Me being there is the last thing Milos wants. Milos likes to surround himself with people that help keep his huge ego afloat and my questions and comments in person would sink that ship fast. I don't care that Milos is a huge guy, I'm as poignant as Mike Wallace from 60 Minutes and it's likely I'd send Milos into a violent rage because I'm too much for him.
My dear Hammer - I just read you previous two posts and due to my work schedule I will not answer as usual (in depth, answering each and every of your statements, assumptions, attacks, psycho analysis...or whatever else). Instead I will try to summarize everything in following:
Most of the answers - you already answered...:"
Oh and by the way I respect you for communicating with the people here on Getbig. I've heard many people say that this board is at the core of bodybuilding and we'll make you or break you. You've been here for years and have withstood the onslaught of abuse that would drive a normal man to suicide. Other competitors have posted here and been driven away, but you're headstrong and I commend you for that."......I am still here on GETBIG after numerous others left...as they couldn't stand the heat, all the negativity...or simply as they realized that it is not worth their time...
I am here for a different reason:
My life philosophy is MAKE FRIENDS AND NOT THE ENEMIES...I said that way to many times...and this board is filled with people involved in SAME occupation that is my profession of choice.
It is probably easy to realize that I am passionate about bodybuilding - and this IS one of the premier bodybuilding boards in the world, thus - makes perfect sense for me to visit here as often as I can...
Now, due to whatever reason (subject of long discussion) - many of you guys are for some reason frustrated, not happy and find very easily someone to pick on...and attack - usually for no reason.
Let's just go straight to the point and see your case with me:
Do you know me? Did you ever talk to me?
If you did...and AFTER our conversation/meeting you made ANY statements...than - I will probably have a reason to possibly listen to what you are saying (as some might be TRUE)...
I always listen to the people that I know - and I listen very carefully...as I assume they would honestly give me their observations/opinions...
And (also I mentioned number of times) I listen and appreciate criticisms much more than compliments - from a simple reason that complimenting someone is "oh so easy" and therefore possibly NOT sincere...
That's why I do like to hear criticism - as I always take it constructively...
On another hand, someone LIKE YOU, who openly admits that you are jealous of me :
"And you being pissed off kinda makes me happy because I'm jealous of everything you have."how and why would you ever think that your comments (whatever that might be) could have ANY IMPACT on me?
Certainly, it is your wishful thinking and you are so proudly proclaiming your "victory" over me - stating that what you HOPE to be true is: actual truth...
...Just like a boxer who punched me so hard with his chin straight into my right fist...and "winning ::)the fight" by a virtue of getting so many points by the judges who awarded him for his spectacular fall - as he unconsciously kissed the floor - nose first...
Your kind of criticism (and pointless attacks) where absolutely NOTHING mentioned is remotely close to the truth - could not affect me - or anyone else...as it is simply "wishful thinking of the hater" who is hoping that I...what - maybe DIE
Think about that when you are alone...If you are happy with something NEGATIVE that would happen in my life - what will be your ultimate happiness? I mentioned DEATH for a reason...
Try to realize how bad that sounds...It is truly sad that people like that exist..
Even here (on getbig) there are some miserable souls who would much rather see someone's else misfortune and fall (mine)...than focus on their own success.
They would celebrate if ANYTHING negative would happen to someone (me) rather than thinking of anyone's (mine) success as something positive...something that would motivate them to be just as (or MORE) successful in any aspect of their lives...
We have even those
who would try to set people up, bluntly lie...again just to see others hurt...in trouble...or suffering...
They would call themselves BORN
AGAIN...just like some would claim they are vegetarians while they are stuffing their faces with Big Mac and hoping that world would have their eyes closed during that one second when they take a big bite...
Oh well...if it means anything to you - I will give you a victory - just like that poor boxer got (to compensate for his loss of teeth...and else)...
It is nothing like seeing people happy...and you are obviously in desperate need to be happy - so if that puts a smile on your face Einstein - you won!
I love to see smiles, happiness, achievements and success in others...it fuels me, makes me happy and motivates me...(contrary to YOU and others who don't realize what is life all about).
It is about LOVING, GIVING, ENJOYING LIFE TO THE FULLEST and not wasting it on pointless jealousy and hatred.
My father (psychiatrist) raised me and my sister with clear message that MIND is beyond powerful...and whoever manages to have their mind in control - will have EVERYTHING!
Well, I do...
You think that it is a coincidence that out of all the nicknames my "industry" gave me "THE MIND"...
Without mentioning cliche(s): believe-achieve; You are what you think; where mind goes body follows; see it and you'll be it...and I don't know how many other wisdoms we can mention in ONE CLEAR message and a direction that we should all live our lives:
You are what you think...and whatever that might be - it will manifest and YOU WILL BECOME WHAT YOU THINK OF YOURSELF...
Also, you will GET what you THINK about the most ...If you constantly and continuously think about it, believe it and visualise it...you will get it...for sure! Remember that. MIND IS THAT POWERFUL!
All that nonsense you are saying about me is IN YOUR MIND...not mine...so start wondering where it comes from and why?
Could it be that nerve that is being touched by getbigers is yours
?
Now, I am suggesting to you (and others who CAN hate and be jealous...as I don't know how that feels
) to realize that by known "law of attraction" whatever most of you think throughout a day - you are greatly attracting it to yourself...You think about HATE - hate will come to you...Think about LOVE on another hand and LOVE will come to you...
For me choice is very easy...I hope yours will change...(better sooner than later - so I hope you will read this few times
)
I absolutely refuse to hate anyone or wish anyone ANY misfortune...If I would I with attract THE SAME right back to me...So I don't...and that is just another reason why I don't let anyone or anything get to me...(here on getbig...or in life).
If I ever let myself into this kind of thinking - I would fail miserably to the most valuable lesson I got from my father at the very young age...
As I said: I love people and make friends as I go along...
Try it (doesn't hurt) and see how much better your life will be.
Finally - how much some of the getbigers "pushed my nerves" most of you already know...and exactly THOSE - like: Alexxx, Jae, Garreath, Michael Moore...and most recently Squad...who were once attacking me (like you are now) - changed their minds...
Ask them why?
They certainly had very few "good" words of choice for me in the beginning (just like you NOW) - but WITHOUT letting them get to me and giving them "positive energy"
(should I say: LOVE
...and yes - why not...LOVE IS WHAT IS LIFE ALL ABOUT ANYWAY...as gay as it sounds...
) - we overcame our differences...
So Hammer - I hope...there is a hope for you too...
