If a girl is mediocre in the bedroom, will she get better in your opinion ?

[Stavios]

thats pretty much all you need to know.. she doesn't even like sex. get your fill then move on

no no she ain't like this anymore, she let me finger her ass while I fuck her now and she loves that

I tried to put my cock in, oh brother I have never heard a woman scream like this (from pain, she didn't enjoy it at all ).

I am sure everybody heard her scream from 3 blocks away  

[wes]

no no she ain't like this anymore, she let me finger her ass while I fuck her now and she loves that

I tried to put my cock in, oh brother I have never heard a woman scream like this (from pain, she didn't enjoy it at all ).

I am sure everybody heard her scream from 3 blocks away 

My nugga` !! 

[no one]

Get rid of her, if she is like that now ( you guys just met ) it's only  going to get worse .

                                                      

in my experience they only get less freaky not more ie it goes from getting fucked to making love. not cool.

if she doesn't have it by now she never will. a good chick in bed craves cock. and she'll do whatever you want.

[newmom]

no no she ain't like this anymore, she let me finger her ass while I fuck her now and she loves that

I tried to put my cock in, oh brother I have never heard a woman scream like this (from pain, she didn't enjoy it at all ).

I am sure everybody heard her scream from 3 blocks away  

wait wait my man stav, you just put it in..That's fucked up I would of clinched the cheeks and ripped your dick off.

[apply85]

If she is white... white girls are hit or miss in bed

[Army of One]

If you arnt plowing that anus or blowing a load on her face within 2 months it wont ever happen

[GetItOnNY]

It all depends if the woman is submissive or not.If a woman is a control freak, or a contentious woman, she wont be good in bed, and she will with hold sex from you just to be a bit#$
Its seems Spanish women, of diffrent decents, Mexico, Brazil,Columbia,Velenzulia,Cuba,Costa Rica, and Spain seem to be the most submissive.Meaning they will let you have sex when and where ever you want.They will let you even have anal sex with them.
American women are way to up tight, and pretentious.They are most of the time self absorbed,
They always want to know what can you do for me? It should be the other way around
If a woman is submissive like the bible speaks about, they should cook, clean, and please there man sexually.A woman should never deny her man.
Most American woman feel entitled, and play way to many head games.
So to answer your question, it all dpends on there nationality, and there Paradigm.
If a woman is submissive like god intended them to be she will want to please you any way she can.
The big word is submissive, not like S&M but to look up to respect and want to please her man.

[BiGHer]

Stav,

It's ok for a girl to be "bad" in bed as long as she is open.  Hell, I'll take a girl who has little experience but is eager to do and learn more with a guy she cares about over some experienced whore any day of the week.  Usually your first time in bed with a girl can say a lot about her.

So here is what I can tell you.  Just talk to her about it.  Don't be a dick, but tell her what you want sexually and see if she is open to it.  As I said, it's OK for a chick to be inexperienced or "bad" in bed as long as she is willing and open to learn, but generally you have to take control of that and find out if she's willing.  If she's not than you need to keep it moving because you won't be satisfied and that'll hurt you down the road.  If she is willing to learn than that can be a lot of fun for both of you and if the other qualities are there with this chick than she could definitely be serious relationship material if you're looking for that.

This is just my 2 cc's, but having had experience with women like this, I've come to like women who A) Are not whores B) Are experienced sexually but get their experience from having had a lot of sex, but not with a lot of people and C) Are somebody who knows that they want and can vocalize it confidently, with life and in the bedroom.  <--- PS.  C usually doesn't come with women under the age of 28 which is why I like the 28-35 range (those women are the best if you ask me!).

[apply85]

there's no teaching a girl to be better in bed

[wild willie]

or is that in her gene ?
usually, you either got it or you don't IMO

I am seeing this girl, pretty girl, she is easy to live with, not jealous like the other bitches ect...

but I don't know if her ex fucked her in the missionary position all the time or anything, she fucking sucks in bed.

Is there a way that she will change or she will be like this forever  

I wasn't even rough with her and she said "hey I am not a toy you know... you act like an animal"  

Maybe it is you that sucks?

[calfzilla]

Stavios I worry about you. Few weeks ago you posted something that proves you don't love her and shouldnt be in this relationship, no you saying she doesnt fellace you and she is boring in bed. I think you have some major relationship issues, who screwed you up?  Anway dump this girl now. A gf should be someone you love and get sexual pleasure from. I have no idea you are with her.  Because she is cool?  That my friend is a friend, not a girlfriend.

[wes]

there's no teaching a girl to be better in bed

If the student is willing,she will pass with flying colors.

[Cleanest Natural]

wait wait my man stav, you just put it in..That's fucked up I would of clinched the cheeks and ripped your dick off.

why would stavios put his dick in your hairy old beat up wrinkly ass???

[deadz]

Get rid of her, if she is like that now ( you guys just met ) it's only  going to get worse .

                                                      

agree

[Swlabr]

wait wait my man stav, you just put it in..That's fucked up I would of clinched the cheeks and ripped your dick off.

Hehe... Eddie Murphy. 

[chess315]

no no she ain't like this anymore, she let me finger her ass while I fuck her now and she loves that

I tried to put my cock in, oh brother I have never heard a woman scream like this (from pain, she didn't enjoy it at all ).

I am sure everybody heard her scream from 3 blocks away  

that a boy lol nothings more fun the sticking it in a girls ass the first time hitting a homer in softball a very distant second unless of course a whore at the softball field sees it and lets you stick in her ass lol

[NYSTATEOFMIND]

freaks are born not made

with that being said, she can improve but will never be a hell raising cock gobbler the way god intended

[newmom]

why would stavios put his dick in your hairy old beat up wrinkly ass???

because the line of men for yours was to long

Hehe... Eddie Murphy.  

 

[StanZoLOL]

It all depends if the woman is submissive or not.If a woman is a control freak, or a contentious woman, she wont be good in bed, and she will with hold sex from you just to be a bit#$
Its seems Spanish women, of diffrent decents, Mexico, Brazil,Columbia,Velenzulia,Cuba,Costa Rica, and Spain seem to be the most submissive.Meaning they will let you have sex when and where ever you want.They will let you even have anal sex with them.
American women are way to up tight, and pretentious.They are most of the time self absorbed,
They always want to know what can you do for me? It should be the other way around
If a woman is submissive like the bible speaks about, they should cook, clean, and please there man sexually.A woman should never deny her man.
Most American woman feel entitled, and play way to many head games.
So to answer your question, it all dpends on there nationality, and there Paradigm.
If a woman is submissive like god intended them to be she will want to please you any way she can.
The big word is submissive, not like S&M but to look up to respect and want to please her man.

Very good post overall, and true about the Latina/Spanish  women and anal. lol Greek too, but I guess that goes without saying...

[Natural Man]

Maybe the problem is coming from you and not from her? Did you really think the thousands of hours you spent masturbating to porn didnt have any effect on your sexuality and the way you perceive it?

And women arent just for sex. They are important to take care of house and kids, and for sex. But not just sex. Only people who have nothing else in life and are frustrated by their ugliness, lack of money or poor socio profesionnal status focus on sex and talk a lot about it to everyone else. Life is all about balance. We re designed to live together and raise an offspring, not just work and have casual sex with random strangers. Everything is designed toward reproduction ultimately. The guide to dispose of our own bodies and soul is the Bible. Everything else is useless garbage trying to re invent, imitate what's in the Bible, the word of our Creator, our Father. The right path to a healthy, fun, meaningful and right life, the path between all the extremes, is described in the Bible.


Would you see things the same way you do if you didnt spend years, hours and hours watching porn ? No, your sexuality would be a lot healthier, no search of performance, you would be able to enjoy normal, healthy sex with a meaningful person. The real good sex, is sex with attachment.


This, my friends are the results of your sins. You need more, and more, and more, and the more you ask and get, the less you re satisfied. Congrats, you are a sinner and now it's time to pay.
Porn comsumption is a bad addiction and leads its abusers in the same kind of suffering as other more well known addictions, a progressive loss of desire. Because you re not doing it right, you did not understand what it's all about, you re missing the point of why we are here, and how we are suposed to dispose of our bodies and souls.

Also, the no bj policy on her part is pure immaturity, lack of experience. Teach her and she will enjoy it, but it's up to you to do it correctly so she truly enjoys it. No bjs are a big no no.

Nothing that couldnt be solved by COMMUNICATION, but looks like you re both too dumb to talk about important things and just shrug them off until they explode. Talk, talk, talk... and... talk. Life is about variety, we cant always be perfect, all life long. Teach her good sex but dont go too far, find the right "middle". We ve been designed to be happy and take pleasure in life, but some time too much, "better", is the enemy of Good.



Je vous conseille a toi et elle de lire la traduction oecumenique de la bible (tob) ainsi que le livre "devenez une epouse comblée" de lou beardsley et tony spry , éditions "un monde différent" . Tu devrais trouver ca dans un village des valeurs par exemple.

[apply85]

lol @ uberman... shut up ya virgin

[GetItOnNY]

Uberman, I hate to in form you of this, but I dont watch porn.Some guys like porn I dont.
I dont like topless bars either.If its not the real thing I dont want it.
Porn stars and strippers to me, are pretty much the same thing as hookers.
They are paid to act like they like you, and they like sex, but in the back of there mind they are anything but interested in you.They are just going through the motions
I know alot of guys like porn and  strippers ......good for them.
If you used your brain you would know what I meant by finding a woman that is submissive.
A woman who is submissive, cooks, cleans, builds up her man and never rejects him sexually.
Submission, is a form of respect, which most American woman dont have for men.
When a woman is submisive, she is a woman  of Virtue.
Sex is only 50% of a relationship.Its 50% mental, 50% physical.
When I say physical, I mean kissing hugging, and lovemaking.
Uberman if you dont know what a submissive woman is Open your bible and read 1st Peter Chapter 3,then go to Proverbs 31 verse 10.

[Natural Man]

I talked to stavios, not you getinony.

And the Bible describes exactly how a woman should be. The bible never said women shouldnt enjoy sex, it's actually exactly the oposite. But id eosnt just tell how they should be in bed , but also as wives, mothers and housekeepers.
There are right things to do, and others that lead to despair. There are limitations and we have to learn them to be content with what we have.
It's all about finding the right middle, and the bible tells us how.

Only people who didnt read the Bible think the bible tells men and women to be frigid sad individuals, but it doesnt say any of this at all. It just tells us what boundaries not to cross to be satisfied and maintain and perpetuate a healthy life for oursleves and our offsprings.

Remember, sex is only one part of our existence. All domains of our existences must be satisfying so we can reach stable and long lasting hapiness. Not just one or two.

There are so many advantages of staying loyal to each others. Nowadays fools only talk about disadvantages, because they werent wise, smart, faithful enough to find out that living by the Bible words is actually immensely satisfying if both man and woman follow its principles.

My ultimate advice , considering most people who criticize the Bible actually only repeat what their failed parents told them about it, would be to read it first before talking about something you have no real clue about what's it's talking about. Just because your parents didnt understand it or fell for one or several sins, being badly led by poor influences themselves, doesnt mean they are right. It's sad, but sometimes our Father, the Father of our own parents, and grandparents, and so on, would make a better Father for us than our own genitors.

[apply85]

cliffs:: blah blah i'm a virgin, bible, blah blah blah

[flinstones1]

As long as she can bounce dat ass that's good enough for me. Also needs to be somewhat "athletic" .. nothing turns me off more than some spastic bimbo flopping around.