You can only delay the inevitable, bible thumper.
It is that precise mentality that has cost supporters of gay "marriage" dearly.
What went down in California in 2008, in Maine last year (as well as New York) has put a KABOSH to the long-touted yet tired canard from certain liberals, that gay "marriage" is inevitable.
Notice the pattern here: EVERYWHERE gay "marriage" has been legalized has been a city, state, or country with a far-left government, which keeps the people from voting on this issue.
Yet, when the people's voice get heard via the ballot box, gay "marriage" goes down in flames, as has happened THIRTY-ONE TIMES in the USA.
Besides, you claimed that the "religious nutjobs" were spending the most money. That's not the case (at least not in FL, CA, and ME). Gay "marriage" supporters OUTSPENT their opponents but LOST.