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I was rejected yesterday by a girl who has said I "make her laugh", am "hilarious" etc. I thought it meant she could be interested, since she clearly stated in her blog she wants a guy who is "intelligent", "able to hold a conversation", "make her laugh". I am nothing if not those 3. :D
So what's the deal? Why can't I catch a break? Perhaps it has something to do with my height and looks even though women always say "looks don't matter". ::)
Side rant: It's funny that all these douchebags who just want to have sex with a girl and be done with her get all the tang they want and then avoid the girl. I am one of the "good guys" who wants a commitment, who will stay, yet we can't catch a break in this fucking world! >:( Guys that don't give a shit about women always get them, maybe that's what I should try to be? ???
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I was rejected yesterday by a girl
No way!
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I was rejected yesterday by a girl who has said I "make her laugh", am "hilarious" etc. I thought it meant she could be interested, since she clearly stated in her blog she wants a guy who is "intelligent", "able to hold a conversation", "make her laugh". I am nothing if not those 3. :D
So what's the deal? Why can't I catch a break? Perhaps it has something to do with my height and looks even though women always say "looks don't matter". ::)
Side rant: It's funny that all these douchebags who just want to fuck a girl and be done with her get all the tang they want and then avoid the girl. I am one of the "good guys" who wants a commitment, who will stay, yet we can't catch a break in this fucking world! >:( Guys that don't give a shit about women always get them, maybe that's what I should try to be? ???
mahg honey, if you are one of the good guys, then you will get one of the good girls. Be patient. ;)
How old are you? DId you say you were 16? And what's this about your height and looks?
And NO, being a funny guy does not automatically put you in a "friend zone" forever.
Humor and intelligence are extremely attractive qualities....not to mention that some of the best and most successful relationships start in the "friend zone."
:)
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Now that you MENTIONED height, Im courious... If you'd just come across as 10ft tall and bullet proof w/ self-condidence (not Arrogance) nobody notice your size......
Women dont want a guy that treats them like crap (Not any women you want to spend time with)
Funny's got me girls... Listening to them, and knowing what they like and feel does to.
Are (were) you dealing w/ her onLine? If so, get flirty in person everywhere you can.....
She Dont have to be beauty queen. Just learn to get women to respond to you in the store, street, gym,
While they are working.... It dont cost anything, and its fun.... WTF....
How were you trying to get her attention or to go out w/ you?
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Yep the friend zone. These women cry about what they want and when it is right in front of their face they want something else. You will find the right one but it does take time. Just don't change who you are because when you try to change then the game changes. If ass is all you want then yes I would be an outgoing semi-asshole. For some reason a better part of the female population likes that shit. I really do not know why. Now there will be rebuttals coming I am sure but I am old enough to have seen it many many many times. It's not like I am the only one who knows this either. Some woman call it confidence but I call it being a self conceited jerk. I have been married for 10 years and have never had any drama. Only cuz I waited for the right one.
Good Luck and don't turn homo.
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OMG..I just read that you are 16?
That changes things. Get drunk and party and you will definitely find a hookup.
I thought you were an old dude like myself.
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OMG..I just read that you are 16?
That changes things. Get drunk and party and you will definitely find a hookup.
I thought you were an old dude like myself.
hahaha I may have made up the part about him being 16, I can't remember.
I wouldn't say I necessarily disagree with your advice, but it depends on how old he is.
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hahaha I may have made up the part about him being 16, I can't remember.
I wouldn't say I necessarily disagree with your advice, but it depends on how old he is.
lol Oh well. I am sure he will release his venom one way or another. ;D
BTW..who changed the b-word I had to women? That's funny.
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3 rules......
being nice won't get women
being a phallus won't get women
being an ASS gets you women
;D
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lol Oh well. I am sure he will release his venom one way or another. ;D
BTW..who changed the b-word I had to women? That's funny.
haha I didn't see your original post. Someone's on the ball tonight! 8)
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I was rejected yesterday by a girl who has said I "make her laugh", am "hilarious" etc. I thought it meant she could be interested, since she clearly stated in her blog she wants a guy who is "intelligent", "able to hold a conversation", "make her laugh". I am nothing if not those 3. :D
So what's the deal? Why can't I catch a break? Perhaps it has something to do with my height and looks even though women always say "looks don't matter". ::)
Side rant: It's funny that all these douchebags who just want to have sex with a girl and be done with her get all the tang they want and then avoid the girl. I am one of the "good guys" who wants a commitment, who will stay, yet we can't catch a break in this fucking world! >:( Guys that don't give a shit about women always get them, maybe that's what I should try to be? ???
Most women will say they want a "nice guy" but those guys get f***ed over all the time.
It's the guys who are edgy with a badboy steak that get the women they want.
The type of women who go for me typically don't go for nice guys, and I make it clear that I'm not that type so they know what they're getting in to.
On a side note: Once you are in that "friend zone", your chances of getting out are slim.
Good luck, baby mahgs....
DIV
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>:( Guys that don't give a shit about women always get them, maybe that's what I should try to be? ???
I don't give advice. But, isn't it obvious that these wannabe tough guys who treat women like shit always end up with women who want to be treated like shit? It's not that they can get the best sort of women. And I don't consider these 'guys' as 'the top of the food chain'.
I like a woman with confidence. Insecure women don't do it for me. Physical appearance isn't all that matters to. There has to be a certain 'click', I don't know how to tell it in English language.
Most women find it difficult to decide what to think of me. I don't fit in any category. Fun loving guy I am mostly, but also sharp as a razor-blade when attacked. I'm not a bad guy nor a good guy, to say it simply.
Just be true to yourself.
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Seriously if the girl is hot and i get in the friend zone i rather not be friends, thats why i generally come on to them pretty quick to avoid the friend zone ( I know it sound crass), i dont need a "Girl" Friend unless she loves watching Entourage we really dont have much in common.
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NIce Guy? Or weak and allows (expects?) a woman to be in control?
I maintain even the most aggressive self-made women are usually uncomfortable w/ that situation.
Actually, They more so that more passive girls... But it manifests in strange ways...
You have to be respectfull, and considerate of her, But I truly feel most women want (Genetically NEED)
a guy who makes them feel secure. And that aint some mushy nut-less worm who cant make a decision and follow thru.
Women want a guy they KNOW is going to stand up for them and their child, regardless of the situation.
Is being a "Nice guy" not standing up for yourself when she starts to claim a little more of the relation than is fair?
If so - You just failed the test. Your Prize? A MISSERBLE MARRIAGE/ RELATION at best.
But Respect needs work in both directions.
Treating Gals like crap will simply score you - Gals who like to be treated like crap. Not my type.
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Treating Gals like crap will simply score you - Gals who like to be treated like crap. Not my type.
That's the truth.
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I seem to have this knack of getting in every girl's friend zone. This shit sucks. Being the intelligent funny guy doesn't get the girl. I'm like on MSN WASTING MY TIME yapping with her for 10 hours every night , being the nice smart funny guy she claims she wants, trying to plant some seeds, yet she just wants to complain to me that the guy she loves, wants another girl.
I'm like WTF, HELLOO HELLOO YOU'VE GOT A GUY RIGHT IN FRONT OF YOU WHO WORSHIPS THE GROUND YOU WALK ON, WHO MEETS ALL YOUR SUPPOSED "CRITERIA". WHY AM I NOT GOOD ENOUGH FOR U, damit I'd make her happier than that other f guy. I WOULD LIKE DO ANYTHING FOR HER MY WHOLE LIFE WOULD BE ABOUT MAKING SURE SHES HAPPY. >:(
I am going to DUMP THE FRIENDSHIP. I AM GOING TO DUMP HER FROM BEING MY FRIEND. I NEED TO GIVE SOMEONE MY LOVE AND I NEED TO BE LOVED BACK HELL. I HAVE PLENTY OF LOVE TO GIVE AND WANT TO RECEIVE PLENTY OF LOVE BACK :( I WANT A COMMITMENT I WANT YOUR HEART I WANT YOUR LOVE.
I KNOW, MELTDOWN, IM DRUNK, FUCK. IT NEVER HAPPENS FOR ME. THIS SHIT SUCKS. :'(
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Dont be down man, keep talking to gals
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Unless you know for a FACT she lives close to you, your wasting your time on MSN.
Get off the computer and get to the mall or whatever.
Women like a guy thats aggressive, but not rude. They got to know/ feel that you think they are sexy and are interested in them for that reason or your wasting your time.
If your not getting inviting feedback/ approval from your subtle sexual innuendo - She ain't interested. Move on.
Hell, then your basically like their "Perfect Gay Guy Friends" that so many of them like, If you LET that be the situation.
Sounds like your creating that.
Conversely, you cant make her feel that ALL you want is Sex. I find it works best if you 1. Get them talking/ interested in you, but don't even let on that you think shes sexy till she starts to signal insecurity that shes not attractive to you. (This SHould happen quickly)
(Women are used to guys staring at their tits and such, If you DONT do that at first (Talk directly to her eyes) - until you get the unspoken invite that its OK with her (Touching you, Positioning herself vulnerable, hair games etc), it gets her all up in a mental quandary, as well as insecure about her attractiveness...
THEN - You casually let her know, YES she's VERY attractive TO YOU, but thats not ALL your interested in.
This is a whole lot easier to do if you've been around, and scored a lot of women.
If your allways labled "Nice Guys/ Freind" to them, you may need be more aggressive. Not a rude ass, or abusive, but you may be surprised how physical and aggressive many gals are.
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Mahg, You are sounding weak. "Your whole life would be about making her happy?" No girls wants to date a seemingly weak man, you need to have the attitude that her life should be about making you happy. Do you have any really ugly girls around where you live? It sounds like you have champagne taste on a beer budget, or in other words you are trying to get some girls that are way out of your league. If you could get over the drooling, I think maybe you should find a girl.
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You are sounding like a pussy. "Your whole life would be about making her happy?" No girls wants to date a big pussy, you need to have the attitude that her life should be about making you happy. Now I know, I saw your pics and God obviously fucked you over in the looks department, but thats still no reason to act like such a bitch. Do you have any really ugly girls around where you live? It sounds like you have champagne taste on a beer budget, or in other words you are trying to fuck some girls that are way out of your league. If you could get over the drooling, I think maybe you should find a girl with downs syndrome or some other type of deformity, sounds like normal bitches are just too frustrating for you.
WhooHoo..! ;D Take it easy Dan.. I bet I could school the kid how to score WAY out of his League...
Regardless of his appearance..
BUT - Your right... Too "nice" is not becoming to women... Nature favored guys that protected their women and kids, not
"Nice Guys".
If a young guy thinks all women allways want a tender-gentle-warm-feelings guy - Wrong!
Ive known women that'd have HIM calling 911... ;D" :'( ;D ??? ;)
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WhooHoo..! ;D Take it easy Dan.. I bet I could school the kid how to score WAY out of his League...
Regardless of his appearance..
BUT - Your right... Too "nice" is not becoming to women... Nature favored guys that protected their women and kids, not
"Nice Guys".
If a young guy thinks all women allways want a tender-gentle-warm-feelings guy - Wrong!
Ive known women that'd have HIM calling 911... ;D" :'( ;D ??? ;)
Then school me trab. I want to score WAY out of my league and make her jealous. Its not even looks, I have fallen hopelessly in love with her personality. See, she cuts herself. She's miserable. She has so many problems. She's funny. She's crazy. That is such a turn on to me for some reason, I want to be the guy that takes away all her pain and suffering. But she doesn't want me back. :'(
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Then school me trab. I want to score WAY out of my league and make her jealous. Its not even looks, I have fallen hopelessly in love with her personality. See, she cuts herself. She's miserable. She has so many problems. She's funny. She's crazy. That is such a turn on to me for some reason, I want to be the guy that takes away all her pain and suffering. But she doesn't want me back. :'(
#1. TOTALY Forget anyone who cuts themself (unless its a family member or old dear friend) you are just throwing your life down the toilet. Get as much space between them and you ASAP. Im DEAD SERIOUS.
If you want to be a social worker, go get a degree in it and leave that shit at work when you punch out.
Get involved w/ that will destroy you.
Can I ask how old you are? Life takes time...
When your young, you just need to learn to relate to women. As you age, yours and their personality, wants, needs etc will also change. What you want/ Value at 20 is much different than 30, and again at 40...
You will find women are not so different than yourself. Just try to relate to them like that. But, you ARE looking for a
mate for a long term relation, correct??? Well, she need understand that pretty quick.
There is a major distinction between making a woman feel good about herself (Sexy, desirable etc) and being
a slobbering, weak little worm totaly at her mercy if she so chose... They dont want that, its repulsive.
Acting all stunned by a Hot womans looks is the best way to make sure you never get busy w/ her..
Need to relate to her as a person, but make her feel special. Listen to the stuff she talks and pick out little things she likes and surprise her...... The fact you pay close attention is the thing...
Need feel a lot of selfconfidence and never miss a chance to get touching going on ASAP. The way you sublty touch at first, and Hold total eye contact is real important... This is somthing need learn by trial and error...
I'll make coment about a piece of jewlery or clothing and let my hands wander to a safe area and run Mr finger down a arm or ear or ;D... This done right gets you closer to her modling her wardrobe collection 4 you..
A firm enough hand grip at the right time also goes a long way...
They like us for what they are not... Strength etc.
Seriously forget that girl thats carving on her body. Thats a disaster to get involved in. You cant save the world, worry about yourself...
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I am one of the "good guys" who wants a commitment, who will stay,
some good looking american gals need you to be an ass...they mistake an ass with an alpha male..i'm gonna get chewed out by a lot of single gals for this ;D
either change and learn how to be an ass till she falls for ya...once she's fallen then you can go ahead and be nice..but not to nice...
OR you could simply avoid the whole mess by dating european girls...the non americanized ones..
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some good looking american gals need you to be an ass...they mistake an ass with an alpha male..i'm gonna get chewed out by a lot of single gals for this ;D
either change and learn how to be an ass till she falls for ya...once she's fallen then you can go ahead and be nice..but not to nice...
OR you could simply avoid the whole mess by dating european girls...the non americanized ones..
Naughty Naughty referance to "americanized" you in trouble now... ;D
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I have fallen hopelessly in love with her personality. See, she cuts herself. She's miserable. She has so many problems. She's funny. She's crazy. That is such a turn on to me for some reason, I want to be the guy that takes away all her pain and suffering. But she doesn't want me back. :'(
Danny wheres his PIC? Get that in archive dude cuz this guy could be a stalker.
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Danny wheres his PIC?
I don't know, he is that Arab who took a picture of his mom giving him a piggy back ride.
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You know what's ironic, women will tell him how cute and sweet he is, and any advice is vague, but the dudes will tell him exactly how to pull some tail. it seems like women want to sabotage any effort in a man getting tail, but also hindering him that person from being a man that women actually want.
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You know what's ironic, women will tell him how cute and sweet he is, and any advice is vague, but the dudes will tell him exactly how to pull some tail. it seems like women want to sabotage any effort in a man getting tail, but also hindering him that person from being a man that women actually want.
Parker,
That nugg needs to be who he is regardless of how it affects his potential prospects. There's nothing worse than someone who tries to be something they're not. They all fail in the end and look foolish doing so.
Don't enourage him.
DIV
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Mahg, trab gives you some pretty good advice.
You might wanna try it out on some other girl, ...not the one who cuts herself.
There's more baggage there than Samsonite.
Also PM Always Sore. He's advised guys on this before and i think he'd probably be on point again.
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I was rejected yesterday by a girl who has said I "make her laugh", am "hilarious" etc. I thought it meant she could be interested, since she clearly stated in her blog she wants a guy who is "intelligent", "able to hold a conversation", "make her laugh". I am nothing if not those 3. :D
So what's the deal? Why can't I catch a break? Perhaps it has something to do with my height and looks even though women always say "looks don't matter". ::)
Side rant: It's funny that all these douchebags who just want to have sex with a girl and be done with her get all the tang they want and then avoid the girl. I am one of the "good guys" who wants a commitment, who will stay, yet we can't catch a break in this fucking world! >:( Guys that don't give a shit about women always get them, maybe that's what I should try to be? ???
No...being funny doesn't put you in the friend zone. Usually the main factor is that she simply isn't interested in you romantically and she just doesn't know how else to put it other then "lets be friends". In that case either move on or simply be friends with her. Don't be afraid to move on either as there is no point in chasing something that is un-chasable. There are a ton of lovely women around that will be more then happy to be with you. Just my two pennies.
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No...being funny doesn't put you in the friend zone. Usually the main factor is that she simply isn't interested in you romantically and she just doesn't know how else to put it other then "lets be friends". In that case either move on or simply be friends with her. Don't be afraid to move on either as there is no point in chasing something that is un-chasable. There are a ton of lovely women around that will be more then happy to be with you. Just my two pennies.
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Good sense... Also never burn bridges unnecessarily. You never know later on down the line... Perhaps a friend of hers?
If you get all frustrated and go off pissed, your done in the future w/ ANYTHING remotely connected to her..
But dont hang around whats pointless...
I got a friend who can leave a relationship on good terms when most guys would punch... Well, thru the years some of those women have been worth a lot (Business) to him later on....
It's Easier said than done...
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Naughty Naughty referance to "americanized" you in trouble now... ;D
i make like a grasshoppah and go poof!
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Parker,
That nugg needs to be who he is regardless of how it affects his potential prospects. There's nothing worse than someone who tries to be something they're not. They all fail in the end and look foolish doing so.
Don't enourage him.
DIV
True, what i mean is play to one's strength's, but the whole "wait one day" bull can only go so far. I'm saying acting like the fools on "the pick up artist"
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True, what i mean is play to one's strength's, but the whole "wait one day" bull can only go so far. I'm saying acting like the fools on "the pick up artist"
A man's true nature will always show through eventually.
If you are a nice guy, there's nothing that will change that and what's the point in trying?
If a woman can't love you for who you are, then she's not the right one.
Always be who you are, Parker.
DIV
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A man's true nature will always show through eventually.
If you are a nice guy, there's nothing that will change that and what's the point in trying?
If a woman can't love you for who you are, then she's not the right one.
Always be who you are, Parker.
DIV
Who we are, is a constant state of becoming... esp for a young guy like the one here...
Shit changes us, sometimes real hard and fast......
If you dont have credibility, you cant sell water in the desert.....
But sales skills, closing the deal is VERY learnable sheit......
And that is all scoring is..
He has to define what exactly "nice" is blowin the deal 4 him....
That is, IF He'z actually gotten to where these relations could-of should-of went physical.
Women like strong hands for more'n just opening a jar of penutbutter for them ;).
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Who we are, is a constant state of becoming... esp for a young guy like the one here...
Shit changes us, sometimes real hard and fast......
If you dont have credibility, you cant sell water in the desert.....
But sales skills, closing the deal is VERY learnable sheit......
And that is all scoring is..
He has to define what exactly "nice" is blowin the deal 4 him....
That is, IF He'z actually gotten to where these relations could-of should-of went physical.
Women like strong hands for more'n just opening a jar of penutbutter for them ;).
Excellent point, Trab.
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Who we are, is a constant state of becoming... esp for a young guy like the one here...
Shit changes us, sometimes real hard and fast......
If you dont have credibility, you cant sell water in the desert.....
But sales skills, closing the deal is VERY learnable sheit......
And that is all scoring is..
He has to define what exactly "nice" is blowin the deal 4 him....
That is, IF He'z actually gotten to where these relations could-of should-of went physical.
Women like strong hands for more'n just opening a jar of penutbutter for them ;).
Yep, ...there's also plenty of furniture to be moved around the house too. :P
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Chicks like t3h funny...
Men and women can be friends, but you do it to yourself for the most part... If you are cool with being a chicks friend... that's great, you're her friend... but if you don't want to be their friend... sometimes, you gotta act a little shitty to get the chick you want. Don't be mean, but you can't just kiss ass either... You gotta be cock diesel and show a chick you're confident and have some balls.
Chicks need to feel secure around you.
Don't be a push over... You want a chick to dig you... be funny, nice (but not clingy nice), and not take their shit...
Good luck.
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Who we are, is a constant state of becoming... esp for a young guy like the one here...
Shit changes us, sometimes real hard and fast......
If you dont have credibility, you cant sell water in the desert.....
But sales skills, closing the deal is VERY learnable sheit......
And that is all scoring is..
He has to define what exactly "nice" is blowin the deal 4 him....
That is, IF He'z actually gotten to where these relations could-of should-of went physical.
Women like strong hands for more'n just opening a jar of penutbutter for them ;).
I think that whole mentality of selling yourself is overplayed and it's the type of game I don't even play with women.
I don't need to sell anything.........I am the same person regardless of the woman or the circumstances.
They see me flaws and all...
I am not right for all women, actually only a small percentage of women and likewise there are only a couple specific types of women I go for, so it works.
Let's just say that there are many more women trying to attract my interest than those I would ever consider.
Part of that is the fact that I don't play games or chase...
I'm also a trainer, so that helps.
DIV
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I think that whole mentality of selling yourself is overplayed and it's the type of game I don't even play with women.
I don't need to sell anything.........I am the same person regardless of the woman or the circumstances.
They see me flaws and all...
I am not right for all women, actually only a small percentage of women and likewise there are only a couple specific types of women I go for, so it works.
Let's just say that there are many more women trying to attract my interest than those I would ever consider.
Part of that is the fact that I don't play games or chase...
I'm also a trainer, so that helps.
DIV
Definately do not play the chase. Your right about that. I always believed that the suckers play the chase. In the end it makes them look hurting. I would rather just spend the time and just find someone new.
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Definately do not play the chase. Your right about that. I always believed that the suckers play the chase. In the end it makes them look hurting. I would rather just spend the time and just find someone new.
I always thought that real players don't chase women, yet all these so-called players are as bad as women themselves.
I've never needed to chase a woman........
DIV
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I always thought that real players don't chase women, yet all these so-called players are as bad as women themselves.
I've never needed to chase a woman........
DIV
Agreed 100% . I say the time you waste chasing someone is time wasted when you could be with other ladies.
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Agreed 100% . I say the time you waste chasing someone is time wasted when you could be with other ladies.
Exactly there loss...Mahg, you most likely need a overhaul, are your teeth yellow?? the whiten them, get a hair cut, get some cologne, change your wardrobe
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Update. Great. She accepted when I said I love her, she won't have sex till marriage, and she's stalking me now and I want to get away.
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Ohhh boy... ::)
Life sucks and then you die. >:(
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Update. Great. She accepted when I said I love her, she won't have sex till marriage, and she's stalking me now and I want to get away.
You have GOT to be kidding me. :o
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You have GOT to be kidding me. :o
Lori, all her stories scare the fuck out of me. All these suicidal thoughts, cutting, the sexual abuse that her dad put her through, how she wakes up in the middle of night screaming that her dad's raping her even when he's not there. She's very intense and scary. I am scared of her dude.. :-\
Edit: And how for some strange reason she's going to die soon, how her best friend died 2 days after she was supposed to die or some crazy shit like that... I don't know man but I am scared shitless. Some prank about him and he cycled to visit her to make sure she was alive but he died 2 days later and how she's going to die too. I dont know dude I'm just scared ... :-\ :-\ :-\ :-\ :-\
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Ohhh boy... ::)
Life sucks and then you die. >:(
Life's what you make it.
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She sent me this: "go from me, yet i feel i shall stand, Hence forward in thy shadow"
I SWEAR TO GOD MAN, SHES GOING TO KILL ME. HOLY SHIT. IF I DIE FIND THAT GIRL.
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WAIT.......WHAT?!! Slow down man. wtf is going on?
Now she's stalking you? Who thinks they are going to die?!? ???
She's clearly got some issues, but you have known about the self-mutilation and the abuse, and all that stuff all along, and you still wanted her. You said you told her you loved her? And now what has changed to make you change your mind?
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Mahg,
Everyone advised you to bail, bro.
Not one person here is surprised by this.
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She sent me this: "go from me, yet i feel i shall stand, Hence forward in thy shadow"
I SWEAR TO GOD MAN, SHES GOING TO KILL ME. HOLY SHIT. IF I DIE FIND THAT GIRL.
Look, if your for real here and not another GB gimmick - LEAVE HER RIGHT NOW.
cHANGE YOUR PH #.... Do everything you can to put as much space between her and you - NOW!
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WAIT.......WHAT?!! Slow down man. wtf is going on?
Now she's stalking you? Who thinks they are going to die?!? ???
She's clearly got some issues, but you have known about the self-mutilation and the abuse, and all that stuff all along, and you still wanted her. You said you told her you loved her? And now what has changed to make you change your mind?
Well, he doesn't have a CLUE as to what love really is... Oh... and the bitch is PSYCHO!!!
I'm laughing my ass off at this... (no offense dude), but you knew she was fucked up when you met her... you either deal with the fuckedupedness or you roll out... I'd have rolled out long ago.
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Well, he doesn't have a CLUE as to what love really is... Oh... and the bitch is PSYCHO!!!
I'm laughing my ass off at this... (no offense dude), but you knew she was fucked up when you met her... you either deal with the fuckedupedness or you roll out... I'd have rolled out long ago.
That's my word, Dammit!!!!!!!
:)
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If he's for real, its gonna be hard to even peel her off. Hope He's not sleeping w/ her.
BAIL.
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What happened to this guy? :)
Then school me trab. I want to score WAY out of my league and make her jealous. Its not even looks, I have fallen hopelessly in love with her personality. See, she cuts herself. She's miserable. She has so many problems. She's funny. She's crazy. That is such a turn on to me for some reason, I want to be the guy that takes away all her pain and suffering. But she doesn't want me back. :'(
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Nicely played mahg.
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Fucking beauuuuutiful.
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Nicely played mahg.
lol
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You guys are too harsh.
No one could possibly expect a cutter to totally freak out after being told somebody loves them.
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THey are major baggage. A Guy I worked with was MARRIED TO one. She was crazy/ scary.
I was allways waiting for her to come to a job site shooting.
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mahg, I was reading your thread again...Did you just go after this girl because you knew she was vulnerable and you were trying to get laid? ???
No Lori, what do you think I am, some kind of scumbag?
The fact of the matter is I thought I was in love with her, but after actually spending time with her, looking in her dead scary eyes and hearing all her stories, I am scared shitless of her.
Over MSN chat the stuff she said made less of an impact, but when I was with her and looking in her eyes it was scary. And there were 20 more stories that I hadn't heard yet, one worse than the next. She says people try to kill her in her sleep and when she wakes up they're not there WTF.
My heart was screaming "RUN RUN RUN THIS PSYCHO IS GOING TO KILL YOU OMG ASSHOLE WHAT HAVE YOU GOTTEN YOURSELF INTO".
And she calls me non stop. I'm so going to die she's going to kill me. :-\
I must find a way to break it off without pissing her off.
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No Lori, what do you think I am, some kind of scumbag?
The fact of the matter is I thought I was in love with her, but after actually spending time with her, looking in her dead scary eyes and hearing all her stories, I am scared shitless of her.
Over MSN chat the stuff she said made less of an impact, but when I was with her and looking in her eyes it was scary. And there were 20 more stories that I hadn't heard yet, one worse than the next. She says people try to kill her in her sleep and when she wakes up they're not there WTF.
My heart was screaming "RUN RUN RUN THIS PSYCHO IS GOING TO KILL YOU OMG ASSHOLE WHAT HAVE YOU GOTTEN YOURSELF INTO".
And she calls me non stop. I'm so going to die she's going to kill me. :-\
I must find a way to break it off without pissing her off.
It doesn't sound like there is really much to "break off" at this point...maybe you should tell her that you really feel like she needs to seek some professional help for her issues, and that it's not healthy for either one of you to move forward with any sort of relationship until she does. Tell her that you are telling her this as her friend and because you care about her.
Would she be willing to seek help? Does she realize that she has some serious problems?
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No Lori, what do you think I am, some kind of scumbag?
The fact of the matter is I thought I was in love with her, but after actually spending time with her, looking in her dead scary eyes and hearing all her stories, I am scared shitless of her.
Over MSN chat the stuff she said made less of an impact, but when I was with her and looking in her eyes it was scary. And there were 20 more stories that I hadn't heard yet, one worse than the next. She says people try to kill her in her sleep and when she wakes up they're not there WTF.
My heart was screaming "RUN RUN RUN THIS PSYCHO IS GOING TO KILL YOU OMG ASSHOLE WHAT HAVE YOU GOTTEN YOURSELF INTO".
And she calls me non stop. I'm so going to die she's going to kill me. :-\
I must find a way to break it off without pissing her off.
Baby Mahgs.....
It's guys like you who give "nice guys" a bad name. :-X
You've already dug too deep a hole for yourself to climb out of intact.
I don't know who is worse, the mentally unhinged woman or you, the guy listening to her and playing along in this sick charade.
You should have referred her to help immediately because it's obvious you have your own deep-seated issues which preclude you from helping anyone.
I would shake you violently if I knew you in real life.
You are the problem, son.
DIV
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Ya know, Div.
I disagree with the way you said that but you are dead right.
Lori tried being nice and he totally missed the point.
It looks like mahg (on a deeper level) went after damaged goods figuring someone who needed that much help would really appreciate/love him.
Well mahg, bad/good thing is it's impossible to dump someone you were never dating. :)
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Ya know, Div.
I disagree with the way you said that but you are dead right.
Lori tried being nice and he totally missed the point.
It looks like mahg (on a deeper level) went after damaged goods figuring someone who needed that much help would really appreciate/love him.
Well mahg, bad/good thing is it's impossible to dump someone you were never dating. :)
True... If you haven't kicked it with the crazy broad, then how can she think you're an item? How old are you again?
I kinda like crazy bitches in the sack, they'll do anything you want, but if you break up with them, you'll be fearing for your life...
Gotta take the good with the bad.
8)
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Some of those crazy girls have mad 'verbal' skills.
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Div hit it on the head, you're letting this shit go on.
Little bro, your only 16 man...have fun be yourself, ditch drama. First of all your not dealing with women...your dealing with girls, young girls who THINK they know what they want. Everyone changes dramatically in their first 30yrs..I promise you won't be the same person you are now when 18 then to 21 to 25 finally to 30 when you have a pretty good sense of who you are and where you're going...though the quest to self improvement should never die.
Get a great education and a great job. Improving yourself in a mature way via conversational skills, wittiness, respect, morals (or a least have set boundaries that you will stand up for), will get you further than you think with a SANE female.
Young, immature girls are interested in bank accounts, swinging cocks and anything that will benefit them...plus this one sounds freaking nuts.
Real, Sane, mature women by nature do want a provider / protector but, also want a great conversationalist, listener,loyal, has integrity, good father potential (maybe), supporter, equal rights (as in chores), and most of all patience to handle all the complexities that come with her and a relationship.
If you try to force something...it will only backfire, as you're finding out...learn when to walk.
Patience and stop taking life so seriously...for now, and run like hell from this chick. If you seriously thinks she's capable of hurting you or herself you should say something to your parents or the school counselor.
The only SERIOUS decisions you should be making right now are Protected sex (hopefully not negotiable when and if it happens), your stand on alcohol / drugs (what ever it may be) and what college your applying for in a year or so.
Your time with the ladies will come bro, stick to your guns, don't change who you are for chick..she won't respect it, neither will anyone else. Quality vs. Quantity.
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Ya know, Div.
I disagree with the way you said that but you are dead right.
Lori tried being nice and he totally missed the point.
It looks like mahg (on a deeper level) went after damaged goods figuring someone who needed that much help would really appreciate/love him.
Well mahg, bad/good thing is it's impossible to dump someone you were never dating. :)
The thing is, with some people you have to break things down to the bare minimum with no tact in order for them to understand.
Similiar to a slap in the face, it stings, but at least they get it.
Mahgs needs a slap to the face and a kick to the nuts in order to get it through his head that he needs to reverse course because he's obviously in too deep to know he's in too deep.
That's where the shaking him violently comes in to play.
Some people absolutely don't understand concepts unless you beat it in to them.
He's worried about being that "friend zone" and it turns out he's actually about to be in the "stalked zone".
DIV
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The thing is, with some people you have to break things down to the bare minimum with no tact in order for them to understand.
Similiar to a slap in the face, it stings, but at least they get it.
Mahgs needs a slap to the face and a kick to the nuts in order to get it through his head that he needs to reverse course because he's obviously in too deep to know he's in too deep.
That's where the shaking him violently comes in to play.
Some people absolutely don't understand concepts unless you beat it in to them.
He's worried about being that "friend zone" and it turns out he's actually about to be in the "stalked zone".
DIV
Amen.
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Mahg - Dont wory about "Pissing her off".
Save your skin here. Easy to get wrapped up in a real bad situation here.
You want her Prego? Think about that.
She might think thats the solution to ALL heR Problems... Her kind often does and will get Prego on pourpose!
Run, dont walk!
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No Lori, what do you think I am, some kind of scumbag?
The fact of the matter is I thought I was in love with her, but after actually spending time with her, looking in her dead scary eyes and hearing all her stories, I am scared shitless of her.
Over MSN chat the stuff she said made less of an impact, but when I was with her and looking in her eyes it was scary. And there were 20 more stories that I hadn't heard yet, one worse than the next. She says people try to kill her in her sleep and when she wakes up they're not there WTF.
My heart was screaming "RUN RUN RUN THIS PSYCHO IS GOING TO KILL YOU OMG ASSHOLE WHAT HAVE YOU GOTTEN YOURSELF INTO".
And she calls me non stop. I'm so going to die she's going to kill me. :-\
I must find a way to break it off without pissing her off.
Damn dude. Get this whacked out chick on video. I wanna see these dead scary eyes. It's your duty to warn others really.
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Don't listen to these guys mahg.
Go watch some porn and live out every sexual fantasy you can imagine with this nutcase.
Eventually she'll tire of the attention and leave. :)
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Don't listen to these guys mahg.
Go watch some porn and live out every sexual fantasy you can imagine with this nutcase.
Eventually she'll tire of the attention and leave. :)
Don't give him ideas, he's too impressionable.
The fact that he got with her in the first place leads me to believe he'd probably have sex with her as well.
Playing with fire. :-\
DIV
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Don't give him ideas, he's too impressionable.
The fact that he got with her in the first place leads me to believe he'd probably have sex with her as well.
Playing with fire. :-\
DIV
These guys/girls don't mean well, mahg.
Hit it!
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These guys/girls don't mean well, mahg.
Hit it!
We don't want baby Mahgs with progressive inherited personality disorder.... :-\
That's what would happen.
DIV
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Div hit it on the head, you're letting this shit go on.
Little bro, your only 16 man...have fun be yourself, ditch drama. First of all your not dealing with women...your dealing with girls, young girls who THINK they know what they want. Everyone changes dramatically in their first 30yrs..I promise you won't be the same person you are now when 18 then to 21 to 25 finally to 30 when you have a pretty good sense of who you are and where you're going...though the quest to self improvement should never die.
Get a great education and a great job. Improving yourself in a mature way via conversational skills, wittiness, respect, morals (or a least have set boundaries that you will stand up for), will get you further than you think with a SANE female.
Young, immature girls are interested in bank accounts, swinging cocks and anything that will benefit them...plus this one sounds freaking nuts.
Real, Sane, mature women by nature do want a provider / protector but, also want a great conversationalist, listener,loyal, has integrity, good father potential (maybe), supporter, equal rights (as in chores), and most of all patience to handle all the complexities that come with her and a relationship.
If you try to force something...it will only backfire, as you're finding out...learn when to walk.
Patience and stop taking life so seriously...for now, and run like hell from this chick. If you seriously thinks she's capable of hurting you or herself you should say something to your parents or the school counselor.
The only SERIOUS decisions you should be making right now are Protected sex (hopefully not negotiable when and if it happens), your stand on alcohol / drugs (what ever it may be) and what college your applying for in a year or so.
Your time with the ladies will come bro, stick to your guns, don't change who you are for chick..she won't respect it, neither will anyone else. Quality vs. Quantity.
Very Well said! I can never understand those that seek out damaged goods in order to "rescue them".
I always have to wonder about people whose penchant is to do just that. (http://www.jaguarenterprises.net/images/em/shrug.gif)
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Should we be concerned that mahg hasn't been online in five days? :-\
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Should we be concerned that mahg hasn't been online in five days? :-\
I'm still alive. ::) :)
Busy all week. Hey it's Saturday night, and the UFC is on in 25 minutes. Double yeah!! 8)
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I'm still alive. ::) :)
Busy all week. Hey it's Saturday night, and the UFC is on in 25 minutes. Double yeah!! 8)
I'm glad to see that you are still alive. :)
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I'm still alive. ::) :)
Busy all week. Hey it's Saturday night, and the UFC is on in 25 minutes. Double yeah!! 8)
Give us an update, Mahgster.
Are you still caught up in that friend zone?
Speak! :o
DIV