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My friends think I'm a pansy, but this year will mark my 10 year annivesary. Yeah I was stubborn early on in our marriage, but I learned. Funny thing is the same dbags that criticize my stance later ask me for relationship advice. Now, I'm only good at my relationship with my wife, but I think in general "happy wife, happy life" is a no-brainer. Yeah, it sounds gay, but the more I give (in) the more I get back in return....good return on my investment. So I take the extra couple minutes and hang up the bathroom towels, change out the tp roll, refill the antibacterial containers, load (AND unload) the dishwasher, take my big ass shoes off in the entry way before gettin on the carpet, sack up the trash and take it out outside, wash/dry/fold/hang some clothes up,.....it's the little things that make the difference. I'll make the coffee on the weekends and bring her a cup (sometimes), I watch Housewives of Orange County and the The Hills with her and I don't insist on holdin the remote 24/7. I'll take her shopping to a buncha retarded stores I don't give a shit about and hold a pile of clothes outside the dressing room while she checks her ass in the mirror for 45 minutes. I let her punch the crap outta my arm when I make fun of her family (they really are a collection of dumbasses LOL!!!).
That's it....happy wife, happy life........until I find a younger, bustier replacement with an insatiable apetite for fellatio.
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official notice to revoke mancard is in the mail.
although the last statement gets you close tojunior man status again
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My friends think I'm a pansy, but this year will mark my 10 year annivesary. Yeah I was stubborn early on in our marriage, but I learned. Funny thing is the same dbags that criticize my stance later ask me for relationship advice. Now, I'm only good at my relationship with my wife, but I think in general "happy wife, happy life" is a no-brainer. Yeah, it sounds gay, but the more I give (in) the more I get back in return....good return on my investment. So I take the extra couple minutes and hang up the bathroom towels, change out the tp roll, refill the antibacterial containers, load (AND unload) the dishwasher, take my big ass shoes off in the entry way before gettin on the carpet, sack up the trash and take it out outside, wash/dry/fold/hang some clothes up,.....it's the little things that make the difference. I'll make the coffee on the weekends and bring her a cup (sometimes), I watch Housewives of Orange County and the The Hills with her and I don't insist on holdin the remote 24/7. I'll take her shopping to a buncha retarded stores I don't give a shit about and hold a pile of clothes outside the dressing room while she checks her ass in the mirror for 45 minutes. I let her punch the crap outta my arm when I make fun of her family (they really are a collection of dumbasses LOL!!!).
That's it....happy wife, happy life........until I find a younger, bustier replacement with an insatiable apetite for fellatio.
Great post until the last sentence lol
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Great post until the last sentence lol
you are such a chick, sheesh
:-*
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you are not a pansy.... if you love your wife and like to spend time with her ...there is not a thing wrong with what you do.... I do basically the same thing and you are correct a happy wife, a happy life and a better sex life too... y wife is also my best friend so I think that makes a big difference and she also does her share of nice things too its give and take ... I also still open doors hold her hand etc its just being a gentlemen and showing you appreciate and respect her... and if you treat her right she will treat u right... hell women are some things special and should be treated as such.... and they smell betterthan men too.....
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My friends think I'm a pansy, but this year will mark my 10 year annivesary. Yeah I was stubborn early on in our marriage, but I learned. Funny thing is the same dbags that criticize my stance later ask me for relationship advice. Now, I'm only good at my relationship with my wife, but I think in general "happy wife, happy life" is a no-brainer. Yeah, it sounds gay, but the more I give (in) the more I get back in return....good return on my investment. So I take the extra couple minutes and hang up the bathroom towels, change out the tp roll, refill the antibacterial containers, load (AND unload) the dishwasher, take my big ass shoes off in the entry way before gettin on the carpet, sack up the trash and take it out outside, wash/dry/fold/hang some clothes up,.....it's the little things that make the difference. I'll make the coffee on the weekends and bring her a cup (sometimes), I watch Housewives of Orange County and the The Hills with her and I don't insist on holdin the remote 24/7. I'll take her shopping to a buncha retarded stores I don't give a shit about and hold a pile of clothes outside the dressing room while she checks her ass in the mirror for 45 minutes. I let her punch the crap outta my arm when I make fun of her family (they really are a collection of dumbasses LOL!!!).
That's it....happy wife, happy life........until I find a younger, bustier replacement with an insatiable apetite for fellatio.
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You had me until that last sentence
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Nice post. What I would give to find a woman without any issues, and actually like her too.
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To be doing all that stuff and still wanting for fellatio is silly. :)
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Nice post. What I would give to find a woman without any issues, and actually like her too.
There are no women without any issues to be found.
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I take my last reply back MOS. Do what you have to do to keep her happy. It's about give and take and often times we take so much more than we give back.
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You sound like a good catch :-*
I'm happy for her.
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My friends think I'm a pansy, but this year will mark my 10 year annivesary. Yeah I was stubborn early on in our marriage, but I learned. Funny thing is the same dbags that criticize my stance later ask me for relationship advice. Now, I'm only good at my relationship with my wife, but I think in general "happy wife, happy life" is a no-brainer. Yeah, it sounds gay, but the more I give (in) the more I get back in return....good return on my investment. So I take the extra couple minutes and hang up the bathroom towels, change out the tp roll, refill the antibacterial containers, load (AND unload) the dishwasher, take my big ass shoes off in the entry way before gettin on the carpet, sack up the trash and take it out outside, wash/dry/fold/hang some clothes up,.....it's the little things that make the difference. I'll make the coffee on the weekends and bring her a cup (sometimes), I watch Housewives of Orange County and the The Hills with her and I don't insist on holdin the remote 24/7. I'll take her shopping to a buncha retarded stores I don't give a shit about and hold a pile of clothes outside the dressing room while she checks her ass in the mirror for 45 minutes. I let her punch the crap outta my arm when I make fun of her family (they really are a collection of dumbasses LOL!!!).
That's it....happy wife, happy life........until I find a younger, bustier replacement with an insatiable apetite for fellatio.
I couldn't agree more. We haven't been married quite as long as you, but my experience is exactly the same. Though I gotta keep my distance on that "Orange County Housewives" thing... ;D ;D
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People are responsible for their own happiness.
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A Guy friend of mines motto about marriage is...
"I can be right or I can be happy"
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A Guy friend of mines motto about marriage is...
"I can be right or I can be happy"
Isn't that wimpy?
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Isn't that wimpy?
I think so or it could be smart.
Depending on what side of the nag your on.
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I think so or it could be smart.
Depending on what side of the nag your on.
Nags get have no side.
I've been around a while and have never met someone special enough to justify dealing with their being a pain in the butt.
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I beleive that you need to do what is best in the relationship. If putting down the seat makes her happy do it. if she wnats you to call her more, do it. It's not worth dealing with the repercussions(sp) because some basic manners and listening to her needs wasn't done
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I beleive that you need to do what is best in the relationship. If putting down the seat makes her happy do it. if she wnats you to call her more, do it. It's not worth dealing with the repercussions(sp) because some basic manners and listening to her needs wasn't done
Stella can edit this if she likes but I'm too afraid of stupid children to be with someone that isn't smart enough to work a toilet seat.
Doing little things makes sense but it depends on what the pattern is. I'd rather be alone than listen to anyone nag about trivial stuff.
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Stella can edit this if she likes but I'm too afraid of stupid children to be with someone that isn't smart enough to work a toilet seat.
Doing little things makes sense but it depends on what the pattern is. I'd rather be alone than listen to anyone nag about trivial stuff.
Looking back at MOS' post to me those are little things, and if it were to make my wife happy then I would do it.
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Migsy,
It doesn't seem we're comparing apples with apples.
Helping around the house is natural different than saying "you can either be right or happy". The right/happy people are doormats.
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I'm always wrong about stuff, so i concede. you are right, we are on different pages.
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I'm always wrong about stuff, so i concede. you are right, we are on different pages.
I'm all about doing one's fair share in a relationship.
My wimp comments were regarding OS's friend's way of keeping the wife happy.
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I beleive that you need to do what is best in the relationship. If putting down the seat makes her happy do it. if she wnats you to call her more, do it. It's not worth dealing with the repercussions(sp) because some basic manners and listening to her needs wasn't done
i agree with this, it's not about "being a REAL man" and all that bullshit, it's about the basic rule of treating people the way you want to be treated, male or female.
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btw Gentlemen - there are no such things as "little things".
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btw Gentlemen - there are no such things as "little things".
I sort of agree.
Someone complaining about the toilet seat is usually upset, mad or depressed about something else.
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btw Gentlemen - there are no such things as "little things".
not to women there aren't.
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Now Stella, Laura and Jag are going to beat me up at the bike racks after school since I spilled the beans on one of the rules of being a woman.
I hope you guys appreciate it. :o
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Now Stella, Laura and Jag are going to beat me up at the bike racks after school since I spilled the beans on one of the rules of being a woman.
I hope you guys appreciate it. :o
It's not your fault some people take themselves too seriously.
Are there any guy secrets you're curious about? Maybe one of us will divulge.
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It's not your fault some people take themselves too seriously.
Are there any guy secrets you're curious about? Maybe one of us will divulge.
guys have no secrets....
Beer, Breasts, Shiny Objects and things with plugs.
That is about it. ;D ;D
you know in grade school when all the girls go in for those meetings and all you guys are in the playground wondering where the girls are cause you want to push your favorite to the ground. We are discussing the "Rules" 8)
I have thought about it and being beaten up by Stella, Laura or Jag isn't such a bad thing
Do you disagree or fantasize with me :P
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guys have no secrets....
Beer, Breasts, Shiny Objects and things with plugs.
That is about it. ;D ;D
you know in grade school when all the girls go in for those meetings and all you guys are in the playground wondering where the girls are cause you want to push your favorite to the ground. We are discussing the "Rules" 8)
I have thought about it and being beaten up by Stella, Laura or Jag isn't such a bad thing
Do you disagree or fantasize with me :P
You forgot the booty!!
We love that booty!
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I'm all about doing one's fair share in a relationship.
I failed to do something that was considered little by many but to her it was major. I'm paying the price for my mistake now.
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I failed to do something that was considered little by many but to her it was major. I'm paying the price for my mistake now.
What was the 'major' thing?
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I can see this being true to a point. Believe it or not ;D, I've tried this approach and it can work but it only worked for me in the short term. Eventually I think that if you spend your time making the other person happy you eventually become resentful (man or woman). It must depend on the individual.
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What was the 'major' thing?
to make a long story short and becuase I really can't emotionally go through sasying the it tonight, it boils down to communication. Better said my lack there off. She needed me to do that for her and I for whatever reason, didn't get it. It's alittle thing she asked for (to me) but something that meant so very much to her.
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to make a long story short and becuase I really can't emotionally go through sasying the it tonight, it boils down to communication. Better said my lack there off. She needed me to do that for her and I for whatever reason, didn't get it. It's alittle thing she asked for (to me) but something that meant so very much to her.
If 'communication' = learning how to pretend the trivial is important..... what's the point? :)
Not saying people's feelings are real, just that any validity begins and ends with them. Was just joking about someone I dated years ago, LOL! She needed more attention than all three of my kids and probably still thinks I'm an ass for finally running out of patience with her.
Problem is, OS is half right. Women tend to confuse feelings with facts so there really is no such animal as a "little thing" in their minds.
She's only half right for neglecting to add that it's never, ever... ever ever ever "one thing". ): Someone's either happy or not. If you think doing that 'one thing' would have made everything right there's an adjustable rate mortgage I'd love to sell ya.