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Getbig Bodybuilding Boards => Positive Bodybuilding Discussion & Talk => Topic started by: cshray on January 09, 2006, 12:29:33 AM
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Hi
Does anyone have an idea.What turns on opposite sex
1.Abs.
2.Biceps or
3.Chest (pect)
4.Others ( If so pls specify).
Females dont look at you the way the Mr.Olympia contest judges look at you.
They have some definite n particulate body parts (not organs as of now ;D ;D ;D ;) ;)) in males which is kind of a big TURN-ON for them.
Guys do share u r knowledge on this................... 8) 8) 8) 8) 8) 8)
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$'s
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Well different women have different tastes, but if I would have to pick one thing that "chicks dig" it would be the ass. Funny how that's probably the muscle group people work the least...
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i've had some say forearms when im shifting gears in my truck and some at clubs say these thingys (pointing to my traps) but the dollar sign was a good one! haha
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Shoulders/delts definitely ;)
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$$$$$
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Shaven testicles ;D
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$, good looks, and a bulge
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If you're clothed then the most noticable and often commented on is your arm size and definition. Shapewise I would bring up the delts and chest big time. And no woman can resist touching rock hard defined abs. If you're wearing a lot of clothes then size is often most appealing so that is reason enough to develop a large back and chest.
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Who cares, train for yourself, not for women or anyone else. If your doing it to get women, then your training for the wrong reason.
There are all types of women and some are attracted to muscular guys, and some aren't. Doesn't matter though, there are plenty to go around for both types. But even so, like "ONLYME" pointed out, $$$ doesn't hurt, if you got enough of it you can get what ever you want.
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$, good looks, and a bulge
I actually have all three of these things. Does it matter that my bulge is above the beltline
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I actually have all three of these things. Does it matter that my bulge is above the beltline
If it extends all the way up to above your beltline I don't think you have anything to worry about ;)
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charm..
http://www.getbig.com/boards/index.php?action=post;topic=51254.0;num_replies=11
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Personally I love the tie in of the pectoralis major into the deltoids.....this only works if the guy is freaking thick, though. Jay Cutler's is beautiful.
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charm..
Ding, ding ding! We have a winner! :D
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yes, please.... I don't need to floss my teeth. ;D
duelly noted
;D
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4 days.
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Personally I love the tie in of the pectoralis major into the deltoids.....this only works if the guy is freaking thick, though. Jay Cutler's is beautiful.
i really wanna follow ya around to see how you'd approach a dude...
"excuse me..but i think your pec delt tie ns are hot" lol
only in bodybuilding :)
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Who cares, train for yourself, not for women or anyone else. If your doing it to get women, then your training for the wrong reason.
There are all types of women and some are attracted to muscular guys, and some aren't. Doesn't matter though, there are plenty to go around for both types. But even so, like "ONLYME" pointed out, $$$ doesn't hurt, if you got enough of it you can get what ever you want.
Couldnt agree more!!!! I learned a long time ago its downright impossible to perfectly please a woman so i'll be damned if thats the reason i train.....WOMEN ONLY SEE IN ONE COLOR = GREEN.......u could be 110lbs but if youve got the cash thats all u need!! sad but true!!!
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$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$ and lots of it! chicks don't dig our muscles anymore! we are nothing but useless lumps of beef to them. they want our $! THIS IS A NO BRAINER PEOPLE! LIKE, DUH! ::)
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I read in a study once that physically women, (whether they know it or not) were more attracted to men with wide shoulders and a round muscular butt.
This was thought to be Darwinian, meaning that in reality they are attracted to a strong protector, with superior thrusting ability to get the sperm in further.
No Joke,,, fortunately I have both... ;)
umm except I probably don't actually produce any sperm at the moment. ;D
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i really wanna follow ya around to see how you'd approach a dude...
"excuse me..but i think your pec delt tie ns are hot" lol
only in bodybuilding :)
I just stare at Jay Cutler and think, "dang, his wife is one lucky woman." My honey is starting to thicken up as well.....I'm working on that one;)
For me, if it's based on first appearance though, I can usually see through the shirt how thick a guy is and that is such an attraction. Guys like Jay and Gustavo are absolutely beautiful to look at.
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lol so weighing 160 soaking wet i would have a shot in hell with ya eh.... :D
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yes, please.... I don't need to floss my teeth. ;D
;)
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Who cares, train for yourself, not for women or anyone else. If your doing it to get women, then your training for the wrong reason.
There are all types of women and some are attracted to muscular guys, and some aren't. Doesn't matter though, there are plenty to go around for both types. But even so, like "ONLYME" pointed out, $$$ doesn't hurt, if you got enough of it you can get what ever you want.
what difference does it make--? motivation is motivation...
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depends on the girl fo sho.. but chest, guns (curls for the girls :-\ ) and abs ..
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however, i did wear a nice t-shirt once that was real tight on me and made my biceps and other muscles stick out. some chick said to me once, "hey, nice t-shirt!" it's strange, but guys sem to notice more if we've been lifting alot then women do. i grt more compliments from guys about my size than i do from women. not to be gay or anything, but alot of my buddies who i don't see that often will say to me , hey, you've been lifting alot, huh?! you got huge bro!"
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my leggs! when i wear my daisy dukes chicks are going crazy!!
maybe a dutch thing?
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abs, shoulders, forearms, calves.
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All you People out there shud thank me coz I was the guy to started this hot discussion.Manier people got to know the truth. For some it was a sweet news for some it was bitter..
Thanx 4 the females .Who equlally put in their Views on the topic..
Something to add here I also posted the same thread in many other BB forums....And the responces were equally good.
I will tell you What were the key factors...I got to learn ASAP....
Keep replying and also add some reps to me......(TOOO MEAN HA HA 8) 8) 8))
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They want a nice fat, pimply, ass stenched be-hind that will make a walrus jealous.
and your credit cards
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we forgot about hair. hair's better than biceps.
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As I know a good tan is not a disadvantage.
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I think that most "normal" girls are attracted to fitness model type of guys i.e Mike O'Hearn. But there are a select group that like the freaky big guys.
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I think that most "normal" girls are attracted to fitness model type of guys i.e Mike O'Hearn. But there are a select group that like the freaky big guys.
Bears grls like bigmike.
: )
Just playing
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I think that most "normal" girls are attracted to fitness model type of guys i.e Mike O'Hearn. But there are a select group that like the freaky big guys.
yeah and some of the ones who like the freaky big guys are freaky big themselves.
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I gotta be honest with you guys. You just don't get it!
If you are looking for a long term relationship money helps, but the guy has got to be nice looking and he has to have the total package! I don't care how much money he has; if he is ugly, out of shape and acts like a jerk, he won't hold my interest for a second.
Women are looking for a guy with a fit body. He does not have to be a body builder, but it would be best to share my interest in fitness and working out. Some muscle is better than no muscle. And lean is better than fat. If I met a man whose only weakness was that he was 20 lbs. heavy, that would not stop me from having a relationship with him. My personal favorite body part is the butt. And I also enjoy a muscular chest and nice arms. A guy can be too big also. If I can't reach my man's butt while we are making love, I'm missing out. A nice looking face is important.
It is also important for my man to have a heart and to be warm and kind. I need a man who accepts me and respects me for who I am and does not try to change me or my opinions. It is ok to have a difference of opinion. I don't expect my man to think EXACTLY like me. I like being treated like a lady. Men who are selfish, self centered, complain, and unhappy are not cool to be around. The last part of the equation requires that my man have some skills in bed. No woman enjoys being with a selfish lover.
The most important part truly is the personality. A couple has to "click" in likes, dislikes, spirituality, raising kids, etc.
Women don't just look only at the physical aspects when they want to be with a man. This may be the initial attraction, but the mental/personality attraction is much more important to maintain a long term relationship.
Now if you are talking short term realtionship (one night or less), then generally the physical takes priority over the mental/personality. And cash, sure that helps.... But is not NUMBER ONE! :D
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I gotta be honest with you guys. You just don't get it!
If you are looking for a long term relationship money helps, but the guy has got to be nice looking and he has to have the total package! I don't care how much money he has; if he is ugly, out of shape and acts like a jerk, he won't hold my interest for a second.
Women are looking for a guy with a fit body. He does not have to be a body builder, but it would be best to share my interest in fitness and working out. Some muscle is better than no muscle. And lean is better than fat. If I met a man whose only weakness was that he was 20 lbs. heavy, that would not stop me from having a relationship with him. My personal favorite body part is the butt. And I also enjoy a muscular chest and nice arms. A guy can be too big also. If I can't reach my man's butt while we are making love, I'm missing out. A nice looking face is important.
It is also important for my man to have a heart and to be warm and kind. I need a man who accepts me and respects me for who I am and does not try to change me or my opinions. It is ok to have a difference of opinion. I don't expect my man to think EXACTLY like me. I like being treated like a lady. Men who are selfish, self centered, complain, and unhappy are not cool to be around. The last part of the equation requires that my man have some skills in bed. No woman enjoys being with a selfish lover.
The most important part truly is the personality. A couple has to "click" in likes, dislikes, spirituality, raising kids, etc.
Women don't just look only at the physical aspects when they want to be with a man. This may be the initial attraction, but the mental/personality attraction is much more important to maintain a long term relationship.
Now if you are talking short term realtionship (one night or less), then generally the physical takes priority over the mental/personality. And cash, sure that helps.... But is not NUMBER ONE! :D
what about a dick that hits your lungs in the missionary position?
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hahahaha :) :o
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my man wa wa wa wa wa waaaaa.....
You broads are a dime a dozen
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To FREAKgeek, Jr. Yates, and Sarcasm:
You guys are all alike! D*CKS AND A**HOLES! You probably like d*cks in YOUR a**holes! Why did I bother and waste my time responding to this thread? Obviously, you just like seeing your own words in print and just want to entertain yourselves. I suggest you continue entertaining yourselves; give that right hand a good work out and then the left so it doesn't get jealous. Then you can please both of your BITCHES! Helpful tip! Try painting lipstick on them, it will add to the effect!
I feel sorry for all of you shallow mama's boys. Obviously "real" men don't even respond to this crap!
These forums are a WASTE of time. Thank God I have a man who is real and knows how to make me happy. Cause you guys sure don't know SH$T about women. I bet you are all BIG FAT UGLY Bodybuilders with LITTLE D*CKS and GYNO TITS!! :-X
My husband has something to add: What about a big dick that hits your lungs? You seem curious. You phrase this in a question. Now I have one. You want a big dick to hit your lungs? In the doggy style position or missionary if you like? Got some buddies in prison who would love to meet you. ;D :'(
Also to FREAKgeek: Wa wa wa, didn't your MAMA teach you how to speak? And yeah, oh what a man he is!
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I feel sorry for all of you shallow mama's boys. Obviously "real" men don't even respond to this crap!
Don't be so hard on yourself :)
My fitness queen,
If you haven't figured it out be now, most of these threads are out of 100% humor. Try not to take it so hard. You can only talk so much about diet, training, and...attracting the opposite sex.
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I think that most "normal" girls are attracted to fitness model type of guys i.e Mike O'Hearn. But there are a select group that like the freaky big guys.
Big and freaky is cool. Chicks that say they don't like big guys just say that cos they couldn't get one if they tried (or they couldn't be bothered cooking chickens all the time or training their fat butts in the gym themselves). A big guy can always look after you (handy for opening jars too). Plus nothing is nicer than curling up to hard muscles at night time. I cannot imagine being with a man who's back just goes straight up and down like an ironing board... :P
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To FREAKgeek, Jr. Yates, and Sarcasm:
You guys are all alike! D*CKS AND A**HOLES! You probably like d*cks in YOUR a**holes! Why did I bother and waste my time responding to this thread? Obviously, you just like seeing your own words in print and just want to entertain yourselves. I suggest you continue entertaining yourselves; give that right hand a good work out and then the left so it doesn't get jealous. Then you can please both of your BITCHES! Helpful tip! Try painting lipstick on them, it will add to the effect!
I feel sorry for all of you shallow mama's boys. Obviously "real" men don't even respond to this crap!
These forums are a WASTE of time. Thank God I have a man who is real and knows how to make me happy. Cause you guys sure don't know SH$T about women. I bet you are all BIG FAT UGLY Bodybuilders with LITTLE D*CKS and GYNO TITS!! :-X
My husband has something to add: What about a big dick that hits your lungs? You seem curious. You phrase this in a question. Now I have one. You want a big dick to hit your lungs? In the doggy style position or missionary if you like? Got some buddies in prison who would love to meet you. ;D :'(
Also to FREAKgeek: Wa wa wa, didn't your MAMA teach you how to speak? And yeah, oh what a man he is!
When you're angry you're at you're weakest... (think about it)
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When you're angry you're at you're weakest... (think about it)
he's right. why DID you get involved in this. it seems as many people have a very negative viewpoint of women. still, no one would buy the "nice guy" argument. it's happened too many times throughout history that the nice guy has finished last, relationshipally, that is. Yes, i made up that word.
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To FREAKgeek, Jr. Yates, and Sarcasm:
You guys are all alike! D*CKS AND A**HOLES! You probably like d*cks in YOUR a**holes! Why did I bother and waste my time responding to this thread? Obviously, you just like seeing your own words in print and just want to entertain yourselves. I suggest you continue entertaining yourselves; give that right hand a good work out and then the left so it doesn't get jealous. Then you can please both of your BITCHES! Helpful tip! Try painting lipstick on them, it will add to the effect!
I feel sorry for all of you shallow mama's boys. Obviously "real" men don't even respond to this crap!
These forums are a WASTE of time. Thank God I have a man who is real and knows how to make me happy. Cause you guys sure don't know SH$T about women. I bet you are all BIG FAT UGLY Bodybuilders with LITTLE D*CKS and GYNO TITS!! :-X
My husband has something to add: What about a big dick that hits your lungs? You seem curious. You phrase this in a question. Now I have one. You want a big dick to hit your lungs? In the doggy style position or missionary if you like? Got some buddies in prison who would love to meet you. ;D :'(
Also to FREAKgeek: Wa wa wa, didn't your MAMA teach you how to speak? And yeah, oh what a man he is!
i feel sorry for your hubby.... :'(
you are a cranky and uptight chick.... :-\
ease up and give him and us a break..... ;)
you are like a lot of misguided women looking for and or thinks she deserves a perfect guy... I call it the "Princess complex' : they are these bitchy, spoiled girls who think they are entitled to "everything" in life.... please ::)
there is no such thing as a perfect guy or in your own words... a "total package" >:(
:-\
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You guys are all alike! D*CKS AND A**HOLES!
Fit, you aren't one of these people that have both are you
My husband has something to add: What about a big dick that hits your lungs? You seem curious. You phrase this in a question. Now I have one. You want a big dick to hit your lungs? In the doggy style position or missionary if you like? Got some buddies in prison who would love to meet you
Sounds like your husband is talking from experience. Did you meet him while in prison or before. Please elaborate for us. You two sound like a perfect couple. A couple of what is the question. Just from reading your posts you obviously wear the pants in your relationship. You sound controlling and very much a bitch, This makes him very weak and submissive and probably is at your becken call 24/7. Sounds like something I would want to stay as far away from as possible. Good luck to you both, you deserve each other.
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Remember that all women are different, what is appealing to one may not be the case for another. And never take advice of what women want from a woman cause they themselves don't know what it is.
In general if you wanna generate attraction from women it doesn't hurt to be attractive, confident, funny, outgoing, and unpredictable. If your goal is to keep these women don't be needy and be good in bed.
But like I mentioned, all women are different and some will like you for your money, abs, dick, build, race, etc.
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yeah and to get them all you have to do is be a bit of a prick.
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(http://www.principlesofwar.com/visa.jpg)
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hahahaha
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a pretty face and confidence and your in with a grin
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money bitch ! how many times do you see an ugly little jew
movie producer with a fucking beautiful corn fed ho !
you think she is looking at his biceps ? 8)
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yes, please.... I don't need to floss my teeth. ;D
your font gets me all hard :-*
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I knew a girl that loved guys that were in good shape. She would look at the calves and if these were in good shape she knew the rest of tha package must be awesome. Lets face it soo many people train upper body with very little lower....
Sounds corny but good philosophy..
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also wrong. a lot of fat guys have good calves. i for one have 15.5 inch arms but 17.75 inch calves. why? that's how i was made, i dont even work them.
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Thanks gibber for taking up for me
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what did i say?
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I knew a girl that loved guys that were in good shape. She would look at the calves and if these were in good shape she knew the rest of tha package must be awesome. Lets face it soo many people train upper body with very little lower....
Sounds corny but good philosophy..
Actually it seems like ususally the people with the best calves have sucky upper bodies.
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Well, "Mi-Espousa" said that my chest caught her eye 8) 8)
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chest eh?
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money bitch ! how many times do you see an ugly little jew
movie producer with a fucking beautiful corn fed ho !
you think she is looking at his biceps ? 8)
I get called out on being racist b/c of my avatar, but nobody seems to mind anti-semetic remarks? Just curious.
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Actually, I mind the anti-semetic remarks... lama-pai whatever the fuck your dumbass name is.
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You getbiggers are toooo much! The trouble is when I visit GetBig
I end up laughing so damn hard I can't get my head together enough
to submit a post. Also, so many of you seem to be creative genuises
with the computer keyboard.
But the laughs are great for the abs, sort of like early morning pooh-poohs.
Anyway, can I be serious. I'd say, in order of preference: 1.) Glutes;
2.) Shoulders/delts/v-shape; 3.) Overall physique and stature (not extreme!).
Probably moot points anyway as $$$ & plastic circumvent the physical equation
(for many).