I believe the woman with Bob in that pic is Heather Darling. I really don't think she's Bob's girlfriend, but a New Jersey based bodybuilder who probably trains at his gym.
Bob's a cool guy who's been around bodybuilding a LONG time. He's probably forgotten more about the sport and its competitors than most of you know. Yeah he's a bit strange, but who in this industry isn't?
Oh, and Strong & Shapley is a GREAT gym.