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Title: seems to be alot of child abuse on tv lately
Post by: slacker on November 30, 2010, 12:42:51 PM
  Growing up we got our ass's beat when we fucked up.  What are your views on physical discipline
Title: Re: seems to be alot of child abuse on tv lately
Post by: JOHN MATRIX on November 30, 2010, 12:43:46 PM
you should be allowed to punch babies or dogs who do not shut up in public
Title: Re: seems to be alot of child abuse on tv lately
Post by: The Showstoppa on November 30, 2010, 12:45:58 PM
There is such a HUGE difference in getting your ass beaten for discipline and child abuse.....but the queer generation of the 60's shit parenting will beg to differ......and then wonder why the youth do all this "crazy shit."  idiots....  ::)
Title: Re: seems to be alot of child abuse on tv lately
Post by: Doug_Steele on November 30, 2010, 12:48:04 PM
There is such a HUGE difference in getting your ass beaten for discipline and child abuse.....but the queer generation of the 60's shit parenting will beg to differ......and then wonder why the youth do all this "crazy shit."  idiots....  ::)

I use to get my ass beat and it worked for me.  ;)

I remember going out and having to pick out my own switch to get beat with it.  :-\ :-\

The Belt also worked too.  ;)
Title: Re: seems to be alot of child abuse on tv lately
Post by: slacker on November 30, 2010, 12:50:05 PM
I use to get my ass beat and it worked for me.  ;)

I remember going out and having to pick out my own switch to get beat with it.  :-\ :-\

The Belt also worked too.  ;)
I dont think its works at all. It teaches children that MIGHT is RIGHT   
Title: Re: seems to be alot of child abuse on tv lately
Post by: The Showstoppa on November 30, 2010, 12:50:23 PM
I use to get my ass beat and it worked for me.  ;)

I remember going out and having to pick out my own switch to get beat with it.  :-\ :-\

The Belt also worked too.  ;)

Exact same here.  and the occasional fly swatter....   ;D
Title: Re: seems to be alot of child abuse on tv lately
Post by: jaejonna on November 30, 2010, 12:50:56 PM
The belt marks on my ass used to be so red and bruised, it would be a week before they would go away...Parents need to beat their kids...
Title: Re: seems to be alot of child abuse on tv lately
Post by: Parker on November 30, 2010, 12:51:30 PM
There is such a HUGE difference in getting your ass beaten for discipline and child abuse.....but the queer generation of the 60's shit parenting will beg to differ......and then wonder why the youth do all this "crazy shit."  idiots....  ::)
"I want to be my child's friend. I don't want ____ to be mad at me." and then when ____ is 11 yrs old and tells you to "shut the fuck up", and then you are on The Maury Show having _____ in bootcamp, you wonder why your child is such a fuck up...
Title: Re: seems to be alot of child abuse on tv lately
Post by: Doug_Steele on November 30, 2010, 12:52:30 PM
I dont think its works at all. It teaches children that MIGHT is RIGHT   

It was also nice having to walk out in snow and getting a switch that still had ice on it.  ;)

Well, if you ever get a women to have sex with you or "Mate" with you, you can let him/her to run all over you and act however they want.  :o :o
Title: Re: seems to be alot of child abuse on tv lately
Post by: The Showstoppa on November 30, 2010, 12:53:31 PM
"I want to be my child's friend. I don't want ____ to be mad at me." and then when ____ is 11 yrs old and tells you to "shut the fuck up", and then you are on The Maury Show having _____ in bootcamp, you wonder why your child is such a fuck up...

F'n BINGO right there......kids don't need parents to be "friends" they need them to be freakin PARENTS.  And like JJ said, kids today need it more than at any other time, yet parents are afraid to, etc... 
Title: Re: seems to be alot of child abuse on tv lately
Post by: slacker on November 30, 2010, 12:53:48 PM
It was also nice having to walk out in snow and getting a switch that still had ice on it.  ;)

Well, if you ever get a women to have sex with you or "Mate" with you, you can let him/her to run all over you and act however they want.  :o :o
your disorders came out in that post
Title: Re: seems to be alot of child abuse on tv lately
Post by: StickStickly on November 30, 2010, 12:54:26 PM
I often times find myself reminiscing over the days when daddy would come in with his whip and beat my butt red  :D
Title: Re: seems to be alot of child abuse on tv lately
Post by: Nails on November 30, 2010, 12:54:51 PM
The fact that my dad would put the leather belt to my ass kept me in line til my teens
Title: Re: seems to be alot of child abuse on tv lately
Post by: Doug_Steele on November 30, 2010, 12:57:32 PM
The fact that my dad would put the leather belt to my ass kept me in line til my teens

I got that too and soaked in water.  :o :o That hurt like hell but i kept my ass in line.

Title: Re: seems to be alot of child abuse on tv lately
Post by: slacker on November 30, 2010, 12:59:53 PM
I got that too and soaked in water.  :o :o That hurt like hell but i kept my ass in line.


those were different times though.  And look at the generation of killers it raised.     

Im not saying my way will work... However I cant see myself hitting a child.
Title: Re: seems to be alot of child abuse on tv lately
Post by: Omega on November 30, 2010, 01:02:50 PM
Because they want you to become desensitzed to it, like its the norm whilst behind closed doors the highest powers that are controlling the masses are indulging in paedophilia, rape and every despicable inhuman act you can think of.

Yet on the news the publically hang the normal 'villans'
One rule for one...
Title: Re: seems to be alot of child abuse on tv lately
Post by: Doug_Steele on November 30, 2010, 01:03:25 PM
those were different times though.  And look at the generation of killers it raised.     

Im not saying my way will work... However I cant see myself hitting a child.

How old are you???

How old do you think i am??
Title: Re: seems to be alot of child abuse on tv lately
Post by: The Showstoppa on November 30, 2010, 01:04:53 PM
those were different times though.  And look at the generation of killers it raised.     

Im not saying my way will work... However I cant see myself hitting a child.

Just randomly hitting a child isn't the same thing as discipline.  And so many people not understanding that is what the problem is.
Title: Re: seems to be alot of child abuse on tv lately
Post by: Emmortal on November 30, 2010, 01:05:06 PM
you should be allowed to punch babies or dogs who do not shut up in public

Or just throw them over the railing:

(http://media.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/content/photo/2010/11/30/PH2010113001706.jpg)

http://voices.washingtonpost.com/local-breaking-news/dc/girl-2-falls-from-walkway-at-t.html


Girl, 2, dies after Tysons plunge
By Debbi Wilgoren and Martin Weil

A toddler has died after allegedly being thrown over the railing of a fifth-floor outdoor walkway at Tysons Corner Center Monday night, police said. The child's grandmother has been arrested.

Angelyn Ogdoc, 2½, of the 1800 block of Griffith Road in Falls Church, was taken to Inova Fairfax Hospital in critical condition after plunging an estimated 50 feet or more to the pavement, police said. The hospital notified detectives about 4:30 a.m. Tuesday that Angelyn had died.

Carmela Dela Rosa, 50, was charged with aggravated malicious wounding and is being held at the Fairfax County Adult Detention Center, police said.

Rosa. (Fairfax Police)

Dela Rosa lives in the 3100 block of Ellenwood Drive, police said. No one answered the door at the house early Tuesday.

Police said Dela Rosa, Angelyn and other family members were walking from the shopping mall to the parking garage on the elevated walkway Monday night when, "for an unknown reason," Dela Rosa allegedly picked up the child and threw her over the guardrail. Dela Rosa and the girl's other relatives remained at the site while police were summoned.

The walkway connects the fifth above-ground level of the parking garage with the shopping mall. Below it is a two-lane access road and asphalt sidewalks. The safety railing appears to be above waist-level on an average-height adult.


Title: Re: seems to be alot of child abuse on tv lately
Post by: JOHN MATRIX on November 30, 2010, 01:07:26 PM
lol seems a bit harsh bro
Title: Re: seems to be alot of child abuse on tv lately
Post by: The Showstoppa on November 30, 2010, 01:08:03 PM
Or just throw them over the railing:

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Girl, 2, dies after Tysons plunge
By Debbi Wilgoren and Martin Weil

A toddler has died after allegedly being thrown over the railing of a fifth-floor outdoor walkway at Tysons Corner Center Monday night, police said. The child's grandmother has been arrested.

Angelyn Ogdoc, 2½, of the 1800 block of Griffith Road in Falls Church, was taken to Inova Fairfax Hospital in critical condition after plunging an estimated 50 feet or more to the pavement, police said. The hospital notified detectives about 4:30 a.m. Tuesday that Angelyn had died.

Carmela Dela Rosa, 50, was charged with aggravated malicious wounding and is being held at the Fairfax County Adult Detention Center, police said.

Rosa. (Fairfax Police)

Dela Rosa lives in the 3100 block of Ellenwood Drive, police said. No one answered the door at the house early Tuesday.

Police said Dela Rosa, Angelyn and other family members were walking from the shopping mall to the parking garage on the elevated walkway Monday night when, "for an unknown reason," Dela Rosa allegedly picked up the child and threw her over the guardrail. Dela Rosa and the girl's other relatives remained at the site while police were summoned.

The walkway connects the fifth above-ground level of the parking garage with the shopping mall. Below it is a two-lane access road and asphalt sidewalks. The safety railing appears to be above waist-level on an average-height adult.




WTF, how about MURDER?  Hope they light this bitch up...
Title: Re: seems to be alot of child abuse on tv lately
Post by: Parker on November 30, 2010, 01:12:58 PM
those were different times though.  And look at the generation of killers it raised.     

Im not saying my way will work... However I cant see myself hitting a child.
Bullshit, that diff times shit is an excuse. Kids are kids, kids always need structure, discipline, guidance, and love. A parents job is to offer all that, but to make sure that the child will grow up to be a productive and discipline person, who then becomes a good parent and a adult that makes good decisions...

All kids from 1-18 will try and test boundaries...you set them, and there are consequences. There can be progressive discipline, it doesn't have to be a whipping, but one has to be firm and stick to your guns. Or they will not respect you. None of that friend shit, none of that "well I used to smoke weed, so let me tell you...", you don't put yourself on their level.

My parents are old school, my dad looks like Bill Cosby, but acts like James Evans, my mom acts like Claire Huxable and Patti Labelle combined, she didn't take any mess, and didn't believe in "rebellion"...yeah, I got whippings (Peach Tree switches are worse than dogwood tree switches), but I have immense respect for my parents, more so than the people I know who are "friends" with their parents and go out drinking  and to clubs with them...they actually have little respect for them and view them on their level, and tell them to shut up...
Title: Re: seems to be alot of child abuse on tv lately
Post by: The Showstoppa on November 30, 2010, 01:14:38 PM
Bullshit, that diff times shit is an excuse. Kids are kids, kids always need structure, discipline, guidance, and love. A parents job is to offer all that, but to make sure that the child will grow up to be a productive and discipline person, who then becomes a good parent and a adult that makes good decisions...

All kids from 1-18 will try and test boundaries...you set them, and there are consequences. There can be progressive discipline, it doesn't have to be a whipping, but one has to be firm and stick to your guns. Or they will not respect you. None of that friend shit, none of that "well I used to smoke weed, so let me tell you...", you don't put yourself on their level.

My parents are old school, my dad looks like Bill Cosby, but acts like James Evans, my mom acts like Claire Huxable and Patti Labelle combined, she didn't take any mess, and didn't believe in "rebellion"...yeah, I got whippings (Peach Tree switches are worse than dogwood tree switches), but I have immense respect for my parents, more so than the people I know who are "friends" with their parents and go out drinking  and to clubs with them...they actually have little respect for them and view them on their level, and tell them to shut up...

EXCELLENT post Parker.....  I agree on all points.
Title: Re: seems to be alot of child abuse on tv lately
Post by: Doug_Steele on November 30, 2010, 01:16:25 PM
EXCELLENT post Parker.....  I agree on all points.

Hell, my mom is white and watches "Good Times" and she would always say, "Dynamite" when she used the switch on me.  :D It only hurt my feeling but as i grew older, i knew that she still cared about me.
Title: Re: seems to be alot of child abuse on tv lately
Post by: Nails on November 30, 2010, 01:19:44 PM
i grew up with 2 other brothers and when we got older and moms wasn't as strong anymore to do any whipping damage, she would have us do shores for days or else she wouldn't cook or wash our cloths.... but if it was bad then pops would step in with the Leather belt  ;D
Title: Re: seems to be alot of child abuse on tv lately
Post by: The Showstoppa on November 30, 2010, 01:20:16 PM
Hell, my mom is white and watches "Good Times" and she would always say, "Dynamite" when she used the switch on me.  :D It only hurt my feeling but as i grew older, i knew that she still cared about me.

Did she call you "Bookman" when she did it?  ;D
Title: Re: seems to be alot of child abuse on tv lately
Post by: Doug_Steele on November 30, 2010, 01:23:35 PM
Did she call you "Bookman" when she did it?  ;D

I do not remember that part.  8) I guess i will call her up and find out.  ;)
Title: Re: seems to be alot of child abuse on tv lately
Post by: The Showstoppa on November 30, 2010, 01:25:27 PM
I do not remember that part.  8) I guess i will call her up and find out.  ;)

Little Penny from next door turned out pretty dang hot !  8)
Title: Re: seems to be alot of child abuse on tv lately
Post by: Doug_Steele on November 30, 2010, 01:26:37 PM
Little Penny from next door turned out pretty dang hot !  8)

Any nudes?  :D :D
Title: Re: seems to be alot of child abuse on tv lately
Post by: Parker on November 30, 2010, 01:28:36 PM
Hell, my mom is white and watches "Good Times" and she would always say, "Dynamite" when she used the switch on me.  :D It only hurt my feeling but as i grew older, i knew that she still cared about me.
I had a sitter who was 4'11 if that, and that tiny woman still scares the shit out of me, I have a TON of respect for her, and she is TRUE old skool, no lip, no back talk, and she will lay it all on the line, and my folks gave her the authority to whip me, and I love her to death, like she is a second mother. She was my sitter from 10 months to 11 yrs old. Her kids, and grand kids all have turned out great. The generation before the baby boomers KNEW how to raise kids, and promote, love, respect, and guidance, that new lovely dovey, question authority, do what makes you feel good type of parenting does shit all for kids...just look at all the slackers, douchebags, dumbfucks, dizzy, spoiled broads on those judge shows.
Title: Re: seems to be alot of child abuse on tv lately
Post by: Lundgren on November 30, 2010, 01:34:43 PM
I had a sitter who was 4'11 if that, and that tiny woman still scares the shit out of me, I have a TON of respect for her, and she is TRUE old skool, no lip, no back talk, and she will lay it all on the line, and my folks gave her the authority to whip me, and I love her to death, like she is a second mother. She was my sitter from 10 months to 11 yrs old. Her kids, and grand kids all have turned out great. The generation before the baby boomers KNEW how to raise kids, and promote, love, respect, and guidance, that new lovely dovey, question authority, do what makes you feel good type of parenting does shit all for kids...just look at all the slackers, douchebags, dumbfucks, dizzy, spoiled broads on those judge shows.


Your anecdotal evidence is great and all, but your missing the big picture, most folk are fine with this shit, but the unbalanced have a habit of fucking up their kids, would you want someone like a umedded disturbia fucking up his kids, it's bad news. There's a reason this shit is frowned upon it's a bit round about stupid, but what else, can you do.
Title: Re: seems to be alot of child abuse on tv lately
Post by: johnnynoname on November 30, 2010, 01:43:30 PM
I believe that kids need to get their asses kicked to learn the lesson but i strongly disagree that this sort of discipline should come from their parents

Parents are a child's protector.  When a parent strikes a child, it is like really cruel ,in my eyes, because the "protector" disobeys that trust a young, defenseless child gives to them

Parents should discipline their kids but NEVER use corporal punishment.

So, where do kids go to get the beatings they deserve?

The corrective beatings that children need should come from bullies and teachers


My mom or dad never laid a hand on me .  She just sent me to Catholic School knowing that the nuns would straighten me out.....which they did in spades
Title: Re: seems to be alot of child abuse on tv lately
Post by: wes on November 30, 2010, 01:44:16 PM
My father hit me harder than Chinese arithmetic!!
Title: Re: seems to be alot of child abuse on tv lately
Post by: johnnynoname on November 30, 2010, 01:44:42 PM
one time a nun punished me by locking me in the coat closet












have fun with that  ;D
Title: Re: seems to be alot of child abuse on tv lately
Post by: wes on November 30, 2010, 01:46:17 PM
I also survived Catholic school........until they threw me out!
Title: Re: seems to be alot of child abuse on tv lately
Post by: CalvinH on November 30, 2010, 01:47:55 PM
one time a nun punished me by locking me in the coat closet












have fun with that  ;D



Well you certainly came out of the closet...
Title: Re: seems to be alot of child abuse on tv lately
Post by: Emmortal on November 30, 2010, 01:48:56 PM
WTF, how about MURDER?  Hope they light this bitch up...

That was the initial charge because the child lived, for a little while.  It's going to be modified to murder because the child died.
Title: Re: seems to be alot of child abuse on tv lately
Post by: #1 Klaus fan on November 30, 2010, 01:49:25 PM
I was a smart child, and if either one of my parents would have laid their hands on me, I wouldn't have been able to find justification for it, and would have started to hate my parents.

By the way, hitting on the backside can fuck you up sexually. Really fuck you up...
Title: Re: seems to be alot of child abuse on tv lately
Post by: The Showstoppa on November 30, 2010, 01:50:56 PM
That was the initial charge because the child lived, for a little while.  It's going to be modified to murder because the child died.

Gotcha.  The good thing is that either way, that old hag is f'd.  She will either get the death penalty or probably wish she did after going to prison and the treatment she will receive.
Title: Re: seems to be alot of child abuse on tv lately
Post by: johnnynoname on November 30, 2010, 01:54:27 PM


Well you certainly came out of the closet...

....and the flood gates begin to open
Title: Re: seems to be alot of child abuse on tv lately
Post by: Lundgren on November 30, 2010, 01:58:49 PM
I believe that kids need to get their asses kicked to learn the lesson but i strongly disagree that this sort of discipline should come from their parents

Parents are a child's protector.  When a parent strikes a child, it is like really cruel ,in my eyes, because the "protector" disobeys that trust a young, defenseless child gives to them

Parents should discipline their kids but NEVER use corporal punishment.

So, where do kids go to get the beatings they deserve?

The corrective beatings that children need should come from bullies and teachers


My mom or dad never laid a hand on me .  She just sent me to Catholic School knowing that the nuns would straighten me out.....which they did in spades
I almost think I would have to agree kid's need to be shown a sense of order at a early age, however bullies are the worst forum, there just as bad as unbalanced parents. I think some forum of military like discipline would work best, as long as we don't end up with a generation of fascists. Kids need a environment that shows order and restraint, not unbalance eraticness, and poor self control.