For the past 6 months or so whenever she says she wants something I kept a note of it in my cellphone so when christmas came around I wouldn't have to think about what to get her... I still got her a couple things she didn't mention that I know she'll like though. For her bday I got her one gift but it was more expensive, and this christmas I bought her 5 gifts but they're all between $15-$50. It's fucking easy to buy for women.