Hey MCWAY!
"One of biggest reasons black women are single, Cooper says, is because of a lack of black men in the church. According to the PEW study, "African-American men are significantly more likely than women to be unaffiliated with any religion"
Interesting! I have read the reason so many black women in America are single is because of "a lack of black men in college." Black women have gotten wiser, going to and actually finishing college, getting great jobs, etc. Few black men on the other hand finish high school, and if they do, few of them go to college, and if they do go to college, few of them finish. There are far more educated black women out there than educated black men, and these women want to marry an educated man. Anyway, that is what I've read.
About black women in church, I think it applies to any woman in church. There are men out there who prefer to marry the church woman. Some of these men go to church to find this type of woman. Maybe some churches just don't have enough of these men anymore.
Well, the black women in Church thing...women in general tend to be more emotional, and th black Church tends to prey or should I say cater to that aspect. Notice how all the Preachers tend to be flamboyant---there is a term, "Pimps in the Pulpit"....Also the Black Church tends not to address certain aspects of reality---black women tend to be the cause of lack of black men, period...they focus on racism.
Black women starting with the baby boom generation have continually picked men who will not stay around...slam, bam, thank you ma'am...
Thus, they treat the sons almost like boyfriends, and have men in and out of their lives, and if they they have daughters the daugthers see this as well, and repeat the process---
But, not just black women, but women in general are going to college more, and many are outpacing men in advanced degrees. For instance, there are more women in Law School and graduating from Law School than men.
When I went to see my sister receive her Master's at UMBC, I saw that there were far more black women---black women and Asians made up the bulk of the graduates.
Black women have to set standards for Black men---as it is the woman who picks the man, and yes black men will surely but slowly rise to meet those standards...
McWay, I went to Morgan State University, and it was a lot of women per man, but then not all women are off the chain, as I told one person, not all black women are "beautiful black butterflies waiting to be captured in the net of love".
Furthermore, the saying go to Church to find a good woman, no longer applies to today...Spike on here was screwing a married English teacher who was in the Church Choir...and she was sending him ass shots, breast shots, etc...yeah, good woman, right
Many of the women who go to Church especially in the Black Church are searching for a emotional crutch---a outlet for their issues, that they themselves have caused, and want "God" to fix or send a man in their lives, which is the last thing they need.
Again, there is nothing wrong with black men, if one wants to bake a apple pie, one gets ripe apples, not rotten ones, correct? Well black women need to up their standards and stop picking rotten apples to make a pie...they are our quality control...something the feminist movement neglected to tell women of all races---that was and is a woman's most important job