Interesting video.
Now, why are men seeking out a constant state of arousal?
Is it testosterone at play that basically hardwires our brains to like this?
Is it the changing social roles of women in today's society that, inherently, changes a man's role in society, thus changing the rules of the game?
I think it's both. We want women. We want women to want us. We want to be men (the way men have evolved over millennia as physical powerful people). And we want women to be the women we've come to believe women should be (soft, supportive, beautiful, faithful, dutiful, etc...).
Except now that's all changing. Women are more manly than ever. And men are forced to re-evaluate gender roles. Only problem is, physiology doesn't evolve in lock-step with society. In time, but certainly not now.
The result? Men want what they want, and if women won't live up to the expectations, then we'll find a produced version of women we can more easily digest (i.e. porn). At the end of the day, the porn women do for us what real women have, in the last few decades, stopped doing for us. What adds to the confusion is that amateur/homemade porn has put the women we want right on our doorstep, presented in a way we find pleasing. It's near impossible to resist. She's no longer made up and obviously fake. She can literally be your next door neighbor taking her clothes off for you. And she's sending those signals you want to see/hear...all you have to do is tune in and tune regular women out.
The inevitable conclusion? Women everywhere will grow increasingly frustrated with the fact that the men they want can't be found (too busy looking at porn for women they want). Women aren't stupid...they'll go where the men are. Which means more women doing amateur porn in the hopes of luring in a man, or at least trying out different internet personas trying to ply their wares into an online relationship where at least men will talk to them. Problem is, we're now forced to bare our most base desires on the web to each other, for all of the corporate world and big brother to watch, record, and note.
What an interesting web we all weave....
NOTE: Erin Stern (above) fits my idea of a woman (but only on the internet, where I don't have to interact with her).
