I'm a little insulted no one ever tried to molest me.
Never? You were never with a woman before who was drunk and who you would - under other circumstances - do sexual things with her, but she pushed it too far with you as a result of being intoxicated and then "forgot" when you brought it up the next day?
I'm wondering how many of these cases take that form. Regrettable sex is not rape, and from time to time, both genders are a bit pushy with their spouses. Is that rape? I can tell you that while I have had women get their way with me after being extremely pushy and not taking no for an answer, that I would not wish to charge any of them.
Lastly, did George Takei not stop and think how that handjob incident on the Howard Stern show would come across? Be it for him in general, or even the homosexual community in general. You'd think that a group that wants to get away from stereotypes of being perverted, that they might not want to embrace something like that. Just my opinion.