Seems to me Grant should teach Josh how to deal with women. If you fall in love with a hottie expect to have competition, unrequited love, depression, etc. If you are in love with someone who doesn't want you the same way it can affect your choices and relationships in the future. In other words, you will be messed up for perhaps 5 and maybe even 10 years! You won't want anyone else. Never line up the gal you love with anyone else. You will regret it later. By the way, it is almost impossible to be friends with a woman unless you are gay! Lots of guys believe otherwise but when a woman no longer wants to be intimate with you things change and you will be discarded like a tampon.