As someone said - it depends on your personality. I personally found that being "big" has helped me on many occasions, simply by getting some kind of an "exclusive respect" (once again - personality must go along with the physique) and thus - favours or people going out of their way to help me/offer a better way to achieve something, etc... WHen some morons here laugh that being a bodybuilder impresses males, but not females, well - there's some truth in that, for sure, but it MAY be a big advantage, as when you are dealing with various bussiness - most of the time it's males that you are dealing with and getting a respect before you even say a word in some cases is very good.