Sorry to hear my suggestion didnt work. 
She shouldve taken no for an answer at that point. I cant stand people who have no respect for & feel the need to violate the sanctity of a marraige/ relationship.(percieved one in this case)
At least now you KNOW beyond a shadow of a doubt that you need to avoid hooking up with her.
If she keeps it up, file a complaint.
Just got back from the local PD. I was hoping to get something on record as a register of concern, a history of her behaviour, etc, but they say all they can do is process a restraining order. Things clearly haven't reached that point though, she might just be harmless but really sexually aggressive, and imo it would do more to inflame the situation than resolve it (and it would be a really shitty thing for me to do to her since all she has done is want sex). I managed to get my conversation with a police telephone operator recorded tho and she suggested I note the time and date of the call for later reference if needed.
After the way she acted last night, I won't let her through door again. All conversations will now take place on my front step... or not at all, preferably!
Can't believe no one here has had similar experiences of unwanted attention.
