Shit we were together for 11 years. There was plenty of that shit. Ridiculous now that I look back. Really good learning experience for me. It's like owning a dog you have to be the leader of the pack. Otherwise you will get bit.
Using strenght to make a point is ok as long as your ultimate goal is positive, benevolent for both -and kids when kids are involved-. Im not advocating using gratuitous violence randomly to release your anger on someone who doesnt deserve it . Let's just say sometimes some women need to be taught things they simply werent aware of. Sometimes women are destructive and lost, and it's your duty to make them grow up. If you dont, nobody else s going to do it for you/her. Or worse, she might go seek someone who can when you cant; or find abother sucker to bullshit with her drama and imaturity. A good,deep and no bullshit discussion adressing the problems with no detours is needed afterwhile a good slap tho and not everyone is capable of that.
No serious, solid, long lasting couple hasnt seen the man slap his woman between two to 5 times in lets say, a 30 years span. Good men follow God, their women follow them and God, and kids follow father, mother, and learn they are submitted to God. This way everyone knows his place in the big picture.
