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How do I tell her to pay more?

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Migs:

--- Quote from: James28 on November 23, 2014, 10:25:08 PM ---Thought I'd drop this in here instead of G&O where it'll run off tangent within 3 posts and we end up with a picture of a penis or a naked picture of someone's dad.

I'm in a relationship where there's a massive difference in income levels. I work full time and run my own company ... full time. Needless to say, I'm fucking busy. But it's making me nice money and I'm sitting pretty every month. My girlfriend works as a primary school teacher and loves her job. However, she's on a low income and don't have a ton of room for making more if she stays in education.

While on paper this shouldn't matter, relationships aren't made of paper. I pay all the rent, so to speak. She picks up the fixed bills (300 bucks a month give or take) and whoever happens to be in a food store at the time, grabs the food. Holidays, I pay for. Hotels, flights, entertainment, etc. When we go out of dinner, I pay for it. If we go out drinking with friends, I usually pay for it.

I know it should't bother me but it does. Or it's starting to more and more. Whenever I approach the subject, she just throws it in my face that it shouldn't matter as we're together and share everything. Or when I really get annoyed with her about this, she'd just say that I earn 10 times more than her and shouldn't mind paying for more.

I earn more. But should I be expected to pay for more?

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She is living it up on your dime.  Congrats.  She shares everything that is yours.  If you get hitched, she's set.  Get ready to lose at least half of everything you own.  She's being greedy and unappreciative.

BayGBM:

--- Quote from: Quickerblade on November 25, 2014, 06:31:33 PM ---I bet he was a getbigger.
What a loser.

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I cannot argue the point, and certainly that was one way to look at him.  Part of me was stunned to know someone his age who had accomplished so little in life.  I confess after the first couple weeks I had doubts about my ability to introduce Mr. Muscles to my circle of friends, family, or coworkers, but I was determined not to "disqualify" him based on his income so it was the height of irony for him to disqualify me for essentially the same reason.

If you chat up guys at the gym, you quickly learn that there are many such men in circulation. :-[

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