Div hit it on the head, you're letting this shit go on.
Little bro, your only 16 man...have fun be yourself, ditch drama. First of all your not dealing with women...your dealing with girls, young girls who THINK they know what they want. Everyone changes dramatically in their first 30yrs..I promise you won't be the same person you are now when 18 then to 21 to 25 finally to 30 when you have a pretty good sense of who you are and where you're going...though the quest to self improvement should never die.
Get a great education and a great job. Improving yourself in a mature way via conversational skills, wittiness, respect, morals (or a least have set boundaries that you will stand up for), will get you further than you think with a SANE female.
Young, immature girls are interested in bank accounts, swinging cocks and anything that will benefit them...plus this one sounds freaking nuts.
Real, Sane, mature women by nature do want a provider / protector but, also want a great conversationalist, listener,loyal, has integrity, good father potential (maybe), supporter, equal rights (as in chores), and most of all patience to handle all the complexities that come with her and a relationship.
If you try to force something...it will only backfire, as you're finding out...learn when to walk.
Patience and stop taking life so seriously...for now, and run like hell from this chick. If you seriously thinks she's capable of hurting you or herself you should say something to your parents or the school counselor.
The only SERIOUS decisions you should be making right now are Protected sex (hopefully not negotiable when and if it happens), your stand on alcohol / drugs (what ever it may be) and what college your applying for in a year or so.
Your time with the ladies will come bro, stick to your guns, don't change who you are for chick..she won't respect it, neither will anyone else. Quality vs. Quantity.
