Something wrong with a 45 year old man, with no wife or children:
(1) Having other men travel 2,500 miles to spend their vacation with him.
(2) Having a gay posse roam the internet fawning over him.
(3) Purposely distort contest placings from 15 years ago.
(4) Display a level of bitterness and delusion in public that is borderline psychopathic.
(5) Selling his soiled underwear online to make ends meet.
(6) Sending secret private messages so he can try to "win" an argument on the internet.
I could go on, but in the end, Nasshole and his "team" of queer followers are his own worst enemy.
Only the jealous post everything in the most negative light possible. Fact is you don’t know him and are making assumptions. Honest version of your 6 bullets are as follows:
Yes he is 44, no wife or children as that is not a priority for him (since when has having a wife and child in itself been an accomplishment?) At the same time he meets attractive women often who are interested in him, but he is not interesting in re-marrying at this point.
(1) Friendly and hospitable enough to allow friends and their wives to stay at his place while he spends much time and effort making their stay enjoyable
(2) Has tons of fans around the world, a few who post online, most who do not
(3) Top tier contest history for 6 years, including top 3 at 29 of 31 consecutive shows
(4) Is very friendly and well spoken to people in public, including fans, servers, neighbours, passerbys, etc.
(5) Financially independent via investment returns on money he saved during his pro career and a few wise lucrative real estate transactions
(6) Occasionally corresponds with getbiggers online for fun.