You are right, women are what they are.
For example this girl who turned me down this one time still checked me out every now and then what was i doing and sometimes it seemd she even followed me... understand I tried to get her twice and rly give her all that good stuff.
Then I talk with another girl, she passes me looking at me with the "You could've got this, but instead of me you go with that skank, I are dissapoint" look. This kind of stuff just got in my head and... yes, meltdown 
raymondo said I think too much and I'm jsut an arrogant fool at this point, perhaps he's right but we all have to deal with our issues alone but I will, just need to process thoughts.
she turned you down because you're rubbish in bed, she new that because u didnt make an emotional connection with her. that is what sex is about, not dominance or gettign ru dick wet or whatever nonsense, sex starts at kissing
http://www.getbig.com/boards/index.php?topic=392393.msg5526323#msg5526323i also made a post about uberman which even raymondo loved, it stated that he lives in a fantasy world and doesn't make connections with women because of this dichotomy between reality and fantasy, they don;t match, and making a connection with a woman brings u into reality
i explained kissing in that thread, but let me further talk about touch and what it's for. ever notice how a woman's touch is light as air, just barely touching, that is because women practice seducing themselves, that's how they toiuch themselves when they masturbate, so when they touch you they want you to love them like they love themselves
this is how you touch a woman
take a mooshy part of ur body, if u are ripped then ur ass is the only mooshy part u have, grab or own ass. hover ur fingertips just above the skin, lay them on the skin so that there's no pressuring, just contact. now press ur fingers into ur own flesh as if the sensation came out of nowhere, first the pressure will push away the water retention, then it will reach the fat, increase pressure SLOWLY, until u reach the muscle and just hold the muscle. keep holding.
now when u are on a woman, what she is thinking now is "okay... what now," that little bit of anxiety comes, hold her through the anxeity until your touch becomes REASSURING to her, now the answer of now what is answered she is gets turned on. you can now say whatever u want to her, none of it matters as long as u keep holding, her ass will start to pop out, her back will arch, she will want to fuck
the best place to do this is the hands, and before you do it the best way is to look at her gently, with compassion, forgive her for being of the wrong sex. that's what she wants
regard ur touch, ur gaze, as a metaphor for your will, and you are forcing her to accept your will because your will is tender and loving, and soon your dick will be your will, that is after ur tongue is your will
you are now in the stages of making love instead of fucking, and it is completely different, ur bone when ur making love isn't the kind where you're worried about it going down, where in between positions ur jerking off, it's a boner blown up from within in gh15's terms and ur not going to sleep before both of you come, and the orgasm will make ur legs shake and make u hyperventilate, that is what love is
anybody who wants to tell me i'm selfish, narcisisstic now? hm? anybody wanna tell me i don't try to help? or i am some pretend internet player?
