Vince....with complete sincerity...and total lack of ball busting...when did you realize you wanted to be with just guys? You say you have been with women and guys....so what caused you to make the final switch to "the other team". The fact you have been with both women and men makes you bi...does it not? Did you have sex with women only and then switch to guys or did you flip flop? Does that also reinforce the premise that being gay is not genetic and is more of a 'choice'? Does it bother you that people throw the "fag" term around? Again, total seriousness here. I have some patients who are gay and just want to know how you answer those questions.
It wasn't a matter of switching one side to another, I was just doing a Bo Jackson when it came to playing sports....sometimes playing both sports at the side. I am bi however most gays absolutely hate people that are bi and won't even go out with you as its some sort of purist bullshit. Vissy is the same way and it especially pissed him off when one of my ex girls called and said she was in town. Fortunately it was few months after we met so I wasn't in the doghouse or anything but its never a good idea to bring up any past relationships...be it a guy or girl. Ultimately I met someone that really gets me so I settled and stopped my wanton ways.
As far as choice or genetics is concerned, pssst...who cares. Rather live life than worry about what people think because people who think whatever. If you wear a pink shirt, regardless of how straight you are, they'll still think you're gay anyway. You can't control what people think so you shouldn't give a shit. Fag is used just like guy...gays call other gays fags and black folks call other folks guy so its just more political correctness bullshit. There's been only one person who called me a guy right in my face who really meant it and I threw him off the balcony at school and knocked out his front teeth out but that's like almost 15 years ago. Its good to have long arms because no matter what, I'm going to get the first hit in anyway.
So its not like I don't care about sex, its just that I've had more than my fill of plowing ass and I've done some things that Tre would prob give me a high five for. The only people that talk about sex all the time and post pictures are obviously not getting any or not satisfied. Take Keith Jones or Onlyme for example. He's always yelling and spewing out hatred at everyone but its because he has no one in his life due to being a morbidly obese fat ass and even if he had the opportunity or paid a hooker, it would be doubtful that he could find his penis buried under all those stomach rolls of his. So he takes his anger out on the world including me because he simply gets no pun-tang. If he actually made a effort to drop the weight, he might have better luck but he simply quench his hunger for cakes and jelly doughnuts.
Hope that helps and this will be the last that I will speak on the matter because I have more pressing issues to deal with
