oh boy im all over the spectrum on this one. i can get EXTREMELY jealous and possessive. but other times ill encourage her to tell me about how she wants some porn stars cock or try and get her to have a three some with a dude with me.
really what it comes down to is i dont want her talking to anybody but me, but having sex with other people is cool so long as im there. the only problem is, she thinks exactly opposite as i do. she thinks talking is perfectly fine but physical contact isnt. which is what most people think as well. but im not most people.
...i have gotten her to change her ways quite a bit though. she used to go out all the time with coworkers for drinks, was friends with guys, would laugh at things guys said. but now she wont go anywhere where guys are at unless she tells me first, and she knows i have to give her the go-ahead before she can go. but she never wants to go to parties or go out drinking without me. its only stuff like going rock climbing with people from school. and when she does go, she understands how to make sure the guys know she isnt at all interested in them. not laughing at shit they say. not paying attention to them. giving them very short, curt answers to the questions they ask her. ..anyways, yeah i probably have some issues.
but personally im an extremely anti-social person, and i prefer she be the same way. however, i do realize she hasnt completely fried her brain and killed the potential to get joy out of socializing by taking massive amounts of ecstacy for years on end like i have.. so im undertsanding. to a degree. she appreciates my strength of personality though (at least thats how women percieve a guy who doesnt talk very much but keeps a cool demeanor regardless)
