whats even worse is she has custody from what i gain from the article and he probably has to pay child support. Im not saying he shouldnt but damn man he gets cheated on and has to pay her I know we dont exactly know the whole situation but again THIS IS WHY PPL GO POSTAL
Initially I didn't read the article Beach posted. I figured it was the same one I posted on the Open Talk board.
Even if she did cheat, for him to demand the kidney back (or it's determined worth) is pretty weird coming from a doctor (who is supposed to be in the business of saving lives) imo. Although now knowing that she cheated on him his anger is more understandable.
This article indicates it's illegal om the US to exchange an organ for anything of value.
Husband in divorce case wants wife's kidney back--or $1.5MDoc from Ronkonkoma wants donated organ -- or equal value -- back from wife as part of divorce settlement
BY CHAU LAM and AND RIDGELY OCHS | chau.lam@newsday.com ridgely.ochs@newsday.com
9:33 PM EST, January 7, 2009
When Dr. Richard Batista's wife needed a kidney, he gave her one of his.
And now that Dawnell Batista has filed for a divorce, he wants it back.
If he can't get the kidney, his attorney, Dominic Barbara of Garden City, said Wednesday that his client wants $1.5 million -- which, he said, reflects in part the value of the kidney transplant.
Dawnell Batista, 44, of Massapequa, could not be reached and her attorney, Douglas Rothkopf of Garden City, declined to comment in detail.
The facts will speak for themselves and they're not as represented by Dr. Batista," Rothkopf said.
Medical ethicists agreed that the case is a nonstarter. Arthur Caplan of the University of Pennsylvania's Center for Bioethics said the likelihood of Batista getting either his kidney or cash was "somewhere between impossible and completely impossible."
Robert Veatch, a medical ethicist at Georgetown University's Kennedy Institute of Ethics, noted that "it's illegal for an organ to be exchanged for anything of value." Organs in the United States may not be bought or sold. Donating an organ is a gift and legally, "when you give something, you can't get it back," he said.
"It's her kidney now and . . . taking the kidney out would mean she would have to go on dialysis or it would kill her," Veatch said.
Barbara said his client isn't really looking for Dawnell Batista to give back her kidney. "Does he really want the kidney back? Of course not," he said.
Batista said his aim instead was to draw attention to her not allowing him agreed-upon visitation with the couple's three children, ages 14, 11 and 8.
Batista, 49, of Ronkonkoma, said he donated his kidney to his wife in June 2001, after she had undergone two other failed transplants when her kidneys ceased working.
"My first priority was to save her life," Batista said at a news conference in Garden City. "The second bonus was to turn the marriage around."
Batista, a surgeon at Nassau University Medical Center since 1992, said the marriage had been shaky because of his wife's illness.
Initially, Batista said he was happy with his gift of life: "I was walking on a cloud. I did the right thing for her and to this day I would do it again."
Dawnell Batista, a nurse, filed for divorce in July 2005, and her husband countersued that same year. The demand for the kidney was not part of the original countersuit, but was introduced Wednesday, Barbara said.
Barbara said the $1.5 million his client feels he's entitled to reflects damages, including how much money she made as a result of being able to continue working and not having to go on dialysis. "A price can't be placed on a human organ but it does have value," he said.
Caplan disagreed. "There's nothing later you can get in terms of compensation if you regret your gift," he said.