You can't do it.
Let me give you one small example. I went to a couple of NBA games this year. One game I got free tickets. 23rd row. All fat dopey, dried up housewives and their husbands who looked like they were all ready for the sweet release of death. The other game I paid for my tickets and they cost quite a bit. 2nd row. These expensive seats included access to an area with catered food. It was really nice. Every woman in the catered area was a dime piece. Tall, gorgeous girls with big boobs and hot outfits. Money attracts these bitches like moths to a flame. Bottom line, hot women do not sit in the 23rd row. They sure as hell don't sit in the upper deck.
This has nothing to do with "whores', but more of a "system".
Think of it like this, if you were a frumpy looking man, with little money, I'm willing to bet that you wished women would "see you" for your other attributes...And not just any woman, but the hot ones. Not the average chicks who wants to deal with you, and you dismiss...I mean, who wants an average chick, right? Even if the guy is average himself...
Now, lets make it that you have shaved, have better clothes and lost some weight. And have a better job, where you are making good money Now you have that square jaw, and six pack, and the ability to afford those "hot women"...and guess what, they now take notice, but you don't wish that they "see you" for you other atrritbutes (at least not now)...because you only saw them for what you thought of them back when you couldn't get them, as goal, an "it", and nothing beyond that. And now you with your money, represent the same thing to them. An "it", a entity, nothing more. Both of you have become empty vessels using one another. Yet, you didn't pay attention to average chick when you were frumpy, and you damn sure weren't paying attention to her when you had money and looked good.
So, this begs the question, is the "hot woman" wrong in not paying attention to the "old you", and hedging her bets with "new you"?