she dont want no therapy, she acts all strong and though, borderline living in fantasy world, even told some clearly made up stories.
i felt pity about that,and told to myself give it a try anyway, deep inside, im quite nice guy at times
parker you are the best philosoph i ever came accross, respect man, its obvious you have lived a life and got around
just as many people on here come from various walks of life, and have their an experiences, so too do women. Many times the women that we deal with don't feel comfortable telling us what has happened to them, for fear of the men in their lives leaving.
There are tons of women who have been raped, abused by their fathers or other men, and they go thru life somewhat normally. Have great jobs, make very good money. But, many times the past comes out in drinking, sleeping around, drugs, cutting, acting out, yelling, etc.
There is a rhyme and reason for everything. Problem is, many who "give it a try" wind up finding that they are in over their heads, especially when they are putting more work in than the other person, and they blame you for not being understanding or lacking in patience.
It's like seeing a Ferrari at a seedy used car dealership----walk away, walk away real fast.
*Thanks. I have a job in which I deal with the underbelly of this world.