:05 PM
That whole Money power Trip is empty as hell.
The land of the WIERDEST is Old Wealth Neighborhoods. God, some of The mentally Screwed up Customers I've worked for. I get in a lot of peoples houses, Plenty of  very Nice ones to. I tend to take a week to 2months on a project hanging around these peoples lives.(Bldg Trades)  Ive seen a lot of relationship interaction in all sorts of social strata.

They Money/ Power mongers are the most empty animals on the Planet. 

All the Image of the American Dream couple isn't worth crap if they  communicate by E-Mail in their
prestigious home (dont Talk- cant stand each other). But hey, these 2 are still collecting material ornaments to show everyone (who doesn't know better) how they've "Made it". I'm so jealous.

Money and power gets a point like how much can you really eat?
Title: Re: noone has ever given me any decent advice on this board, let alone even
Post by: Deedee on March 07, 2007, 05:50:50 PM
Money and prestige can change.  A guy can always work on the main things that 'get' women. A woman's main weapon diminishes on a daily basis. Let's not even start on the social differences when it comes to sexial behavior, kids, aggressiveness and so on.

I don't make the rules.

Right... so maybe you should have a chat with Squadfather since you articulate this well. He doesn't seem to get this.
Title: Re: noone has ever given me any decent advice on this board, let alone even
Post by: Deedee on March 07, 2007, 05:53:23 PM
That whole Money power Trip is empty as hell.
The land of the WIERDEST is Old Wealth Neighborhoods. God, some of The mentally Screwed up Customers I've worked for. I get in a lot of peoples houses, Plenty of  very Nice ones to. I tend to take a week to 2months on a project hanging around these peoples lives.(Bldg Trades)  Ive seen a lot of relationship interaction in all sorts of social strata.

They Money/ Power mongers are the most empty animals on the Planet. 

All the Image of the American Dream couple isn't worth crap if they  communicate by E-Mail in their
prestigious home (dont Talk- cant stand each other). But hey, these 2 are still collecting material ornaments to show everyone (who doesn't know better) how they've "Made it". I'm so jealous.

Money and power gets a point like how much can you really eat?

I think there are people who are driven by material wants and needs... when they find each other, what you describe above is usually the end result.  But there are also people who might be described as idealistic, who believe in having loving relationships, perhaps romance too... and when they find each other, well...  :)
Title: Re: noone has ever given me any decent advice on this board, let alone even
Post by: ToxicAvenger on March 07, 2007, 05:57:29 PM
deedles .Dr cock is jaded..so damn jaded that it pisses me off sometimes..its like he insists on being the anti romantic..

but ya gotta remember..action..reacti on..someting really bad happened to him..someone hurt him really bad in the past..i'm willing to bet on that..
Title: Re: noone has ever given me any decent advice on this board, let alone even
Post by: drkaje on March 07, 2007, 06:17:06 PM
Right... so maybe you should have a chat with Squadfather since you articulate this well. He doesn't seem to get this.

I have a unique perspective on this matter. There's an old saying: Marry for money and you'll earn every penny. Leading up to the divorce I dated this rich doctor chick who was crazy as hell. Wanted to buy me crap (clothes, Rolex, blah blah blah). Told her I could buy my own crap, LOL! When being dumped... she upped the ante "stay with me and you'll never have to work again another day in your life". I, being honest, replied.. "I'd rather pick up cans for the deposit than be with you another minute". A day or two later some other chick called and asked me out. This psycho called me and hung arounf for years. Would be calling now if she had the number.

Thing is, she was offering stuff i didn't need. All I need is someone to hang out with that isn't too big a pain in the ass. On it's surface that seems like the simplest thing in the world but it's pretty hard to find.

Ultimately, the two sexes aren't 'judged' on an equal basis. It's a male dominated society. I'm not saying that a woman with her stuff together doesn't have a lot of options, just that a guy with his stuff together has way more options. I don't look at guys too often but you can find an above average girl damn near anywhere/anytime. The social 'need' to have someone doesn't really exist for men. No one will really ask a guy "what's wrong" if he doesn't have kids or is single too long. People just assume he hasn't found the 'right person'. With a woman, people assume the problem is you aren't the 'right person'.

As far as food service, cashiers, attendents and other pretty girls guys end up interacting with for a short time it's hard to say. I really don't assume someone's a dumbass for working a crappy job at a young age. A little older and they may be trying to get ahead. My guess is that seeing big game awakens the hunter's spirit. The need to take that one shot while the chance is there. I'd usually tell guys to go for it and just ask her out. For some reason, being pretty is my guess, attention really does go to their heads. I don't get that because there are so many pretty girls in the world that it's not too special. Besides, she's moving up dating a guy like Squadfather. If a woman picks up a broke attendant from some store he's gonna end up costing her money, LOL!

With waitresses/bartenders, I'm certain someone bringing a guy food/drink reminds him of mom. :)
Title: Re: noone has ever given me any decent advice on this board, let alone even
Post by: ToxicAvenger on March 07, 2007, 06:23:49 PM
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"I'd rather pick up cans for the deposit than be with you another minute".


there is a romantic in you yet..

.hmm

the pragmatic romantic....i've never seen one before..

and yo..would ya pm me and lemme know exactly where the heck u r..i wanna give ya a call..whether div makes it to ya or not..i wanna see if i can swing thru for 2 or 3 days come late july..i'm going to london..then paki..then onna swing thru have a beer with euro..and if i actually know where you r..i can swing thru your way also..   :)

build up your tolerance monami..you goan needs it! ;D

cause after aug..i'm growing up and getting a real job  :(
Title: Re: noone has ever given me any decent advice on this board, let alone even
Post by: drkaje on March 07, 2007, 06:29:36 PM


there is a romantic in you yet..

.hmm

the pragmatic romantic....i've never seen one before..

and yo..would ya pm me and lemme know exactly where the heck u r..i wanna give ya a call..whether div makes it to ya or not..i wanna see if i can swing thru for 2 or 3 days come late july..i'm going to london..then paki..then onna swing thru have a beer with euro..and if i actually know where you r..i can swing thru your way also..   :)

build up your tolerance monami..you goan needs it! ;D

cause after aug..i'm growing up and getting a real job  :(

Your new house gonna be finished by then?
Title: Re: noone has ever given me any decent advice on this board, let alone even
Post by: ToxicAvenger on March 07, 2007, 07:00:02 PM
i dont friggin know man.my parents r being all secretive ..but EVERY fucking time i bring up moving out i get the " you dont love us" speech..

i'm being nice right now  and not asking questions cause dads covering my whole trip..and i dont exactly plan on economizing..
Title: Re: noone has ever given me any decent advice on this board, let alone even
Post by: xxxLinda on March 10, 2007, 07:24:07 AM
i dont friggin know man.my parents r being all secretive ..but EVERY fucking time i bring up moving out i get the " you dont love us" speech..

i'm being nice right now  and not asking questions cause dads covering my whole trip..and i dont exactly plan on economizing..


Hi Toxi?


xL

Let us know when you'll be in London and I'll tell you where to go (and translate for you if needed?)...
Title: Re: noone has ever given me any decent advice on this board, let alone even
Post by: xxxLinda on March 10, 2007, 07:42:46 AM
Like James Brown said... "It's a man's world". If youre purely talking about a woman lowering her standards and giving it up to any guy that comes along... sure. If you're talking about better options and quality to choose from, men have it hands down. Men aren't judged on looks to a great extent. An average looking guy in decent shape with a decent job has way more options than a woman would in the same situation.

The one thing many women live and die by, looks, goes away a little each day. :'( Men aren't saddled with the same concerns.


I completely disagree.
The way I see it, women have far more power.  All we have to do is say yes or no.

And sorry darlin', but everyone is initially judged on the first impression - and that's the way you look, okay?  Your wealth, position in society and so on comes later.

That's unless you're dating a hooker or a gold digger, in which case she'll have her eyes closed all the way through sex and then fake an orgasm.


Back to my original query:  I'll contradict myself and admit that I have had a few meager morsels of advice from you lot, but most of it is tongue-in-cheek.  I'll make my own mind up.

So, I'm not going to seduce the 21-year old Italian, I've decided.  That would wreck our relationship.  I prefer having him all gooey-eyed at me and I love listening to his fantastic accent.  He's doing a music degree and writing silly songs about the full moon eclipse last weekend.  He makes me laugh, comes round every night to use my internet and share his food and cook for me and I'm happy.

If he decides to seduce me, I'll see how I feel.  But I'm old enough to be his mum.

The thing that I'm having trouble accepting is that my tastes do not change as I grow older. 
I've never really fancied a man over 30.  (Although I did make the one big mistake last year with the 35-year old hilariously funny hard man in the pub who went apeshit and I've learned that lesson, big time.

I was thinking that I'd be wise to lower my standards as I grow old disgracefully. 
Massive mistake, I now know I don't need to.


xxx
Title: Re: noone has ever given me any decent advice on this board, let alone even
Post by: drkaje on March 10, 2007, 08:53:54 AM

I completely disagree.
The way I see it, women have far more power.  All we have to do is say yes or no.

And sorry darlin', but everyone is initially judged on the first impression - and that's the way you look, okay?  Your wealth, position in society and so on comes later.

That's unless you're dating a hooker or a gold digger, in which case she'll have her eyes closed all the way through sex and then fake an orgasm.


Back to my original query:  I'll contradict myself and admit that I have had a few meager morsels of advice from you lot, but most of it is tongue-in-cheek.  I'll make my own mind up.

So, I'm not going to seduce the 21-year old Italian, I've decided.  That would wreck our relationship.  I prefer having him all gooey-eyed at me and I love listening to his fantastic accent.  He's doing a music degree and writing silly songs about the full moon eclipse last weekend.  He makes me laugh, comes round every night to use my internet and share his food and cook for me and I'm happy.

If he decides to seduce me, I'll see how I feel.  But I'm old enough to be his mum.

The thing that I'm having trouble accepting is that my tastes do not change as I grow older. 
I've never really fancied a man over 30.  (Although I did make the one big mistake last year with the 35-year old hilariously funny hard man in the pub who went apeshit and I've learned that lesson, big time.

I was thinking that I'd be wise to lower my standards as I grow old disgracefully. 
Massive mistake, I now know I don't need to.


xxx

You're full of crap. The only thing that would stop you from having some fun with him is.... your fantasy is probably more enjoyable than an actual relationship (trist) would be. If being desired is this addictive to you now, how the hell are you going to deal with the time when 21yrolds no longer notice you?
Title: Re: noone has ever given me any decent advice on this board, let alone even
Post by: xxxLinda on March 10, 2007, 09:53:30 AM
You're full of crap. The only thing that would stop you from having some fun with him is.... your fantasy is probably more enjoyable than an actual relationship (trist) would be. If being desired is this addictive to you now, how the hell are you going to deal with the time when 21yrolds no longer notice you?


You're right, of course.  I'm so full of shit my eyes are brown.

The main thing that is stopping me is precisely that:  My fanatasy is enormously enjoyable. 
Also I'm old enough be his mother and although I'm sure he wouldn't regret it and nor would I, I'm beginning to think I should grow up.

Not sure how I'll feel when I'm no longer desired by 21-year old 6'2" drop dead beautiful Italian music students.  Perhaps then I'll finally learn to get off on men my age.

thanks
with mad love
Linda
x

Title: Re: noone has ever given me any decent advice on this board, let alone even
Post by: xxxLinda on March 10, 2007, 10:03:51 AM

I completely disagree.
Women have far more power. 
All we have to do is say yes or no.



or more politely, yes please or no thankyou.

xxxLinda
Title: Re: noone has ever given me any decent advice on this board, let alone even
Post by: drkaje on March 10, 2007, 10:26:18 AM

or more politely, yes please or no thankyou.

xxxLinda

There are more important things in the world than the vagina.

If that's all you've got going on, you're in deep doo doo. :)
Title: Re: noone has ever given me any decent advice on this board, let alone even
Post by: xxxLinda on March 10, 2007, 11:43:42 AM

That's because they are sitting on a gold mine.If I were a good looking  woman I would walk around with a mattress tied to my back and a sign that said  " 50 bucks...no head " I would be rich in no time.


No, you wouldn't, unless you had a huge self-esteem problem.

If you were a good looking woman, you'd say no thankyou and smile nicely to most men.


Have a fun Saturday night
with mad love
xL

(Do I need to explain myself?
I would've made tons of dosh if I'd been able to close my eyes and my mind,  but I can't.
and most women are the same. 

You've a thwarted view of beautiful women.
Title: Re: noone has ever given me any decent advice on this board, let alone even
Post by: xxxLinda on March 10, 2007, 12:09:10 PM

wanna see if i can swing thru for 2 or 3 days come late july..i'm going to london..


Toxic, can I give you some decent advice?

Pleeeeease, don't think you can "swing through" London in 2-3 days.
Don't be daft.
If you're going to visit London, please don't dream it's on the way to Amsterdam or Pakistan.

VISIT LONDON PROPERLY, IT MIGHT NOT BE HERE NEXT TIME YOU SWING PAST.

It so bothers me when people think they can "do" England in 2 days.


Have fun whatever you do...
xLinda
Title: Re: noone has ever given me any decent advice on this board, let alone even
Post by: 24KT on March 10, 2007, 03:14:28 PM
There are more important things in the world than the vagina.

But judging from the way man behave, ...you'd never know it.  :P

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If that's all you've got going on, you're in deep doo doo. :)

Wouldn't that come from a different part of the anatomy? ???
Title: Re: noone has ever given me any decent advice on this board, let alone even
Post by: ~flower~ on March 10, 2007, 03:49:15 PM

Toxic, can I give you some decent advice?

Pleeeeease, don't think you can "swing through" London in 2-3 days.
Don't be daft.
If you're going to visit London, please don't dream it's on the way to Amsterdam or Pakistan.

VISIT LONDON PROPERLY, IT MIGHT NOT BE HERE NEXT TIME YOU SWING PAST.

It so bothers me when people think they can "do" England in 2 days.


Have fun whatever you do...
xLinda


Toxie has it all planned out and prioritized  ;)  
Title: Re: noone has ever given me any decent advice on this board, let alone even
Post by: drkaje on March 10, 2007, 04:50:05 PM
But judging from the way man behave, ...you'd never know it.  :P

Wouldn't that come from a different part of the anatomy? ???

Hater, LOL!

You just hate it when I'm right.

How many women do you know that would be totally lost (honestly, I wanted to write useless but knew deedles would carp) without a vagina?

Take as much time as you need to craft a clever response. :)
Title: Re: noone has ever given me any decent advice on this board, let alone even
Post by: ToxicAvenger on March 10, 2007, 04:55:50 PM



It so bothers me when people think they can "do" England in 2 days.




i dont intend to do england..i only intend to do london....and done it shall be.. :)
Title: Re: noone has ever given me any decent advice on this board, let alone even
Post by: ToxicAvenger on March 10, 2007, 04:56:39 PM

Toxie has it all planned out and prioritized  ;)  


and flowey wont cum with me  >:(
Title: Re: noone has ever given me any decent advice on this board, let alone even
Post by: 24KT on March 10, 2007, 08:41:24 PM
Hater, LOL!

You just hate it when I'm right.

I don't hate it when you're right. I hate it when you're cynical & jaded.
Makes me wonder what kind of trauma you must have experienced to be so callous.  :'(

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How many women do you know that would be totally lost (honestly, I wanted to write useless but knew deedles would carp) without a vagina?

Honestly... NONE!  But I do know many a man who would be completely lost AND useless without one.
Even if it exists only in their imagination, or with staples going across it's center.  ;)

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Take as much time as you need to craft a clever response. :)

There's no need to be clever when you have truth & honesty on your side.  :)
Title: Re: noone has ever given me any decent advice on this board, let alone even
Post by: Deedee on March 11, 2007, 02:43:40 PM
Hater, LOL!

You just hate it when I'm right.

How many women do you know that would be totally lost (honestly, I wanted to write useless but knew deedles would carp) without a vagina?

Take as much time as you need to craft a clever response. :)

But you got it in there anyway.  :)  And when did I become the village nag?  >:(

Personally, I think if suddenly all sexual organs magically disappeared somehow, women would do a lot better than men. Men are just hotwired to chase after sex all the time.  There would be a big hole to fill!!! (No pun intended)
Title: Re: noone has ever given me any decent advice on this board, let alone even
Post by: tu_holmes on March 11, 2007, 02:52:31 PM
But you got it in there anyway.  :)  And when did I become the village nag?  >:(

Personally, I think if suddenly all sexual organs magically disappeared somehow, women would do a lot better than men. Men are just hotwired to chase after sex all the time.  There would be a big hole to fill!!! (No pun intended)

I'm not saying women wouldn't or couldn't do "better", but don't you think we would just be on a level playing field then?

The reason why men are so into control is many faceted..

Women often LIKE a guy to be in charge... Many women like being submissive and it's in their nature for the most part. (No offense to any woman who disagrees, but I've tried too many times to get women to do certain things and they just don't feel comfortable in being dominant enough to get it done... simple things like being nasty when you have to)

During neolithic times, men had to be the hunter / gatherers... If someone wanted something for dinner, well, the guy had to get out there and kill it or find it, so the family could eat... if it wasn't killing something FOR dinner, he had to at least return with the nuts and berries, so he would have to fight his way through certain hazardous areas. This is directly related to his naturally occuring strength which is directly related to his higher levels of testosterone. (without it, would the human race have survived? I don't know, but we would most likely not be the dominent species, as other stronger species would have most likely taken over). Without the male organ, the production of test would not be very high and people would have starved and died.

Women have every bit the need of their organ as men do... Would we all be functional without it... sure... Men and women both... Castrated men do just fine, and so do women, but do you WANT to do without any sexual organ at all? That's just silly talk.



Title: Re: noone has ever given me any decent advice on this board, let alone even
Post by: Deedee on March 11, 2007, 02:59:37 PM
No of COURSE I wouldn't want to do without my sweet thing, I was just responding to Dr Jake, who said most women would be "lost" without it.  I was pointing out that many women have lots going for them, interests, friends, the ability to share things of an emotional nature, that lots of guys don't have, because so much of who they are is defined by the size of their penis, and how much they can get with it. Even amassing wealth is often related to that. I was striking a cord of balance in the convo.  ;)
Title: Re: noone has ever given me any decent advice on this board, let alone even
Post by: Al-Gebra on March 11, 2007, 08:17:18 PM

Linda dahling, do you have a birthday once every 4 years?

I'd say that every cell in your body has been replaced at least once since you started being 39. 

You know I love ya, hun. ;) :-*

On the more general subject of the thread: I love older women.  I don't think I could have a LTR w one though, as I recognize that I have a mother thing. 
Title: Re: noone has ever given me any decent advice on this board, let alone even
Post by: Bast000 on March 11, 2007, 09:42:32 PM
responded to any of my questions.  I'm sure I know why, but it doesn't bother me.  It's not my fault I make people jealous.

OK, so I just met the most gorgeous Italian boy 21.  I guess he's a man.  He has beauty spots all over his face.  I'm certain they get better lower down.  He's probably got a map on his chest and one on his beautiful one too.


I'm 39 and I guess I look like his mother, or something.  He wants me bad, should I ?

When do I call it a day and grow up and go for 40-50 year old grey or bald men? 
I cannot figure it out.  I'm not sure whether it's sad or what,
but as I get older, my tastes do not change. 



It's upsetting me.  I'm nearly old and I still only like extreme physical beauty.

hahahah you're so old.
Title: Re: noone has ever given me any decent advice on this board, let alone even
Post by: 24KT on March 11, 2007, 11:48:04 PM
I think someone is on the wrong board.  :-\
Title: Re: noone has ever given me any decent advice on this board, let alone even
Post by: drkaje on March 12, 2007, 04:26:19 PM
I don't hate it when you're right. I hate it when you're cynical & jaded.
Makes me wonder what kind of trauma you must have experienced to be so callous.  :'(

Honestly... NONE!  But I do know many a man who would be completely lost AND useless without one.
Even if it exists only in their imagination, or with staples going across it's center.  ;)

There's no need to be clever when you have truth & honesty on your side.  :)

I just didn't want DeeDee to feel left out, LOL!

Alas, I must disagree with you Judi. Having met many a nitwit has jaded me a bit on this matter. Too many women I meet don't have a lot going on aside from being pretty, which isn't at all special. 
Title: Re: noone has ever given me any decent advice on this board, let alone even
Post by: 24KT on March 12, 2007, 05:11:19 PM
I just didn't want DeeDee to feel left out, LOL!

Alas, I must disagree with you Judi. Having met many a nitwit has jaded me a bit on this matter. Too many women I meet don't have a lot going on aside from being pretty, which isn't at all special. 

 :'(

You should get out more then. Perhaps change your social milieu. There are plenty of gorgeous happening women, you just have to find them, ...or at least  find one willing to put up with your BS.

...on second thought, that might be a rather daunting task. If she's really happening, she won't put up with it.

...back to the drawing board of empty ditz's with nothing going on but their looks.

what a vicious cycle you are in!  :'(
Title: Re: noone has ever given me any decent advice on this board, let alone even
Post by: drkaje on March 12, 2007, 05:42:40 PM
:'(

You should get out more then. Perhaps change your social milieu. There are plenty of gorgeous happening women, you just have to find them, ...or at least  find one willing to put up with your BS.

...on second thought, that might be a rather daunting task. If she's really happening, she won't put up with it.

...back to the drawing board of empty ditz's with nothing going on but their looks.

what a vicious cycle you are in!  :'(

My girl is great, LOL! There are just a lot of people who don't have much going on beyond the superficial. I haven't seen too much variance based upon social status, beyond what toys people can buy with more money. Conversations I have with millionaires are pretty similar to those with poor people. Only differance is the dissappointment rich guys have when they find out more money doesn't gurantee a better relationship.
Title: Re: noone has ever given me any decent advice on this board, let alone even
Post by: 24KT on March 12, 2007, 08:33:32 PM
My girl is great, LOL! There are just a lot of people who don't have much going on beyond the superficial. I haven't seen too much variance based upon social status, beyond what toys people can buy with more money. Conversations I have with millionaires are pretty similar to those with poor people. Only differance is the dissappointment rich guys have when they find out more money doesn't gurantee a better relationship.

I wasn't referring to money or social "status", ...I was referring to the "quality" of people you attract.  :-X
Title: Re: noone has ever given me any decent advice on this board, let alone even
Post by: drkaje on March 12, 2007, 10:02:29 PM
I wasn't referring to money or social "status", ...I was referring to the "quality" of people you attract.  :-X

People are people, to me.
Title: Re: noone has ever given me any decent advice on this board, let alone even
Post by: 24KT on March 12, 2007, 11:16:08 PM
People are people, to me.

Maybe that's the problem. Maybe you should be a bit more selective?  ;)
Title: Re: noone has ever given me any decent advice on this board, let alone even
Post by: Playboy on March 13, 2007, 12:55:42 PM
Maybe that's the problem. Maybe you should be a bit more selective?  ;)
Exactly. Don't just settle for anything you'll meet Mr. Right one day and he'll appreciate you for who you are. Don't waste your time on bums that will end up hurting you.

PB 
Title: Re: noone has ever given me any decent advice on this board, let alone even
Post by: xxxLinda on March 13, 2007, 02:53:11 PM
I think someone is on the wrong board.  :-\


me?




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(but I can't be keeping up with the other boards...
Title: Re: noone has ever given me any decent advice on this board, let alone even
Post by: xxxLinda on March 13, 2007, 02:54:52 PM
Exactly. Don't just settle for anything you'll meet Mr. Right one day and he'll appreciate you for who you are. Don't waste your time on bums that will end up hurting you.

PB 


everyone hurts me.  i hurt me more.
there is no Mr Right.
x
Title: Re: noone has ever given me any decent advice on this board, let alone even
Post by: xxxLinda on March 13, 2007, 02:56:24 PM
Maybe that's the problem. Maybe you should be a bit more selective?  ;)


That's always been the problem, I've been far too picky.

xL
Title: Re: noone has ever given me any decent advice on this board, let alone even
Post by: tu_holmes on March 13, 2007, 03:36:10 PM

everyone hurts me.  i hurt me more.
there is no Mr Right.
x

Sure there is... No one is perfect, but there's someone for everyone... It's just that they are not always easy to find.