Milos, your are a father figure to these guys. They are going to beat you up until they can't anymore. They just want to make sure you are for real. That you really like them, that you see them and wont abandon them. Too many fathers psychically abandon their kids. These guys want to know if your the real thing. I admire you for holding your ground. You must care about them on some level.
Off course I do...
I am not embarrassed to say: I LOVE PEOPLE IN GENERAL...
I love to see people succeed, I love to see them being happy...enjoy life...smiling...being productive...doing things that makes them happy with their friends and families...helping others...etc...etc...
Life is a beautiful thing and I realized long ago that being nice to everyone...next door neighboor as well as complete stranger on the street could bring numerous wonderful things to both of us in our lives...
Making friends and not the enemies is my motto and I live my life like this...
Off course many people do not want to accept friendly hand...and I cannot make everyone (or anyone) love me...But it does happen more often than not...
For example - I am writing right now on the thread that complete stranger (True Adonis) started - accusing me of many horrible things...
Do I jump on him and call him names?
Do I get in fight?
I don't believe in that.
However, I don't allow anyone simply saying things about me...and whenever my time permits - I do get involved in discussion.
I answer ALL the questions and I make myself available to answer attacks and accusations...
Do I have to do that? Certainly NOT...but I choose to...
I have nothing to hide...I am proud of myself and I mean well to everyone...
Off course - when I am attacked continuously I do have to give some (usually sarcastic) explanations and I point out numerous things that other people don't like to hear...
But I never say things people like hearing...I tell things they NEED to hear...so there you have it...
LOVE is power that should drive this world...and not hate...
Haters and negative people should realize that all that negativity, hate, attacks...etc lead to only more hate, negativity, counterattacks...and WHO NEEDS THAT?
And what is that good for?
Instead - helping others...LOVING your neighboor and perfect stranger on the street SHOULD be within all of us...Try it and you'll see - it doesn't hurt a bit...
It actually might even feel good...and whoever experience it WILL probably change forever.
Love - and you'll be loved...hate and - well...you can guess...