I'm useless at lying.
I also don't ordinarily waver all over the boards, tending to stick to the Girly Board, where I'm supposed to be safe (no bashing there?)
Butterbean is and has been the moderator there for ever, as well as on a few other boards, you can trust her.
I just happened to be scrolling around, bored, and saw your post re: pm's and thought I'd offer my knowledge, but I'm sure it's very different for women, there are about ten of us posting here on Getbig. Come to the girly board (scroll down lots, it's near the xyz and dirty boards) and find us there, ok Biggy?
Watch out for Princess, the new mod on our Girly Board, she's somewhat strict and you must first register there in one of the bold threads (they make it complicated on purpose) before posting and you must agree to not bash.
Once you get past all that, it's lovely and fluffy and pink... Only kidding, there's noone there anymore, it's rubbish - they're moving all our clever threads to the Politics and/or Religious Boards, it's all gone mad.
You can wish me happy birthday there though, please do that? G'night xxxL
take care
L