I saw Dexter Years Ago at The Melbourne Grand Prix, and I couldn't help thinking his muscles look surreal in person, for some reason, he seemed small and not freaky, there were guys there that didn't place to well that were freaks, monsters - looked better than Dex in Clothes - Freakier, more like what a bodybuilder should look like. The Flex Wheelers of the world are fine if you have a vagina - but most men in the world aspire to a strong dense powerful physique that can be shown of and utilised in practical day to day living. Hope this helps