A previous coworker of mine is from Cameroon. He said the people back home are lazy and don't want to work. He sends half of his paycheck to his relatives and friends in Cameroon who beg him for money constantly. One day he said he was depressed, he had called his mom whom he hadn't seen for years telling her he would come and visit soon. His mom goes, "can't you send money instead?" She wasn't eager to see her son, she was more interested in getting money. He was trying to get his sisters to go to school but they were too lazy to go, despite being unemployed with nothing else to do. He would pay for school but they just wanted money from him to arrange big parties... his words.
He said his friends back home just wanted to party, smoke weed and drink, and fuck of course.
The way to get sex was to tell any girl in the street, "let's go party" and that was it.
He did go visit again after 5 years or so abroad and was dreading it a bit because he knew everyone would just ask for money. And he was sucked dry, first by customs who made him pay a bribe for whatever reason and then by family, and every friend and aquaintance he had.